my ex boyfriend and i broke up 2 months ago, and i have been thinking about him ever since..... ive tried dating other people but i still have these strong feelings for him. then on valentines day he sent me this message sayin happy v day and sayin that when he slows down at work he would want to try to go out again adn also be friends like we used to should i give him another shot??
2007-02-26 07:49:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well we dont know what he has done, but if you think whatever happened b/w you deserves another try then yeah, why not?
I do believe in second chances, I mean if you really want it to work out b/w you two, then go for it, so later on when you are moved on you wont regret not giving this another chance! you know? All I know is that if its not meant to be with him then he'll do something else and you will break up... but you do wanna know if this is meant to be.
Good luck hope everything turns good for you two :)
2007-02-26 07:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...It depends on why you guys broke up. If you broke up because he was busy at work than yeah why not give it another chance when he slows down at work. On the other hand if you broke up due to him cheating or doing you wrong in some way than I would say no do not give it another chance. This is really your judgement because you are the only one who knows if he is a good guy or not...Don't get back with him if you know in your heart that you shouldn't and you left him for a reason. I mean you have probably had a lot of progress in getting over him in the last couple of months and you wouldn't want to throw that away. Well...good luck! :)
2007-02-26 07:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by *Mariah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were the terms of your breakup? If he cheated on you, I would put some MAJOR thought into getting back together with him. From my experience with cheating boyfriends, they will always cheat.
If you broke up on other terms, I don't see why there would be a reason NOT to give him another chance.
My boyfriend and I broke up after 3 years of dating. A few months later, we got back together... we have been together another year and a half AND we are engaged...
Good things can come from time apart.
2007-02-26 07:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Linzie0901 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you broke up for and how long you dated. If it was just I'm too busy to see you and we should slow things down fine, maybe throw a dog a bone and give him another chance but if you caught him for the 11th time in bed with another woman, forget his ***. I know easier said that done but before you jump into evertyhing again, stop and think about why you got out of it to begin with.
2007-02-26 07:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by tmjgmw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 11:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the reason you broke up! If he was being a jerk no, you can do better then that. But if it was work, then maybe but it is actually up to you and what you can take! :)
2007-02-26 07:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by desperado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should is better than nothing
and if you really love him i think this time you shoul be friends first and then by the time i think you should give him another chance and never let him go again
2007-02-26 07:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he was serious, he would not let his job dictate when you would see each other again. If you want to be friends, it might work, but doesn't sound like a love connection to me, he would be more anxious to see you.
2007-02-26 07:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by dsrspring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is up to u if u want to give him another chance. i say if u still have strong feelings for him i would say give him another chance. but make sure that u know that he will not hurt u again. if it was me i would give him another chance if he would not hurt me.
2007-02-26 07:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as friends at first rember you broke up for a reason dont rush it till you work that reason out and good luck
2007-02-26 07:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mark R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋