Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

My relationship is perfect in every way. He supports me and my kids, he treats me like an angel. He asks for nothing but that I be faithful to the promises we have made to eachother. I love him more than life and I KNOW he loves me very much as well.
BUT........
He has a hard time talking about feelings. Sometimes out of the blue he will say something that melts me. This is getting more and more rare, though. I tell him how much he means to me. I tell him how wonderful he is and how happy I am to be with him and I am, but sometimes I really just need to hear a few little things from him and he CAN'T do it. On the one hand I feel bad for being upset about it, but I don't know how to not be upset. He bends over backwards to make my life wonderful and I hate myself for hurting and being so sad when he is so wonderful in every other way but that one. What do I do?

2007-02-26 08:15:35 · 4 answers · asked by TJ 2 in Singles & Dating

helo, my gf say 2 me 2day: "im prognants..."

i want 2 no wat this meen..??? dose she have sick...??

2007-02-26 08:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-26 08:14:10 · 10 answers · asked by josie 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I like likes my best friend and i asked her if she liked him and she said no but I found out that she does. So I decided to let them do their stuff and I thought i would get over it but it still hurts me to watch them flirt with each other and it is starting to destroy me and my best friends relationship. What should I do?

2007-02-26 08:14:09 · 13 answers · asked by goscorps2006 1 in Singles & Dating

While i was in the relationship, i was so sure i wanted to breakup. Now that it has actually happened, i question whether i did the right thing? Anyone ever feel this way after a breakup?

2007-02-26 08:13:23 · 10 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 08:13:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, theres this girl i like in my class, she's single, but she also happens to be very popular, plus alot of other guys like her. im older than her and im the new kid at the school.well i had bad luck with girls in the past so i finally thought of a way to stay content. I plan to become her secret admirer. That way i wont have to feel rejected and i can get my feelings out in a sense. i asked her friend to tell me her locker number, that way i can leave a letter in the openings. And if i hear it creeps her out i'll stop, but if it doesn't it would be nice to know she is reading my letters. That in some way i get to get my feelings out to her safetly.Plus i hear rumors that the world is going to end soon, and if everybody else is with somebody i feel that i can atleast do this one thing.

But what do you guys think about my idea, does it sound corny to you, does it sound stupid or too dreamy. What are your opinons about it.

2007-02-26 08:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by robinson_cj 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to be such an easy going perosn. It used to take a lot for me to get angry, but I have noticed that in the last year I am angry a lot! I'm angry more then I am happy! I find myself yelling at my kids over little things that in the past would have never bothered me. Its a daily thing that I seem to get mad at my husband for nothing. He can look at me the wrong way and I get defensive and mad. What is going on? I don't like being this way. I don't like my family feeling like they are walking on eggshells around me!! I feel like me being angry all the time over stupid stuff is tearing my family appart!! I want to be that happy easy going person again!! But I don't know how to get her back!!!

2007-02-26 08:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been friends with this girl for six years and last week she went behind my back. She told our other friend that I was a whore and wore my eyeliner too dark.(I dont). When my other friend told me i got so mad. Should I forgive her?

2007-02-26 08:12:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm not saying that they r weak or anything. Just talking about relationship wise!!

2007-02-26 08:11:51 · 16 answers · asked by no name 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so here is the problem i have known this girl for the last 7 years and when i first met her she didnt like me at all. I know her family really well and her father thinks of me as a son. But it get even better the girl i have been talking to is engaged. She has second thoughts about marrying the guy and has been going out with me and asking me to come over to spend time with her. Yesterday i saw her at bowling and we talked and she doesnt believe that i would date her if she were single. I told her that i could in a heart beat and that i wouldnt think twice about it. But the matter is is that she is engaged so what am i to do. She really is a wonderful girl. Should i just take myself out of the situation or should i go after this. What do you think? She really likes me alot and loves spending time with me as well!!!

2007-02-26 08:11:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We made out a little on our first date, though she kissed me after I gave up chasing her. She says she doesn't make out until in a relationship.

So walking her back to her car, she suggested we get together again. We got to her car and she gave me a hug, though I went in for the kiss.

We made out a couple more times after that.

I know a lot of people say the hug at the end of the date is the kiss of death, but that hasn't always been my experience.

So was this a blow off?

2007-02-26 08:11:48 · 6 answers · asked by arrow h 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the time limit with you boys/ men whatever...to return a call

2007-02-26 08:11:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

DO you think that women really need to be saved from danger? Let me ask you do they sometimes scare the hell out of men so bad that men feel the need to make us feel insecure

2007-02-26 08:10:05 · 6 answers · asked by Dark MInd 2 in Singles & Dating

This one girl asks me to share a little about myself… what do I say? Should I say I like this one movie, where I work, where I live, my phone number?

2007-02-26 08:10:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband of 7 years said to me the other day that we have a double standard that needs to be taken care of. He said that why is it that when U make money on the side that it is extra money and when he gets a raise it is regular money. He continued to tell me that he should be able to put money aside weekly for him and him alone. Any money that I make (which isn't much, I am a stay at home mom as per his request) I spend on the family not myself. I feel that I am a good wife. I don't spend a lot of money. In fact, I spend $5.00 a week on myself for coffee when I take my daughter to storytime at Barnes and Knobles.
My husband makes plenty of money and there is always enough in our accounts after I pay the bills. Would anyone else be offended by how he said this?

2007-02-26 08:09:39 · 41 answers · asked by snugglesrn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

because she always like straighten your hair and i'm like no because she wants all her friends to straighten their hair because i think she wants everyone to look like her!!!!:)

2007-02-26 08:09:19 · 3 answers · asked by PrettyLittleLiar 3 in Friends

intrested in me should i talk to him. i mean he didnt even talk to me last year when he found out that i liked him. SO WHAT DO I DO should i talk to him or not?????????????????

2007-02-26 08:09:09 · 22 answers · asked by Elaine S 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that if a man catches his wife cheating, he probably won't care? Because I have been cheating on my husband for about 2 months with a man I know at work. We have sex about 3 times a week, and I also have sex with my husband about every other day. I am very happy with my husband and he is a nice person, and I'm sure that he isn't cheating on me. Today one of my friend's told me that her sister's husband divorced her because she cheated.

I thought it as sort of ok for women to cheat, because men don't really care? Is this true? I don't want my husband to find out and I have been hiding it, but now I am worried he might find out and I don't want a divorce because it's very expensive and I don't want to loose the house. I need some advice, so please tell me what to do! Should I stop seeing the other man, or do you think I can still do it without getting caught and if I do get caught, will my husband be mad about it?

2007-02-26 08:08:49 · 87 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for almost 7 years. My husband has a 13 year old son from a previous relationship and pays child support. His son's mother recently got married and then moved away w/out leaving a forwarding address. We cannot find them anywhere. We called the child support agency and they said they could not give us her address. What can we do? My husband feels terrible about this. He doesn't want his son to think he doesn't care about him. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!

2007-02-26 08:08:04 · 8 answers · asked by loveangelmusicbabies 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How old were you when you got married? OR How old do you want to be when you get married?

If you were married young, do you regret it? Why or why not?

2007-02-26 08:07:59 · 13 answers · asked by RattyTat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, here's the deal. I'm 14, I REALLY like this girl at my school and we're pretty good friends but not best friends by any means. I've liked her for a really long time but have never said anything to anybody. She probably doesn't like me but I still really like her. I just can't build up the nerve to ask her out and if I do and she says no I still want to be friends with her. What should i do

2007-02-26 08:06:34 · 21 answers · asked by hogfan692 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and i have been really close for about 3 years. He's always a had thing for me since we've met and just recently i've started to fall for him DEEPLY. We "hooked up" (just sweet kisses) and we both CARE/adore each other but we decided that it's not the best time to have a relationship in our lives right now. He said that he does want to be with me now b/c it's not the right time - that if we were to ever be together, it would be perfect - he wants a "serious, long lasting, and worthwhile" relationship with me someday and that's not now. Lately, he sometimes puts up a front - i have a strong feeling it's because he feels like sh** about the situation but sometimes he'll say/do certain things that confirms the fact that he does still like me. he'll call me a "dork" laugh, and say, "woow....you just make me laugh..." or hug me closer than usual - realize what he's doing and stop. Why does he still have to put up a front? Is he hurting more than me?

2007-02-26 08:06:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we broke up a month ago from a two year relationship an we do cuddle an kiss an have had sex a few times i have rang him or text him everyday an he is ok with it as long as i do it after 9 but today his phone was switched off all day then when he got in he has switched it on is this because he thinks im going to contact him he wants to hang on sunday but i usually get in contact do you think he will get in contact with me if i dont plz help

2007-02-26 08:06:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with this woman for over 6 years. We're both adults in our late '20s. Sometimes things are really good and sometimes I don't think they're good at all. We love eachother, we've tried a million times to make it work and right now everything is pretty much ok.

But, there are definitely some bad things too. She's hit me out of anger, just once, but that's enough, isn't it? I feel guilty and embarassed by that because I'm educated, a feminist, etc. but I might be in an abusive relationship. I don't know if I should stick things out and try to make them work or if I should leave.

If the answer is that I should leave, how do I even start to go about doing that? I've never broken up with anyone before. I've been dumped and there've been mutual agreements to call it off, but I've never broken up with anyone before.

Please help, I feel so lost and confused. Thanks.

2007-02-26 08:06:14 · 21 answers · asked by boi w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands ex claimed their son on her taxes this year.. for the second year. He lives with us and has for 3 years now. Yet, she still keeps doing this. She causes the system to kick back our return and we have to paper file, which takes 8 weeks. We could have filed without claiming him, but our return would've been 2,000 less. How does she keep getting away with this and who can we report this to? I'm so mad, I could spit nails. I don't want this happening again next year.

2007-02-26 08:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by N I K I 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in the process of enticing my wife into some anonymous exobitionism. We are going to be staying in NYC for the weekend in a few weeks and staying at a large hotel near Time's Square. We are going to get all dressed up for the night. Dinner, Show, Dancing. She's going to be dressed in a hot dress with seamed thigh-highs and heels. Specifically, this is my fantasy. I want to be on a high floor and at night press her up against the window, blindfolded, and slowly and sensually expose her while I have sex with her. The place we are staying has floor to ceiling windows so there is a thrill of having sex on a 50 story ledge. Anyone ever do this? If so how was it? What are your thoughts on this? I'd love some suggestions to enhance the moment!

2007-02-26 08:05:27 · 6 answers · asked by TheGarlicButterSaw 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this sounds like a naughty question, but answer only if you want to. I am not in love, so I was wondering what it was like

2007-02-26 08:05:10 · 6 answers · asked by Lanalee W 2 in Singles & Dating

True or not?

2007-02-26 08:05:02 · 17 answers · asked by K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or maybe a student photographer looking to make some money?

2007-02-26 08:04:44 · 5 answers · asked by Bored 2 in Weddings