Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

I dont trust myself.....I feel as though if my ex were to come around again it would be very hard for me to say no to him. I know I would say no but at the same time I know it would be very hard for me because I think he was my first love...at least a very memorable love (and honestly not even that memorable in a good way but when times were good times were OUT OF THIS WORLD)

Why dont I trust myself?

I have a wonderful guy who is caring, genuine, trustworthy, appreciative, romantic etc etc.......whom I love and still I dont trust myself?!?!?!

What can I do....I just wish my ex would drop off the planet

2007-02-26 08:25:00 · 1 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-26 08:24:31 · 17 answers · asked by Marcela 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend's birthday is coming up. At fye (entertainment store) they have a booth where you can choose songs and put them on a CD. You can even design a cover I think. (I would just burn a CD but I do not have a burner and I do not know anyone who does.) Anyway, I wanted to get one of these CD's for my friend and put songs that we have inside jokes of. Do you think this is a good idea? Oh, and if I get this, what else should I get for her??

2007-02-26 08:23:47 · 3 answers · asked by Meaghan 2 in Friends

I mean were you completely suprised? or did you have an idea that he was about to? Just being curious as to whether most women are blindsided or went knowing it would happen.

2007-02-26 08:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on this guy at my school and he doesn't seem to notic me.he talks to me 1 time a day and how would i know if he likes me or not? PLZ ANY SUGGESTIONS

2007-02-26 08:22:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just met this woman… we are about the same age. She wants me to share a little about myself. What do I say?

2007-02-26 08:22:28 · 24 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married next year and I've been working on my guest list & have a problem. I've been at my place of employment for over 10 years & have known a few of them for just that long. I don't want to invite ALL of them..as I only associate w/a few of them outside of work. At the same time, i don't want to hurt anyone else's feelings if i don't invite them. truth is we only want to invite 125..but w/all the others from my office..it will be 150 too many. How do I do this w/out hurting anyone's feelings. The are all excited about me getting married. My fiance says that if i don't associate w/them outside of work...then i don't need to invite those people.

2007-02-26 08:22:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

(writing this under my wife's sign in) My ex got sole parental responsibility because her lawyer pounded the fact that I was arrested for a felony burglary when I was 13 years old into the judges head and he went with it saying that it was "detrimental" to the child....BUT....he gave me visitation every other weekend....(guess i'm not that detrimental huh???) anyway, I pay child support, paid 1/2 of my son's medical expenses, paid her half of the mediation fees, paid the whole paternity test fee (we were never married, one night stand)...anyway, I want my rights to my son, I am doing the right thing, she just had a better lawyer.....if I want to file for a modification of the custody agreement, it says there has to be a "significant change in circumstances." What is that??????

2007-02-26 08:22:18 · 10 answers · asked by Lori W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like hanging out with my friend but she's acting really rude, she's always kicking one of my other friends thinking its such a funny joke when its not! and!! she always coming in between me and my other friend when were having a conversation!! what should i do?? i don't want 2 hurt her feelings!!

2007-02-26 08:22:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

getting married, having a baby, a great big accomplishment... something so big that you have to symbolize some how

2007-02-26 08:22:02 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm lonely and have few friends and i want to make more. How do i do it ?. Has anyone got any ideas ?
I'm sure people think something is wrong with me or something.

2007-02-26 08:21:54 · 3 answers · asked by billywhizz 1 in Friends

2007-02-26 08:21:49 · 3 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

ive had a really bad day...can you guys help me cheer up?

2007-02-26 08:21:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm always so worried and self conscious and perhaps worst of all I can never get the idea out of my head that my date is having a horrible time. I feel that all this probably comes through to some extent in my mannerisms and I ultimatly look a jittery wreck. This week i'm hoping to take a girl that I really like out but that makes me all the more nervous! I just want a little help with maybe an idea for soemthing to do with her (a girl's opinion would be great), things to say/comment on so she at least thnks I'm human. It's strange becasue when I'm just friends with women I can flirt for my country! I'm just hopeless when I actually feel genuine affection. I'm 23 BTW. HELP!

2007-02-26 08:21:04 · 8 answers · asked by flashpikey 2 in Singles & Dating

we broke up a month ago from a two year relationship an we do cuddle an kiss an have had sex a few times i have rang him or text him everyday an he is ok with it as long as i do it after 9 but today his phone was switched off all day then when he got in he has switched it on is this because he thinks im going to contact him he wants to hang on sunday but i usually get in contact do you think he will get in contact with me if i dont plz help

2007-02-26 08:20:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

calling me her boyfriend and is living in a fantasy world. It's sick and she needs to get help. Should I contact her parents and the police or what?

2007-02-26 08:20:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 08:19:39 · 31 answers · asked by soccerbabe29 1 in Friends

How would you feel if a man refused to give you oral sex because of your labial skin which harbors odors and bacteria and the "ugly" appearance of your genitals? What if he was grossed out that you, as a woman were prone to urinary tract and yeast infections and wanted you to "clean it up" down there.

After all, women's genitals pretty much look like hairy roast beef sandwiches. Some of the prettier trimmed ones may be better described as looking like medium rare roast beef pita pockets. And yet, men are fascinated with them, they devote large amounts of time to trying to get peeks at them, they love the smell of them, the feel of them, being inside them. They don't seem to mind. our moist folds of skin.

But supposing they did. Would you get a labiaplasty and clitoral hood removal to please your man?

2007-02-26 08:19:35 · 3 answers · asked by Redheadinbed 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had to choose.....
1. too loud/too quiet
2. too thin/too plumb
3. dark hair/light hair
4. wild/calm
5. bad skin/bad teeth

2007-02-26 08:19:22 · 18 answers · asked by Kayte 3 in Singles & Dating

Please state your age!

2007-02-26 08:18:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 5 months. I know it doesnt seem long BUT things progressed very quickly for both of us. We both jumped in with two feet and head first. We moved in together (he was my neighbour for 2 years before we started dating), talked about marriage and having children together and growing old with my parents living next door.

The 1st three months of the relationship were out of this world. Honestly nothing else in the world mattered except for him. Completely infatuated. One morning I woke up and found that "I didnt love him anymore" this happened along with some depression and some chemical imbalances in my head so my family doctor put me on some anti-anxiety meds. They have done their part but there is still this thought in the back of my head that always asks me "Do you really love him?"

He is everything I have ever wanted genuine, trustworthy (something I have never had before), passionate, romantic, sexy, intelligent etc etc...6 months before I met him I got out of a horrible relationship with a cop that ended up losing his job for abusing me. We dated for a year and when times were good times were OUT OF THIS WORLD! and I think thats why it was hard for me to get over him cause our entire relationship was based on drama. So that being said going from a dramatic relationship to a healthy one 6 months later is quite tough but all in all I think this is the place for me to stay.
Here is where the problem lies. I dont trust myself in this relationship. I feel as though I have to stay out of sight of my ex in order not to cave in to his lies. All in all I feel as though he has some sort of control over me. I feel as though if he were to ask for me back it would be difficult to say no. Although, I want to be with my current boyfriend forever. Are there any suggestions as to how to deal with this?

My new beau makes me laugh, I'm comfortable with him and I enjoy spending quite nights alone with him. We are very sexual with one another and I think that him being with another woman could turn me on although I look at that as though I dont care about him and I dont care if he was with another girl behind my back or something which honestly I dont think is the case.....

All of my friends look at me with my current boyfriend and they say I am completely myself with him and I have NEVER been like that. I usually am very controlling but for a reason I am completely myself with him. I think I was like that before because my ex's were all meant to be mis-trusted....Anyways. what I am asking is why dont I feel as infatuated for him as I did for my ex...I always wanted to marry my ex until he became abusive but I cant say 100% if I want to marry this one. I just want to know 100% and know that this is right and I want to trust myself to say no to my ex, I dont want to have to avoid places in case he shows up?!?!?! Thanks!

2007-02-26 08:18:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this girl and i really want to go out with her, This is 12th grade. Im just wondering if i should do it when we're alone (chance) or just out in the sudden in school. I want this to last due to the fact we're both going to the same college. Would u rather have it sooner and safer or later and cooler? IM just worried that she would fall for another guy

2007-02-26 08:18:32 · 3 answers · asked by PETER Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

In the rare instance that I can get a woman to admit that they behave badly in their relationship with their man, they sometimes say that the man drives them crazy with his behaviors first. What are some of those behaviors?
I was thinking of things like:
-Breaking promises
-Lessening of romantic gestures
-Leaving clothes, dirty dishes around; not putting the toilet seat down
Please add to this list...

2007-02-26 08:18:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been on & off w/my boyfriend of 2 yrs - bad things have happened - not going into detail, BUT, on my trip to Germany, my friend (who lives there), His Cousin is gorgeous and shy (i'm outgoing), and we made out ... I was his first kiss ... he's 18 ladies and gentleman, and I'm his first kiss!! (Def not mine) ! He says he has been waiting for that someone special.. and I love to be cuddled, and when I slept next to him in his bed he just wrapped his arms around me and I wish he'd never let go. But he lives in Friggin Germany!! Are you kidding me?!

2007-02-26 08:17:24 · 8 answers · asked by Gina 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend in the whole entire world told me last night she think she might be gay. She's not sure, and I'm not into the whole gay thing. Shes telling me shes having thoughts, but she's so gorgeous, and has had so many boyfriends. I used to have those thoughts she is having now and I'm not gay. I dont know what to do. Should I tell her I had those sexual thoughts ?! How do I tell if she really is gay ?!

2007-02-26 08:17:17 · 6 answers · asked by volleygirl25 1 in Friends

What do boys like about girls.

2007-02-26 08:16:30 · 16 answers · asked by Asian Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 08:16:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When starting to date someone new, how long does it usually take the man before he is willing to be faithful and commit to just that one girl?

2007-02-26 08:15:58 · 3 answers · asked by BJ 2 in Singles & Dating

I saw the O tapes a documentary about women’s orgasm. In it they said that 47% of women don’t have the big O. My wife has about 10 each time we have sex, now I know she is rare, but to think there are women that cant have any is crazy. It's is such a stress reliever for me and it keeps both partners happy. What is the point of sex if you cant have and orgasms (assuming you don’t want kids)? Why would the women who can’t (have the O) not explore other avenues to reach one? Do you think it is societies views towards sex that have so many women oppressed? I have been with 12 women in my life and all of them act like they couldn’t move after we were done. Although, I am very large and do work very hard to please, but don’t other guys? Why do I see these good looking girls with dudes who I know cant please them. Why would you stay in a relationship if that’s the case? What the hell is going on here?

2007-02-26 08:15:54 · 16 answers · asked by simsad31 2 in Marriage & Divorce

k here's the deal i really like this guy(he's my neighbor)and he has a girlfriend. they have been going out for 2 months already and they seem really in love.i always talk to him and he told me that sometimes thay make out u know tongue to tongue!!!!! i get really jealous cuz i wish that it's me that he's in love with.i also lose my self confidence cuz she's so much more prettier than me. what should i do?????????????

2007-02-26 08:15:44 · 7 answers · asked by fashgurl 4 in Singles & Dating