I saw the O tapes a documentary about women’s orgasm. In it they said that 47% of women don’t have the big O. My wife has about 10 each time we have sex, now I know she is rare, but to think there are women that cant have any is crazy. It's is such a stress reliever for me and it keeps both partners happy. What is the point of sex if you cant have and orgasms (assuming you don’t want kids)? Why would the women who can’t (have the O) not explore other avenues to reach one? Do you think it is societies views towards sex that have so many women oppressed? I have been with 12 women in my life and all of them act like they couldn’t move after we were done. Although, I am very large and do work very hard to please, but don’t other guys? Why do I see these good looking girls with dudes who I know cant please them. Why would you stay in a relationship if that’s the case? What the hell is going on here?
2007-02-26 08:15:54 · 16 answers · asked by simsad31 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If a women can't walk afterwards heart pounding and sweating thats how you know. How do you know, what a stupid question that is, I guess I cant get a real answer here. What a sad world we live in, when half the people cant experiance the best part about it...
2007-02-26 08:25:11 · update #1
I had no idea TALLY that seems so foreign to me.
2007-02-26 08:26:34 · update #2
I agree that in the long run, there really isn't much motivation to have sex if it doesn't result in at least somewhat intense pleasurable sensations....
Thank you
and for the record I am not lying or bragging, I am just trying to relate my experiances to you. If you dont like it to bad it's the truth.
2007-02-26 08:56:11 · update #3
Sometimes it isn't about how well the guy does things, or what size he is, but rather the connection that the two of you have (pardon the pun). I mean, if the two people involved are really connected emotionally to each other and have such a strong love and devotion to each other, then sex is naturally going to be much sweeter. As for the "O", I don't think that is the primary objective when a woman is intimate, although it might be the objective for a man. I only know that we women are also interested in the emotional aspects of being intimate as well as the physical aspects. As for the statistic you mentioned, I don't know if it's accurate. How could they measure such a thing because those who participated in such surveys could have been women who are open about talking about such things. Many women are not so open about that, so one cannot accurately get a statistic for this. My point is, I think many more women enjoy it than you think, and I think they enjoy it more when they are not tired from a full day of work and kids, and when they are feeling emotionally connected to their husband. I think it's great that you are thinking about things from the woman's perspective and care about how it is for women. I'm happy for you and your wife, but like one person said, that is not the most important aspect in a marriage. One can have a fulfilling life with or without the "O".
2007-02-26 08:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
"O"s are not everything. For abour 10 years of active sex life I did not have one, and I thought that I was missing something great and big. Then, after a long time of being with one partner, I started going out with different people (got divorced after 5 years of marriage), and actually started having "O"s. It wasn't due to the fact that my previous partners were bad or inadequate (in fact, some of them were really good), but I think the simple excitement of being with someone else had brought it about. But it really wasn't anything special; it was more like meh, ok, whatever. Again, it didn't have anything to do with my partners or their wilingness to go the extra miles - most of them did. I imagine, different people are "wired" differently (biologically speaking), and I happen to be someone who can "take it or leave it". I agree that in the long run, there really isn't much motivation to have sex if it doesn't result in at least somewhat intense pleasurable sensations; but there's so much more to life than sex. There's even so much more to sex than sex. I.e., it doesn't need to be about the act itself, but could be about the thrill of getting to know someone new, or the bliss of connecting with a person you love most; in this context, "O" doesn't even matter. Just because someone is not predisposed to intensly enjoy one particular thing, it doesn't make their lives impoverished: I know many people who can't imagine going to a party and not having at least a few drinks, but I can have a great time without ingesting a drop of alcohol; I might have a drink or two when the mood strikes, but I don't seek out the opportunities, and don't miss it when the opportunity doesn't present itself. My own "downfall" is food, there's absolutely nothing that can compare with an excuisite dinner or all-you-can eat buffet; I can comfortably live without sex for years, but I go out to eat several times a week, and love going to events that involve food; and no, I'm not fat... yet. LOL Bottom line, it all depends on what rocks your boat.
2007-02-26 08:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that a 'dude' can't please a woman? and why the bragging about the 12 women and being very large? and oh yes for the record, many other guys can do just the same or better. I would think that if a woman is not having a good sex life that's her reality and between her and her mate to explore. more importantly is how a man treats her.. if he thinks he's gods gift to women and doesn't listen to her speak or disrespects her opinions or is too self absorbed to really care what she thinks then it will show up in the bedroom........eventually...
2007-02-26 08:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is true that not all women can achieve the "O".However this is true that not all women can DURING INTERCOUSRE.But all women can achieve this clitorially.Some just haven't explored themselves to konw this.I can understand your thoughts on this but given your experiences who cares about the other women in the world because it seems to me you have the power and the pacage to claim victory in making sure the women you are with are pleased.Be happy that you have been with so many that can have such wonderful pleasure.Be happy and have a good time.
2007-02-26 08:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by kimmysue34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude religion has tampered with women they are all stuck in some beliefe that hell is waiting for those who masterbate. or worse that sex isn't suppose to be fun it's a duty for one purpose and that is to give birth to the mans child. It is all efffed up and if someone would just write a book and get on Oprah all of them would be watching and they all would buy the vibrator that Oprah endorsed and then battery sales would go up and then Oprah would have even more kick back checks and some of the women needing the release might even get there but the degrading feeling from all the religious overtones is so mentally filling their heads not much helps.... It's almost a lost cause.
2007-02-26 08:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nice of you to be so open. I feel sad when women are missing this; there is a lot of information available for them to find. A few corrections, though. There is very satisfying sex when a woman doesn't have an o - at times it's harder to reach, and sometimes it's too much. Secondly, a guy's size has zero and zilch to do with the o, absolutely nothing. Thirdly, don't take credit yourself for the wonderfulness of your wife's body!
Good luck, now that you are headed on to the next level. Can't think of any euphemisms to describe it...
2007-02-26 08:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Boy, your sure struck on yourself, aren't you. I don't believe your wife has 10 orgasms every time you have sex, nor do I believe that every woman you went with and had sex couldn't move after you were through. Your bragging on your size and you so full of yourself it is pathetic. I bet you money your small and the girl's that couldn't move just waiting for you to go ahead with the sex.just waiting for you to start. How do you know these girls as you call them with these dudes you have seen wasn't being pleased Go look in the mirror and tell yourself all these things because the only one your fooling is SELF..
2007-02-26 08:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Nicki 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
it's not as easy for women as men think. lots of men just don't care about making their women happy they get off and that's it. Sometimes I women stays in the relationship for other reasons besides sex. Sometimes a women has never been treated the way you seem to treat your women and doesn't know what is like to have a man take care of all her needs.
2007-02-26 08:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by delphina_16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes a very eager and experienced man, and it sounds like you, are to be able to boast about such a thing. I'm not being sarcastic, but true. A lot of men are just concerned with getting their own without caring about their partners climax. Congrats to you and your wife!
2007-02-26 08:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My gosh you sound like O is the holy grail of sex, I admit that it's one of the best feelings in the world but sex is great whether I have an O or not...come to think of it I've only experienced it twice and I've been married for 29 years and until my husband got sick we had a great sexual relationship.
2007-02-26 08:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋