i have a crush on this guy at my school and he doesn't seem to notic me.he talks to me 1 time a day and how would i know if he likes me or not? PLZ ANY SUGGESTIONS
2007-02-26 08:22:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at school in big rock IL jr. high. she always sits behind me in 1 subject everyday now. his name stars with a J
2007-02-26 08:33:38 · update #1
Here is the thing...Guys are dumb...like me....You could be holding a sign that says..."I LOVE YOU" and I would still be like..."WTF are you trying to say to me?" Only thing you could do is talk to the guy...and ask him out...see if he wants to kick it without outside of school. If he does....then he might want something with you....now if he says no...Dont worry....he might have plans already....but try to make plans with the guy when he is free. If he still says not after that...then I'm sorry...
2007-02-26 08:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend your energy on something important. Your hormones are causing you to fixate on some random guy because he's got a nice butt or a cute smile. Let's suppose you land him, by some miracle. Do you really think he'll be the ONE, and you'll be married and living "Happily Ever After" in a year or two? Maybe you'll have a tragic romance?
I'm not telling you to grow up.
I'm telling you to worry about more important things, because if you do not - then by the time those "grown up" decisions are upon you, you will be unprepared to face them.
This is it - right now - your opportunity to take charge of your life and have a successful existence.
2007-02-26 16:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyedprincess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TALK TO HIM ANY CHANCE YOU GET! You can always say hi in the hall. don't be afraid to flirt with him. I am having the same issue right now. My friends tell me that if I don't let him know I like him nothing will ever happen. You don't have to come right at and tell him ( I am to shy for that), just make an effort to be around him.
Good luck, I hope things work out.
2007-02-26 16:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by ~*altosax *~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i was just in the same situation that u are in now. I had this major crush on this kid in my scince class that i didnt even knew if he liked me or not. What i did was made excuses to talk to him and got together with friends and invited him too. Eventually he either got the hit that i liked him or he liked me becuz he asked me out and we have been together ever since. Advice: try to get to kno him and tell ppl that u are intrested in him to get him to kno.... *get someone to tell him that u like him w/o u around and see how he reacts* hope the best for u! GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-26 16:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie24688 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez, sounds like you have the same sorta problems i sometimes have! well you are not alone! If i were you i would check that he's not with another girl first, and if he does i would forget about him, theres plenty of guys out there, and one boy is not worth getting into a girl-fight for! If he's single though, when you talk to him next, just prolong the conversation. ask him what he's getting up to at the weekend or something, and just do this everyday until sooner or later you guys are having proper conversations! don't come on too strong at first though, guys like girls who are confident but dont scare him away!!
good luck!
2007-02-26 16:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by wizzy-doll 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i had the sam eproblem and this guy i like talked to me every once in a while but when i talked about normal stuff and not about how my hair was he got to know me and now we're going out steady for 4 months life is to short to take these things for granted
i'm in 7th grade by the way
2007-02-26 16:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by lovemelucky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get to know him more. Join clubs or teams he plays on and be like "Oh hi." Be rash. Sit at his lunch table. Send a secret note. Sees if turns to you. But don't let him eat away at you. He's just guy. Sometimes they're more trouble than they're worth.
2007-02-26 16:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by xf in a :)x[ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
0.o Well, this is sort of up-front. Grab one of your friends, or even better, someone who is just in your class who doesn't talk to you or your crush, tell him/her (a boy is better for this *_*) to ask your crush if he likes you or not. *Make sure* that the "victim" does not mention that you put him/her up to this. That will ruin everything!
2007-02-26 16:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by ¥§Anaşia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you really like him walk up to him and stricke up a convo. When he sees that u are confident enough he will come beggin after u like a bee on honey!!
2007-02-26 16:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by Tessa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not in any of your classes and he seems to be going out of his way to talk to you, he either likes you or really, really wants to be friends. which i doubt.
just talk to him in a relaxed way and show body language that says you like him. hopefully he'll pick up on it, and if he doesn't, don't beat yourself up over it. guys can be clueless sometimes! good luck!
2007-02-26 16:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by fab expert101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋