I'm always so worried and self conscious and perhaps worst of all I can never get the idea out of my head that my date is having a horrible time. I feel that all this probably comes through to some extent in my mannerisms and I ultimatly look a jittery wreck. This week i'm hoping to take a girl that I really like out but that makes me all the more nervous! I just want a little help with maybe an idea for soemthing to do with her (a girl's opinion would be great), things to say/comment on so she at least thnks I'm human. It's strange becasue when I'm just friends with women I can flirt for my country! I'm just hopeless when I actually feel genuine affection. I'm 23 BTW. HELP!
2007-02-26 08:21:04 · 8 answers · asked by flashpikey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're 23 and asking this?
anyway,.... ask her about her job and stuff.. she'll yabberon for ages.
Dinner/Movie/Drinks... u cant go wrong!
2007-02-26 08:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much about whether your date is having a good time or not, just make sure you are. Remember laughter is infectious and if you are having fun, she will too. If she's already agreed to go out with you then you've won half the battle. The second half is just to have fun. The most important thing a woman will like is for a man to listen. Be attentive, listen to what's she saying and share some personal moments with her. Don't speak too fast or too long and keep good eye contact coupled with smile. Have fun and relax! Good Luck!
2007-02-26 16:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by MrGin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, movies aren't good first dates. 1 because it's really paying to watch T.V. And 2 because a first date is a good time to get to know each other. You should really do something fun and where you can talk. Like going bowling or playing pool, if they have food there you two can sit and eat and chat too.
Make sure you have something planned ahead of time and have a back up just in case something goes wrong, like if she has her nails done, she won't want to go bowling.
2007-02-26 16:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, first of all calm down. You have nothing to worry about. If you really like this girl, be yourself and she will most likely like you. First, don't take her to some usual dinner and a movie. If you do something romantic she will like you even more! Trust me!! But anyways, you should take her on a picnic and watch the sunset. Or you could take her dancing and show her your skills. If you have two left feet, then take her to a really romantic spot......such as a poetry club or a zoo or a candlelit dinner. Like I said before be yourself and throw in a little charm and she will sure to be in "like" with you. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-26 17:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by flyychyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are as many answers for this as there are women in the world. You need to find out what SHE likes. What SHE likes will not be the same as what all "girls like". You can't pigeon hole it like that. It will go a VERY long way if you do something thoughtful that shows that you paid attention to her and did something she likes. Talk to her a little bit - is she active? Does she like movies? sports? art? flowers? outdoor activities? dancing? Once you find out an activitiy she enjoys, find something related to that activity.
2007-02-26 16:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't worry bout it just go with the flow apparently she likes you if she agreed to go out with you....jus sit back and enjoy the ride don't worry about the night and don't try to plan ahead think of a good conversation and stick with it and make sure you don't talk to much about your self...it okay dude you got this
2007-02-26 16:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by mocha-fava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a woman..If its your "FIRST" date..Then take her out to a quiet restaurant..Maybe talk about the weather,movies etc..Other wise give her a good evening out..Maybe the next date take her to a movie...Good Luck
2007-02-26 16:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shyness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her or her friends(if u wanna keep it a secret) wheres her favorite place to go. Calm down it'll be fine.
2007-02-26 16:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by PHATChik1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋