What do men do that make women behave badly in relationships?

Question

In the rare instance that I can get a woman to admit that they behave badly in their relationship with their man, they sometimes say that the man drives them crazy with his behaviors first. What are some of those behaviors?
I was thinking of things like:
-Breaking promises
-Lessening of romantic gestures
-Leaving clothes, dirty dishes around; not putting the toilet seat down
Please add to this list...

Answer 1

Breaking promises is the one that drives me nuts...

to add to the list

Being dishonest, to include ommiting important information
Being a selfish lover
Cutting back on compliments
Not having time anymore

Good luck

Answer 2

Well, positive traits are:

1. Integrity.
2. Confidence.
3. Challenge
4. Discipline
5. Affection
6. Romance
7. Respectful.
8. Flexible
9. Well groomed
10. Positive attitude.
11. Good manners

So... if you consider the negatives:

1. No integrity: isn't who he pretends to be, dishonest, etc.
2. Lacks confidence
3. Is a doormat, a push-over
4. Undisciplined, lazy, etc/
5. Isn't affectionate
6. Is never romantic
7. Is disrespectful
8. Is inflexible and controlling
9. He's a slob, he doesn't groom well.
10. He has a crappy attitude (the male version of the "nag".
11. He has bad manners

These lists sort of apply to both men and women. I'd tweak it a little for women. These don't cause anybody to DO anything, but the negative traits lower the interest of our partners.

Answer 3

when my husband goes off with his friends too much like Friday night poker then Saturday at the races and Sunday afternoon football and golf all week and no time for me.....I purposely tease him in the morning with a "good time" when he gets home....then I go to bed long before he gets home knowing full well that he will not wake me if I'm sleeping. I pretend to be asleep even if I'm not.

so there. He gets the message and schedules some time for me.

I should mention that I only take this drastic action when my attempts to talk about it have failed. Actions speak louder than words.

Answer 4

Honey, I've been married a long time and in all honesty, I've never heard that anyone else's actions can cause you to act badly. I believe that we are all responsible for our own actions and we shouldn't blame others for how we choose to react in any given situation. Sure, there is cause and effect, but those are factual things based on events. You are talking about emotions and quite frankly, emotions are unpredictable. Throw in the hormones and it's a grab bag of what you are going to get.

Answer 5

female have not have been given any cost in African subculture. guy is the king who can do and say despite he needs and he do no longer could desire to describe his movements to female. female rather could desire to take all the undesirable scientific care and behave sturdy no remember what. I even have been in relationship with black guy who behaved precisely like this. He behaved as king giving me emotional punishments every time he felt i did no longer behave as he needed and this meant asking incorrect question on the incorrect time or no longer doing something he asked maximum appropriate away ect. He additionally had the main appropriate to flirt with different ladies yet i became no longer allowed to talk with the different men. Black men are administration freaks who think of they're the kings in relationship. of direction there are sturdy black men obtainable yet they're like black diamonds. perplexing to stumble on.

Answer 6

Well, men can be very self-centered. Here are more for the list:

-Would rather hang out with friends than be with girlfriend
-Lies about things that are important
-Acts disinterested in girlfriend's life
-Always expects GF to drop everything for him, but will not do same
-Spends way too much time on MySpace

Answer 7

1. Nasty teeth
2, Bad, Bad Breath,
3. Ugly Clothes and Shoes
4..Bad Aftershave or Cologne(Cheap)
5.laxy
6. No Job
7.. Fat
8.Bad Behavior
9.TightWith money
10.Broke
11. No manners
12.Just Overall No good
13. Bad Sex
14.Smart Alec
15. Cheating
16.No Big Bank Account
17. loser

Answer 8

well, i behaved badly when ending my last marriage. but my case would probably be different, as my ex was an abusive alcoholic. he promised to stop drinking, and when he didn't & i called him on it he blamed it on me. he was verbally, physically, and sexually abusive. he cut me off from all my friends & tore me down until i felt i was nothing. not to mention all the day to day slights, ignoring me when i asked him something or spoke, or 'shushing' me when i talked when he was watching something (even if it were a commercial!). telling me it was my job to do *everything* around the house cuz he worked full time (and i was "only" a full time student)

Answer 9

-when they are paranoid
-flirt with too many women
-careless and lazy
-too jealous
-too emotional
-insinuating the worst
-not supportive of our ideas
-making mean remarks (name calling and such)

but I don't really behave badly in my relationship. There is just a lot of misunderstandings and that gets frustrating.

Answer 10

Lying unnecessarily
Criticizing everything
Won't take them out of the suburbs