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calling me her boyfriend and is living in a fantasy world. It's sick and she needs to get help. Should I contact her parents and the police or what?

2007-02-26 08:20:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

She should already know that. I don't want to talk to her.

2007-02-26 08:25:32 · update #1

If I did I would already be with her.

2007-02-26 08:26:24 · update #2

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Wow. That must be very disturbing for you.

I would not go so far as to contact the police or get a restraining order unless she actually tries to physically harm you (or anybody close to you, for that matter) or break into your home.

If you haven't spoken with her about this yet, I would have a conversation with her in which you clarify what *exactly* she has been telling people, and whom she has been telling.

You probably don't need to be confrontational or aggressive, as this will just fuel her fantasy that you have "passionate feelings" about her. Just let her know that you don't appreciate her spreading lies, and if it continues you will be forced to take action.

If she doesn't stop, you should definitely notify her parents - again, try not to be confrontational, but list as many facts as you can.

Sounds like she may need psychiatric help, and getting angry about it is only going to be counterproductive.

Good luck - protect yourself!

2007-02-26 08:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1 0

uh just tell her to go away and that you DO not like her.
and if she doesn't go for that "break up with her"
some people just need a kick back to reality.

2007-02-26 08:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I say just ignore her, let her live her fantasies.

2007-02-26 08:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0 1

Talk to her. Tell her that you are not her boyfriend. Try to be nice. Good Luck.
Xoxo,
Cosette

2007-02-26 08:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

yeah after aqll these years u would be lucky if she recalled your name,chill in chill out

2007-02-26 08:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0 1

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