Do You Think Fourteen Is Two Young To Date?

Question

Personaly i dont have a promblem with being fourteen and dating what do you think

Answer 1

i dont either i think 14 is just fine to be dating looking around middle school is aroudn the age that you start thinking about girls/boys

Answer 2

Yes, 14 is just a tad too early. A girl should be at least 16 to start dating. At 14, the human body is not fully developed, they are too young to work at a hard labor job, and no one will hire a 14 year old boy. The boy should be old enough to find a good paying job, and to support a wife and child if that happens.
Most dates turn to one thing...sex. Having sex at 14 is a little too young, because some girls can't handle the emotions and stress of early adulthood. You can wait until you're 16, because you have a whole lifetime ahead of you. When you are 16, your body is more ready to have children, and the older you are, the better. Don't worry about "running out of time", because you won't. You'll have at least 35 years of good sex, so enjoy the youth while you have it.

Answer 3

I think that you at least hve to be 16 to date cause that is the time that you can start to work an drive too and deal with alot more responsiblity than when you are 14 cause you must be more responsible and mature to be in a relationship

Answer 4

what is being done on these dates? I was dating at 10-11-12 I don't remember, but it was going rollerskating or something and talking long hours on the phone, did not have sex till 16,

Answer 5

Yes 14 is too young for real dates. Since 14 year olds can't drive, are you going to get picked up by your BF on his bicycle?

Answer 6

I think it's too young!! I would rather live out my childhood days as long as I can before having to get into the craziness of a relationship and dating. Enjoy it while you can!! There is NO RUSH!!!

Answer 7

Depends on what you call dating. To go out unsupervised to dinner and a movie, too young, to have a boyfriend come to your house or vice verse and hang out and watch movies, OK, as long as the parents are home.

Answer 8

Yes, it's too young to one-on-one date. You should go with another couple. That way, both couples are safer knowing there are others around to keep things on the up and up.

Be very careful.

Answer 9

Yes, too young. If you can't drive yourself or have a job to earn money to use on a date... then you're too young to date.

If you're asking if 14 is too young to mess around, then the answer is yes. It may seem harmless but you'll end up growing up to be a wack job.

Answer 10

Ok. I've seen answers from ppl that are obviously ALOT older, and even some around 14. But coming from a person who is actually 14 right now, I say to wait and hold out. yes, I know it sounds dumb, especially if you want to date but ur parents won't let you. in my case, I've asked my parents on numerous occasions about how they felt about me dating, and the answer was always NO! but i never told them that there was ne1 that i liked, so they wre like "if there's no one, then why would u want to know the ansewr?"...kinda got me stuck. so, i decided that i would just have bfs behind their back (like that would work). it turned out to be a disaster. i found myself talking to ppl and acting certain ways around certain ones...and i didn't even like them! I was just so sick n' tired of always being the lil' goody-2-shoe. but, i wish i hadve stayed that way. I mean, don't get me wrong, Im still a virgin, not going that far. but some of the things i have done i wish i hadn't because all it did was open doors that i wasn't ready for and didn't know how to handle and shut. So, finally, I had to make up in my mind that enough was enough. What was the real reason that I wanted to start dating ppl? was it to have a true friendship or just for the "perks"? because I can always make friends. and no, friends with benefits aren't good either. I had a friend who I thought could be possibly more, and we began acting like we were together. turned out to be a mess!!!! I don't even talk to him nemore because I'm just too scared that things will go further than they should, and i know I'm not ready for that. So, the best thing for me to do was back off and again, re-evaluate myself and my motives. so, b4 u go doing nething, plz. re-think ur decisions, and don't lie to ur parents because that only causes more problems. just always ask urself "what is my real reason for doing this?" and whenever ur about to do something that you know you shouldn't be doing, or ur contimplating if its the right thing to do, just as urself "would i invite God to watch me do this? would He be pleased?" always be careful. Im learning its best to enjoy my childhood and be "me" than to try being like everyone else or opening doors that I don't know how to shut, Cuz hun trust me, once you start, its hard to gain that control again...really hard. but u can as long as u remember to keep God first at all times!

Answer 11

Yes it is, no question about it. Emotional stability and health are bad enough at fourteen without adding dating to the mix. I expect this opinion will be unpopular with the fourteen year old set but good advice is often unwelcome.