ive kinda been seeing this guy for six months i know i love him, ive not met him yet but he wants me to go down to his at easter and i dont know what to do because i couldn't tell my parents where i was going, i would have to lie to them i do want to go but i dont know how i would pull it off i mean with my studdies and everything.
Got any ideas????
2007-02-26 07:01:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've already told my mate that i'm thinking of going & she's all like "WHY THE F*CK DID U TELL ME!?!?!?!" and im like "Because i thought i could trust u!!!"
the next day she told my other mates which i WAS going to do but not then because i knew they would take the piss because they think i dont feel anything which sometimes IS true but not now.
So if i DO go she'll probably dob me in it with my parents at least she doesnt know where im going.
Ohh and i should have put this in he's in England, I'm in Scotland so it's no that easy and he's kinda older than me, so once again NOT THAT EASY.
2007-02-26 07:17:20 · update #1
Well then don't tell your parents. Make something up! But if you really feel this way about this guy then you have to see him. PLEASE GOD THOUGH make sure you tell a couple of friends where you're going and who you're seeing for obviuous safety reasons
2007-02-26 07:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by joe l 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My idea would be not to go. You sound young and it is entirely possible this person doesn't have the best intentions. If you have to lie to go, that should tell you it's not a good idea.
Someone that genuinely cares for you wouldn't want you to do anything that your parents would disapprove of.
I still stand behind the original answer. Him being in England and you in Scotland, and him being older, just don't sound on the up and up to me. Don't go.
2007-02-26 07:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if you're not old enough to go in and out freely, you shouldnt be meeting this guy in another state whom you've never met before. Dont you listen to the news or hell watch crime shows? Predators go after vulnerable, gullible, and naive girls. Instead of you going down to meet him, ask him if he can come up to meet you, or meet somewhere in between in PUBLIC! If he makes some lame excuse as to why he can't, he's trying to trap you, and you may not come home. As horrible as it is to say, that's the truth. If you're like most teens and defiant and rebellious, tell your best friends at least, and give them your information, including the address and # of where if is you're going, so if God Forbid, anything does happen, they can give the police that info. Please dont be stupid and end up as another statistic
2007-02-26 07:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by boriqualoca17_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always let responsible people know where you are going and I would suggest that if he is older than you that it is a lot safer if you arrange for him to come up and see you, if he loves you he will find a way if he won't I don't really think it is worth the risk, especially on your first meeting. Please bring someone with you just to be on the safe side.
2007-02-26 07:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jo H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that you don't visit him. That sounds very dangerous. Especially since you intend to not let anyone know where you will be.
You don't really know someone that you've only known online. Really. I've known plenty of people online and when I met them in person they were a shadow of what I thought I knew.
The world is sometimes a violent place. Don't go blindly to meet someone at their home. If he wants to meet you, ask him to visit you when your parents are home.
2007-02-26 07:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh please be careful, couldn't he come up and see you instead so you are in an area where you are familiar with and people know you? you could get a coupla your mates to follow behind in case he tries anything your not comfortable with? at the end of the day you don't know this guy from Adam and could be some fifty something psychopath!! it's extremely important you tell people what you're planning to do, and don't be embarrassed as lots of people do it!! best of luck to you, and remember to be careful x
2007-02-26 08:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by sausagejockey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the important stuff out of the way first, exams etc, talk to you parents, clear the air , you sound quite young, dont throw everything away for the slight chance things might work with a dude you aint met yet, give it time, whatever is meant to be will be,
Brooksy :-)
2007-02-26 07:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by brooksydejavu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you not watch television?? how many girls go to meet the older man and never come back or something awful happens!!!! why have you gotta travel to him? surely he should come to you at least your meeting him on your ground then and preferebly with a friend or something.im sick of listening to girls becoming infactuated with a man they have never met! he could be 100 years old!
2007-02-26 08:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by Izzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell your parents. Or meet up for a day or so and introduce him to your parents so they know who you will be spedning time with. Easier said than done though I bet lol!
2007-02-26 07:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Tabbie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would have him meet me in a public place first and go out on a couple of dates to see if he was what he says he is. then if you feel comfortable with that, then go to his house for easter.
2007-02-26 07:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋