iam not expecting somuch from him . but he is not doing normal things also. he is not talking with me clearly. everything is silly to him..but iam not like that....i take care every thing
2007-02-26 07:01:55 · 12 answers · asked by sb b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The purpose of dating is to see if you're compatible and want to spend your life with someone. It sounds as if you have come to the conclusion you aren't and don't. Follow your instincts.
2007-02-26 07:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hold on a bit more and see how things turn out. If you think that by marying someone this will make them change then you are putting yourself in a bee line for divorce.
The not talking clear to you is abig deal. Marriage or any relationship is about communication and trust. If your partner is not talking clear to you then this will cause dis-trust. Distrust is one of the various cause for divorce or for relationship brake up.
2007-02-26 15:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way the relationship starts out is how it is always going 2 be he will not change. it's best 2 find some 1 that is more yr speed or u will b spending 2 time him 2 grow up & that's really a waste of yr time & his since it does take a lifetime 4 some men.
2007-02-26 15:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to marry a persona like that? Are you planning on having kids? This is not a person that should be around kids or you.
Marriage is a partnership. You should be expecting something from him. Don't you have any self-respect for yourself?
PLEASE, run, don't walk, away from him!
2007-02-26 15:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dizney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot learn to live with his attitude and love his mannerisms then your relationship is doomed. I find it strange you do not mention love, which is the key to any long term relationship. Marriage without love, even if you have to work at loving, becomes just a job of work.
2007-02-26 15:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem young, take it from someone who has been there if you are already struggling with aspects of his personality it will only get worse with time. either you will become tired of his non-serious attitude or he will become tired of you constantly criticizing him for it. my advice would be to continue dating for awhile it will become clear soon enough whether you can make it or not.
2007-02-26 15:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by kyfreak4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to marry this guy again?! He sounds like a lot (A LOT) of work. Do you really need the aggravation?
2007-02-26 15:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is worried about you grammar and/or punctuation. Sounds like you are too young to get married...
2007-02-26 15:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by I do what I want.. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you want to marry someone whose not grown up yet? I think I'd give him time to grow up.
2007-02-26 15:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone new your already starting off on the wrong foot it will only get worse
2007-02-26 15:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋