Ok I was in my 3rd period english and this guy (my crush) was hitting (not like liking but like literally hitting just a fake punch in the arm) with the guy and so I went to put one of the books away on the shelf in the library and I was like get outta my way and a silence came and they moved and I put my book away. And the guy that was being hit on was like, "Jeez. Have manners." But my crush didn't say anything just looked at me. And then my crush moved out of the way and I said sorry. I don't know was this bad to do? Or does it even matter? Was it a turn off?
2007-02-26 07:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to the 2nd person, did you read my paragraph cuz I wasn't even talking about jealously. lol.
2007-02-26 07:44:01 · update #1
to the 2nd person, did you read my paragraph cuz I wasn't even talking about jealously. lol.
2007-02-26 07:44:03 · update #2
Don't know about turn off or anything.
First of all, even if they were in the way, you were rude. You could have just said "excuse me guys, but I need to put this book away."
Second of all, you just rudely interrupted male bonding. Learn to recognize how men bond with each other. Contrary to popular belief, men do express their feelings toward other men in their own way. Play fighting or good natured teasing are typical. What you and I may consider rude things to say to other people, they will say to each other and mean well.
If it had been another guy that did that, they probably would have turned annoyed and hostile and said something like "what's your problem a**hole!" and mean it. Since you were a girl, they didn't know what to do with you so they toned it down a lot. Your crush didn't want to criticize you at all, so he kept his mouth shut.
If you rudely interrupted two girls having a conversation and a moment sharing together, what would you do? Do the same for your crush and the other guy because that's what you deprived them of.
2007-02-26 07:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Elisa 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uh, its called being jealous.....Its something we all as human beings go through.....Just find a way to get over it and let your crush know that you are crushing on him so that he wont think that you like the other guy instead
2007-02-26 15:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry but i didnt get what you wrote but it doesnt sound like you did something bad.
2007-02-26 15:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by chiquita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...now his friends dont like you and your chance of getting with him has lowered
2007-02-26 15:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by lalanoesbest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋