Since it seems that many universities don't like this sort of relationship what would you do?
2007-02-26 07:16:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go for it your happiness is more important
if your careful you will get through it then when they have left you can be together properly ...u can keep your job and be happy
love is the greatest feeling ever and when you feel it dont let go you only live once enjoy yourself
2007-02-26 23:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you wouldn't be the first and you won't be the last. Quite common for tutors to go out with students and this happen. It's not like being a teacher with under age pupil. However before you do anything you may regret try finding out if this student feels the same way about you. Often the tutor is not much older than the student. However if you are yonks older I would definitely tread carefully.
2007-02-26 15:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a relationship with a tutor when I was at uni. She was not a lecturer but a coach who did contract work at the college. Personally it can be hard for tutors, I know that I was just discovering my sexuality and was flirting with her a lot. It was not long before we got together and I had my first real lesb ian sex. However, I soon began to feel that she was more turned on by sleeping with a young 20 something (she was about 30-35) than really interested in me. She could be quite forceful at times, and I was clearly being used as her little sex thing!
2007-02-26 15:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is hard. How old are you? And how old is the student? You are a university tutor only? Not a professor? I guess, if you are at the same age or so, and you are doing tutoring on the side, then I wouldnt see a problem but I will keep it down though. Nothing to exciet the campus. Good luck!
2007-02-26 15:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tutored in high school and univerisity chemistry for years. Most of the students were girls. I never did anything inappropriate. Sure, a few of them were cute, but I never did anything. And none of them did anything inappropriate either.
I think I am lucky - I am not the kind of guy women go nuts over.
2007-02-26 15:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the tutoring or the relationship. Keep the one most important and stop the one least important.
2007-02-26 15:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the student is of age it's really none of their business. now I would recommend not acting on anything until that student was out of your class, because some might suspect favoritism. After that semester though, go for it. you are both adults.
2007-02-26 15:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Beeper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldn't go there there are certain lines you should not cross and this is one of them.
2007-02-26 15:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by sm80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit the job for that sake
2007-02-27 12:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit the job and go for it... jobs are ten a penny.
2007-02-26 15:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋