well as i said in my other question ......i like females but i have a man wich i love so much...... yes i have tried everything to try to tell him i want to experiance with a female but he is not so fond of it!!! i dont want to cheat ...or break up .....what should i do??? cheat? or what cuz i relly want to experiance with a female!!!
2007-02-26 07:21:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you truely love him and he truely loves you then don't chance it. I would almost bet that the reason he's so against it is because he's insecure and is afraid that you will enjoy her more than him. Why do you want this experience so bad for anyway? just curious? not that there is anything wrong with it, i swing both ways, but right now i'm in a solid relationship with a man that i love, and i wouldn't give him up for a few hours of physical pleasure. it's good, but it's not worth that! e-mail me if ya want. blessed be.
2007-02-26 07:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this problem when i was married my husband didnt like the idea he even said it was "disgusting" and that hurt me..i felt that this was a part of who i was and how could he love me if i was so "disgusting" but in the end we broke up and after we did he told me that he really didnt feel that way that he only said that because he was afraid i would like it so much that i would leave him. i'm now with a man i love very much who has the same feeling.. he doesnt want to share me with someone. but he understands that it is a part of me and if he loves me he has to face that.. but if you just want to experiance tell he that.. you dont want a girlfriend you just want the experiance and if he loves you he will support you in my opinion
2007-02-26 07:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by ibitemytounge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I would I do I would experment once and see what happens and if that works out be willing to sit and talk to both parties about ur decision or u could take a "break" and then experiment
2007-02-26 07:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by brandy0084 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to bring this up is when you too are partying and half in the bag, throw out a statement like "she's hot" then back off and hear his reaction, if he's defensive and he's says crap like he would never look at another girl because he has you then you need to be more exact and say something like "she's hot, I could be turned on by her" then once again step back and hear out his reaction.
Another hot idea is when you to are hot and heavy in the bedroom and he is eating you out and you are wet and wild beg him to make out with you , and make out deeply and with passion, then tell him you love tasting your pu**y juices, it turns you on..... if he can't get the hint they a more direct route like just coming out and saying it at an intiment moment will have to do.
Don't cheat!!!!!! unless you are turning over to a full time lesbian, cheating is wrong at every level
2007-02-26 07:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... umm... This is a toughie....
If you really love him I say don't do that to him. You shouldn't cheat if you really love him. i think its curiousity and "Alice" your gonna end up getting hurt by doing this He's probably hurting far worse cause of this. if you love him I say don't cheat or dump him and you're better off not- because you'll end up bringing more pain onto yourself.
2007-02-26 07:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See I was like that too.....But talk to him about it.....Ask him if he would feel comfrontable about you dating a female while with him? That's what I did, and I got two for the price of one.....Lol......
But if he isn't willing to hear you out and everything, maybe he isn't really worth it......Huh?
2007-02-26 07:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by SkIttLeTTe23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to experiance with a female... interesting word choice. If hes your boyfriend, then it IS cheating, but... its not a nother guy so i dont think hed be as jealous... or just dont tell him, but f**k her anyways.
2007-02-26 07:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are overloaded with wanting to be with a women.So if you do he will probably leave.If you don't you will make the relationship hell.So anyway you cut it ,it's over so leave.Do your thing if you want to stay with a women,than you don't have to deal with him.But if it not what you want than??????? Just my thought.
2007-02-26 07:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a man willing to share you and another female
2007-02-26 07:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you really want to see what it feel slike to have sex with a girl and that you still love him and ur not a lesbo
2007-02-26 07:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋