Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

2007-01-25 02:52:35 · 27 answers · asked by Kevin Lee4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 02:51:49 · 3 answers · asked by blu star 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll try not to be too hard on my mother-law but I want everyone to have all the info possible. I love her & my wife. My mother-in law 62, has depression; Doc says has the emotional maturity of a 20 old(I think he was kind).angry, negative and very difficult. Huge packrat (4 bedroom house full of junk; when visiting we stay in hotel ,no room) she is unaware the harm she is causes to people around her (or doesn't care) can't seem to get anything done, collects medical disability; Seems OK to me. Some say she just lazy and stubborn like her father & since she was a young adult she "didn't want to do the right thing" She can act OK around people if she has too. We have been down the road w/ doctors,Meds for her (again sorry if this sounds harsh). I have been dealing w/ similar problems w/ wife ie.difficult, lying,(lack of trust) My wife and I have been to.counceling(for us).. Nothing is working. Can people just be that way? Will my wife turn into her? Do I need to go in another direction?

2007-01-25 02:49:25 · 11 answers · asked by Concerned Husband 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 24 and i have gone out with several girls to date... but i have a problem. you see, none of those relationships ended on a good note. the girls like me well enough, but i have this attitude problem that just makes me the most obnoxious man at times. i get irritated by simple things the girls do and i become mean to them, ignore them, become rude for very silly reasons. i become an *** and ignore the chick on the street even. i dont think the problem is with the girls. it must be me and i need some urgent assistance here guys coz i want to marry this girl and i'm afraid i'm gonna do the same crap to her too. i really love this one. what can i do to make my character stay the same. why do i have to vacillate between being an extremely fun charmer to being a ******* arsehole?

2007-01-25 02:49:08 · 2 answers · asked by Moyo 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been seeing this guy 4 almost a month almost i like him alot but i haven't told him the true exact words. he tld me that he was fallling for me and that he likes me but that his not ready.... what does this mean rather than i need time.. should i even consider waiting ... and what should i tell him??? despite of the fact that i tld him too, that i am not really inthusiastic about getting into a relationship and that fully don't think i am ready either... but i also think that he should be the lead on the start of "A" relationship. Meaning i am a girl i am not going to ask him out!!!????!!!

2007-01-25 02:48:55 · 4 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, what is your best outfit, one in which people (especially men) will see you and die?

2007-01-25 02:48:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm seeing a guy (long-distant) we're not officially in a relationship cuz of the distance i.e. we haven't discussed monogamy. He told me he's slept with a woman, not once, but twice. He said he's done this cuz he thinks cuz of my 'high sex drive' that I'm sleeping around also. What's so funny bout the whole thing is that he wants a relationship. Is he trying to make me think about this other girl sleeping with him, so I am more inclined to secure a relationship with him?! I told him last night, that if she wants to f**k him again, then she's gonna have to ask me for permission, he said "I will do that and asked since when did you become boss?!". Is he taking this seriously? what do you think I should do? I don't want to end it with him.

2007-01-25 02:48:20 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She works nearby my home and get off everynite at 9:00, she stops by home, takes dinner with me and mom, sometimes stay over, sometimes goes back home. I called mom this morning, told her I was going to stay at my fiancee's tonight and because she cooked a delicious soup yesterday, I was going to bring some to my fiancee tonight. My mom thinks my fiancee is taking advantage of us someone by requesting me bring her some food over. My mom says, "Does not she have enough money to buy her some"?, I mean, my mom she looked at it that way, but I do not think my fiancee is trying to take advantage of my by doing that. She just likes the way my mom cooks and prefers to have some delicious soup before getting some crappy one at the store. It is not about taking economically advantage of me. What do you think?

2007-01-25 02:48:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i might as well do it myself getting peed off in doing housework but no one else does it help get me out of hear

2007-01-25 02:48:16 · 17 answers · asked by james c 1 in Family

Wife doesn't desire sex as much as me. She says she loves me, but doesn't need the physical contact. We asked her doctor and her doctor said this happens in alot of women and that it is normal. We tried talking, scheduling sex, and it doesn't seem to work. She says she understands our situation, but I don't think she does. I am tired of being sexually frustrated all the time. I tried telling her outright my situation, but it doesn't help. She gets mad. We tried date nights, candlelit dinners, parking, and other things. Any other suggestions?

2007-01-25 02:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by johnkylex 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 02:48:02 · 5 answers · asked by linda b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 02:47:54 · 5 answers · asked by courious soul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a big crush on this guy, im 15 1/2 and he's about to turn 15. Is that much of an age difference? Is it common for teen girls to date younger teen guys?

2007-01-25 02:47:44 · 15 answers · asked by Barrel_Racing_Cowgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

If there something wrong with a person if that person can not see any good qualities in another person?
I am asking this because my freind coplains a lot that she can not love/like anyone. She sasys that she never sees good in people, thus she cannot like/love anyone. Any way i can help her?

2007-01-25 02:47:21 · 3 answers · asked by Raya d 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 02:46:45 · 13 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, we have been working on our house now for over a year. We originally had hired some help, that fell thru along with a chunk of change. So we've had to do a bunch of this work ourselves. We took a break over the holidays, and hubby is having a hard time getting back into it. (I'm tired of it too, but we are soooo close to being finished, and I only know how to do some things w/tools, he knows practically all of it). I don't want to nag, so I try really hard not to, but about once a week, I'll say, "Hey, why don't you work on the house." Also, I've been VERY attentive to his manly needs lately, so please don't tell me to butter him up that way, it's apparently got nothing to do with anything. We have no heat, this is our second winter without heat (and he's a licensed HVAC guy)....NO EXCUSE for that one. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can motivate him, or do I just have to keep waiting patiently? I really don't want to have to nag, I'm not his mom....

2007-01-25 02:46:38 · 5 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I have a fine cowboy that asked me out! but I just don't know if I like him back. I mean my heart races when I see him and when he looks at me with his Blue eye's i feel like imma catch fire. And when he touches me O GOOD GOD ! I just don't know though. I don't understand how and why all these things happen. I mean I have been in love before but none of this has happened before! what am I to do??? What Am I Feeling Love or Lust?

2007-01-25 02:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 02:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a coworker who I've engaged in sexual activities with about a month ago. She and I still talk every now and then but just about work and stuff. I see her every day and I want to see if she wants to have another go for just sex again. Before she told me she wanted some strange and we went from there. Any suggestions on how I should approach her and ask if she's intrested again?

2007-01-25 02:45:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for 2 years and like 4 or 5 months. I love him very much and i know he loves me. We never fight and everybody thinks we are like the perfect couple. But everybody seems to think that we are having sex because we have been together so long and plan on gettin married in a few years. Why do people think that? Should we be having sex? He hasnt ever ask me because hes made the decision befor and really regrets it and he said he wouldnt regret us but he dont want to take any changes of me regreting it.

2007-01-25 02:45:22 · 6 answers · asked by CountryGirlygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Even though we know its wrong and we know how it feels to be cheated on then why do we do it?

2007-01-25 02:44:24 · 31 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

way to increase sex drive. I have been married for 13 years. Our sex life is good, but I would like to have it more. My wife is happy with one a week if im lucky. Is there something that can increase her drive?

2007-01-25 02:43:57 · 6 answers · asked by paul 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 02:43:56 · 10 answers · asked by notlezah5 1 in Weddings

my bf and i just broke up because of a few problems.we are still bffs and we both want another chance.we have gone through this before and couldnt stand being apart.currently we have a friends with benefits thing going on.i am SERIOUSLY changing my ways since it was my fault we broke up.i really want him back and he still ALWAYS tells me how much he loves me.hes happy that im changing but he says he doesnt think its the right time 2 get back 2gether.we broke up 2 months ago & i really want him back before the end of school.hes trying 2 change 2 so we can be 2gether again.any advice or pointers?thanx

2007-01-25 02:43:46 · 15 answers · asked by davedesrosiersgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband wants to adopt my 13 year old son, we talked to an attorney who wants 4,000 to do it. Is there a way a person can handle it themself?

2007-01-25 02:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When making decisions, should you listen to other's input or go by your gut feel. I have been confused about major life issues and don't know who to listen to.

My child lives with my ex in another state. He is moving due to job reasons. My ex, mother-in-law and daughter want me to move back in the house until my daughter finishes 10th grade.

My parents are saying to take a stand that he must file legal papers or I am not coming to get the child. They do not want to see me hurt again by my ex and his family.

My ex, daughter and mother-in-law think positive and want to see the family together. My parents do not want to see me with my ex again and instead want me to fight things out or ask my ex to live up to his legal responsibilities.

I can not think with a mind of my own and get confused.

2007-01-25 02:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

His ex gf cant get over him and she has a myspace and sends me all these messages last night the guy im seeing or was seeing called me around 2 in the morning telling me why i had sent her a video of us i told him i hadnt done anything bcuz i hadnt and he told me to just forget everything bcuz of me this girl now didnt leave him alone the truth is i didnt send anything and he doesnt want to talk to me now.. how can i talk to him or what should i tell him? yesterday we had the best day ever we've been having some rough times but we finally got over them but now this.........

2007-01-25 02:42:12 · 6 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

There are at times a few cute guys that catch my interest, but I no longer get "butterflies." I miss that.
I don't feel nervous around guys I like in the way that I used to. I know love isn't built on this sentiment, but it would be nice to have at least SOME infatuation in the beginning.
I guess I'm not so shy anymore and that's part of it, yet I don't feel anything for anyone; no passion, nothing. I feel empty.
With Valentine's around the corner, I just feel like there's something wrong. I see the couples walking around campus all the time holding hands...I guess it just makes me sad. Is there something wrong? Is there anything I can do to fix this?

2007-01-25 02:40:16 · 19 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Singles & Dating

When my husband's ex-girlfriend calls his cell phone again, would I be wrong to tell her to not call his phone because he is now married. My friends told me that I shouldn't do it, let him do it. Are they right or am I right in this particular situation and why?

2007-01-25 02:40:13 · 18 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

She likes to make up stupid stories and i can't stand her. The guy is perfect but who is!! She doesn't deserve him and they don't belong together. I wish he would just talk to me!!

2007-01-25 02:40:08 · 1 answers · asked by goddess 3 in Singles & Dating