Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

I'll have to ask the priest and the rabbi about that. That is what it sounds like based on these boards.
I "fell out of love," I "was bored," "my spouse had some problem (that could be addressd with patience, therapy or treatment but "hey, I didn't sign up for this," I "wanted to go in a new direction, children be damed," I "felt trapped," "my husband didn't make enough money," "my wife didn't give me enough sex like before ( even though I didn't bring her flowers like before, help around the house or call during the day just to chat or talk to her without distraction for ten minutes a day anymore either" Maybe I missed that change.

And all of these "life is short" people, maybe you should have thought of that before you married or you watch to0 many romantic movies. That is not real life. Sounds selfish, doesn't it?

2007-01-25 02:29:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 02:28:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BF is a real jerk but I love him. He always breaks up with me for every little thing. It's like he throws these temper tamtrums & then the next day or a few days later he starts to send me these text messages or leaves voicemails & fall right back into his trap. This time I said I'd do it differently. Now I've changed my number but now he calls me at work & I act like I have an attitude & hang up on him. My friends say that his next move will be to stop by my apartment & that will be the real test of how I can resist him. Is there any more advice on how I can play hard to get. I still love him & I'm not ready to let go but I know he'll only appreciate me if I give him a hard time and not give in so easy...so what should I do?

2007-01-25 02:27:46 · 9 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

I know all the women want kids, but I know deep in most guys hearts they'd rather have a boat and a fishing pole. LOL.

I don't mind when my nieces and nephews come over, but once they leave, it's so nice and peaceful. I don't ever want kids. To me it seems like a lot of work and aggravation, something I'm not ready to deal with.

Adios !

2007-01-25 02:27:23 · 5 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy that is 2.5 years older than me and he is my brothers friend so i see him alot. what do i do about it?

2007-01-25 02:26:36 · 4 answers · asked by princess-of-somany 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 21 and i am looking for friends around my age!!most of my friends are married with kids!! so i have been kicking it alone! looking for people who want to go out and have a good time! and have there head on straight!!

2007-01-25 02:26:09 · 3 answers · asked by Hypnotic Cherry 2 in Friends

My daughter told me December 23,2005 that she wants nothing more to do with me. She refuses to tell me why. I do not know what I have done. She visits and stays in touch with my ex in laws and ex husband yet refuses to speak to me. I have begged for her to please give me an answer either writing me a letter or through email she continues to ignore me. I have a granddaughter that I cannot see because of all of this. I stay in so much turmoil over this I cannot seem to move forward. She is my only daughter and my only granddaughter. Has anyone out there had similar or same situation and how did you go about coping when your adult child removes themselves from your life.

2007-01-25 02:25:58 · 12 answers · asked by Debbie C 1 in Family

Maulik bavishi wrote: Date: Thu, 25 Jan 2007 04:38:45 -0800 (PST)
From: Maulik bavishi
Subject: answer
To: sandeepsoman83@yahoo.co.in

Hi
YOu anted to know that I need to get married.
Here is my answer.
I am not agianst getting married!!!
I am against stupid convention of GEtting married as the only way.

People,family members , in India have perception of wife as some one who comes in home to take over work load from so called "Mother In Law."

Not as a family member.

But as servent!

Some one whos there to satisfy husbands "Desires," and do work and keep home in order.

Wife in Indian perception is not an "Equal Person." But someone whos there to satisfy needs of socalled "Husband and his Family."

Well .., I dont want person I love to suffer as servent!
I'm looking for - " A Friend for Life ."
Not a Se

2007-01-25 02:25:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One of my ex-wives actually had a ration book, and would issue me with a ticket just before a birthday, another ticket just before Christmas, and another one before our anniversary.
Does anybody else suffer from similar rationing?

2007-01-25 02:25:36 · 26 answers · asked by Panama Jack 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 02:25:18 · 8 answers · asked by perfectlyimperfect217 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He wants me to stay over at this lockin at his school with him i want to but i am scared that if he is with his friends that they might not like me.....Should i go and have fun with him anyway??

2007-01-25 02:25:11 · 13 answers · asked by <3[D@ViDs]_{Qt}<3 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-25 02:24:54 · 3 answers · asked by jc 2 in Friends

What ever happened to these states caring so much about their children??

2007-01-25 02:24:46 · 5 answers · asked by NYEVE43 2 in Family

well i dated this guy and we broke up but now my best friend is dating him and i still have feelings for him

2007-01-25 02:24:40 · 7 answers · asked by bonita_puertorico_chica16 1 in Singles & Dating

My dtr is getting married in July, I had a lady telll me to have people dance with the bride and groom for a dollar and to have a money tree. I have not ever heard of this! I do not need help paying for the wedding nor does my dtr or her hubbie to be need help with the honeymoon, which the lady says its for. My question is have you ever heard of this? I told the lady I did not feel this is right for us to have and she says it is all the rage! My thought is its a celebration for my dtr and hubbie we want to share with friends, not ask for money!

2007-01-25 02:24:21 · 16 answers · asked by sweethometexas2000 3 in Weddings

Been married for five years and have a son together. I will leave the state once divorce is final...what should I do?

2007-01-25 02:23:41 · 11 answers · asked by Tanya R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You try so hard to get along with them but you just cant.. No matter what you do it wont work. It ca be with any think. A animal, a girl friend, boy friend, mother father, sister. Just any one. What do you do??

2007-01-25 02:23:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-25 02:22:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 02:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by meyou4life2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is for a class assignment. I need to your monthly income, your husbands monthly income. How much a month do you spend on clothes, food, car, bills, hair, nails and everything else that comes along with beilg married with 3 kids.

2007-01-25 02:22:11 · 12 answers · asked by Glamour&Glory 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found my boyfriend at home with a married female colleague. I'd finsihed work late and went to pick up a dvd from his house. Surprised to see his car at home as they were supposedly going out for dinner. Even more surprised when he emerged from the ensuite in only a towel. He asked what I was doing at his house and I asked why he was naked while she was in the house? He told me in a hushed voice that she was having a nap and he was about to have a shower. Said he'd "talk to me about it later". I was furious and left. Then later started thinking I was being hasty and jumping to conclusions but I can't get past 2 questions. (1) if she was so tired why didn't she call off the dinner? (2) if she was asleep, wouldn't his shower wake her up? So why would he be prepping for a shower? How can one be so desperate for a nap that you would sleep in a colleague's bed? Am I just too conservative? I am so furious right now. Am I being taken for a fool by him?

2007-01-25 02:21:34 · 28 answers · asked by noodlemcgoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

iv split up with my boyf and i really want to move on but ther is no hot boys anywer? id say im good lookin but im findin it hard to meet new ppl, especially men.im in a new city so im feelin lonely. how do i meet a new lover?

2007-01-25 02:21:30 · 1 answers · asked by * *sUnShINe GiRl* * 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 02:21:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey I had a friend with benefits and I lost my virginity to him, but I was concerned too much to keep my mouth shut. I told my very closest confidencial friends that I knew wouldn't tell him.

Well one of them did and he won't have sex with me anymore!

So is not telling ANYONE a part of having a friend with Benefits?

How do I win him back?

2007-01-25 02:21:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have talk to her about doing different things, I try to make love to her at different times besides bed time or different places she instead desides to do exercise or something else I feel like a robot just at bed time, yesterday I spend the whole day sending her emails and thinking when we get home we are going to do it like rabbits, she did it again let me do exercise first, there is this girl at work and she gives me more attention than she does, I am about to take the new road what do I do? I dont want to.

2007-01-25 02:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by jnjfa05 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 02:20:36 · 4 answers · asked by Lena 3 in Family

Pleas only seious answers, I know my situation might sound entertaining to someone, but this girl is the love of my life, and I need all the help I can get. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 years, we started dating as fresman in highschool and we are both freshman in college now. She goes to a school about an hour away from me, and just recently she brought it to my attention that she has began thinking of me as more of just a good friend, and not a boyfriend. I am still madly in love with her. Lately we have had a few disagreements, but nothing to break up over, she even said that those disagreements had nothing to do with it. I don't know if she has found someone else and just doesn't want to tell me, or if we're just drifting apart. If anyone has any input on why she might have these change in feelings, or what I can do to get her back, please let me know, I am very desperate. Thank you in advance for any response I get.

2007-01-25 02:19:46 · 12 answers · asked by runninback2822 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an infected mole on my back, it bubbles out this foul smelling greenish cottage cheese looking stuff... I was wearing a white shirt and it soaked through while we were at the restaurant..she got upset and wont talk to me....what should I do?

2007-01-25 02:19:43 · 22 answers · asked by Turc 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont trust my boyfriend at all. I recently found out his phone password and I found some interesting messages, pictures etc. to and from other women. Should I confont him about it and tell him that I violated his privacy or should I just keep it to myself even though he lies to me and tell me he's not doing anything. I know he'll be really mad if he knew I was going through his phone but I know he's a liar and it's the only way for me to know the truth.

2007-01-25 02:19:15 · 14 answers · asked by lil sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend asked this girl, that I like, if she likes me; She said no, but blushed and asked why the friend wanted to know? Well people, do your thing :p

2007-01-25 02:19:10 · 5 answers · asked by Cody 1 in Singles & Dating