He wants me to stay over at this lockin at his school with him i want to but i am scared that if he is with his friends that they might not like me.....Should i go and have fun with him anyway??
2007-01-25 02:25:11 · 13 answers · asked by <3[D@ViDs]_{Qt}<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, who cares what his friends think. If he's a good boyfriend, he'll defend you if they talk bad about you.
2007-01-25 02:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. You need to get to know him and his friends better. If you are not sure then listen to your gut. You can have fun with him outside of the lockin.
2007-01-25 02:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to be the only girl there?
Do not put yourself in a compromising position and or open the door to opportunity for bad things to happen.
Stay safely at home and wait for another day.
2007-01-25 02:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. If you are getting a weird vibe, or it just doesn't feel right or safe, then don't do it. A lock-in with a bunch of kids you don't know sounds like a set-up. I don't mean that your boyfriend would knowingly plan to hurt you or take advantage of you. I just mean that you shouldn't put yourself into a situation that is likely to backfire on you.
2007-01-25 02:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by Picasso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and have fun. If anything serious develops you will have to get along with his friends and you can see how he treats you when his friends are around, whether like someone he cares for or simply a conquest or property of some kind.
2007-01-25 02:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your best instinct. Does not sound like a good idea to me.
But again, if your better judgement says go, then go. Just be sure to let your family know where you are.. Keep your cell phone with you at all times!
2007-01-25 02:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go and have fun regardless.
You never know, his friends might think you're a pretty cool chick for hanging out with them.
2007-01-25 02:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Karma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, if this is a new relationship, and you don't know his friends, a lock in is a bad idea.
If it goes sour, or if you are uncomfortable, it will be a LONG night for you.
I would hold off on the lock in, and get to know him and his friends better.
2007-01-25 02:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! The heck with what his friends think. You are going there for your guy, not for his friends. Go and have fun.
2007-01-25 02:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and bring a friend. If he loves you he'll do everything to make you feel comfortable.
2007-01-25 02:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋