Do i leave my girl cause she is not giving me attention sexualy?

Question

I have talk to her about doing different things, I try to make love to her at different times besides bed time or different places she instead desides to do exercise or something else I feel like a robot just at bed time, yesterday I spend the whole day sending her emails and thinking when we get home we are going to do it like rabbits, she did it again let me do exercise first, there is this girl at work and she gives me more attention than she does, I am about to take the new road what do I do? I dont want to.

Answer 1

You two may not be on the same page. Try talking to her about it, in a non-accusing way. It takes two, and if she's not up for it, that's her call. Either she may be a little oblivious to your romantic intentions, or she's decided she's really not into you but hasn't wanted to confront you about it. If she's very prefunctory and mechanical about lovemaking at night when you do get together, that's not a good sign, but maybe she's allowed herself to get into a safe little rut.

You would have to decide if sex (or the lack of it) is important enough to you that you want to end the relationship. It sounds like it may be time to move on, but talk to her first.

Answer 2

Maybe your girlfriend is getting tired of you thinking about sex all the time. She's not a sex toy she's your girlfriend. It seems that sex is the only thing on your mind. Talk about or do something else, like.... how was your day, or lets go for a walk. But you only think of your needs and how to fulfill them. And now your flirting with some girl at work. That's a big no no. Never dip your pen in company ink, it only leads to trouble. Just give the sex thing a rest. If you stop talking about it and act like it's no big deal then your girlfriend will get nervous. She'll think you lost interest and start showing you more attention.

Answer 3

Have you tried talking to her about it??? She isn't there to give you whatever you want whenever you want it ya know? It's not like you aren't getting it. Most men would be happy their girl wants to stay in shape and keep looking good! A commitment means staying put and finding a way to fix things, not walking out whenever there is a hard problem to solve! If you don't want to leave, then find a way to fix the problem. One thing that may help is you realizing you aren't going to get what you want every time you want it, that's selfish!

Answer 4

If all you are looking for is sex - then I guess you best dump your girlfriend - she is going to take awhile. The girl is obviously really nervous - must be her first time and she is afraid. Sounds like you are only thinking about yourself here. So if the sex is the only thing that is important to you - go on and find that other girl you speak of.

Answer 5

Tell her straight out that things need to get better (explain what you are looking for in detail). Tell her if in a month or so things do not get better then you are going to move on. If you guys can not find a compromise then it sounds like you both will need to move on.

Answer 6

You should tell your girlfriend your expectations and if you love her, you should both *COMPROMISE*
She should be sensitive to your needs, as long as they're not excessive, and vice versa. Try to work it out if you care about/love her. If not, be just another statistic on the study of jerks who dump great girlfriends for easier company...and then regret it in the end when they get played.

Answer 7

Dont dump her shes just waiting for the right time you should respect it

Answer 8

It won't get any better either, if you get married and have kids. I say get out as fast as you can.

Answer 9

explain it to her i was in similar situation however whne i talked over she did nto relaize this was case and it was back to normal.. however if it does nto improve then move on quickly....

Answer 10

ask her for it