Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

(wel, i'm 17 tomorrow, heh) he's 17 too.

there's a guy i've liked forever! he's really nice. yesterday he kissed me! then he asked me out. we'd got talking and i'd say we talked striaght for 6 hours.....i really really really like him

then today, his friend comes up to me and is like, "lucy, you better be careful, that one has a gf!!!." it sounded like he was joking by the way he said it but could he mean it or was he jus messing around.

though......i don't want to get hurt.

2007-01-25 00:40:25 · 3 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello, I'm 23 and surprisingly mature for my age. I am very career conscious and am trying to build a nice future and life. My girlfriend, who I have been with for 8 months now, is 21 and seems to be irresponsible. Ive noticed it all along but it seems to be getting to me more now. I can definately see her as someone I would like to be with for the rest of my life if certain things are changed....
-She is habitually late. This really bothers me.
-She is currently in college and does not take it seriously at all. College is very important to me. She has been there for four years and still does not know what she wants to do. She has talked about "taking a year off" which I interpret as "Im not going back."
-She lives at home with her parents and is pretty disrespectful to them. She lives with three younger sisters which can't possibly help.

There are other things as well but these are the main ones. I love her very much, am I overreacting? Should I give her time to be young?

2007-01-25 00:40:17 · 6 answers · asked by jbauer 1 in Singles & Dating

Just because the man will be rich and your family poor, so by forcing her into that marriage will it solve all your problems or you will be creating more to your family.

2007-01-25 00:40:10 · 32 answers · asked by betty m 1 in Weddings

my kids say im drowning them ive lost a nephew and niece to a house fire few years ago,and then in august lost another niece,she was hit by a car my heart is broken im so angry ,mad a god and cant get past it sometimes i think my family is cursed,i cant take no more loss,how can i lighten up on my kids but let them relize im just being a mom.im sooo angry and cant get past these deaths they were just babys

2007-01-25 00:39:59 · 9 answers · asked by joyceann27pa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who often makes remarks that could be considered rude, and when you call him on it, he always says "I'm just joking!". It happens A LOT.
He corrects my grammar (which, I have to say is seldom wrong). Also he often agrees to participate in things then later b*tches about it. It's as if he purposely (and unconciously?) sets up situations so that he can complain later. Again when you call him on it, such as saying "why did you go then, if you didn't want to?" etc. he says "I'm kidding!" It is obvious he is not. He frequently corrects people and nit-picks. And it doesn't matter who it is...figures that you'd normally respect such as your grandparents or parents (including his own)....makes no difference.
Is this classic passive-aggressive or what? How did you handle it? Our relationship is such that I have no choice but to deal with him all of the time, so I need some tips. Please help before I snap! I really don't want to. Thanks.

2007-01-25 00:38:33 · 20 answers · asked by Maudie 6 in Friends

(B) what have you NEVER said to me before that you would now like to say to me?

2007-01-25 00:37:51 · 15 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

If my husband doesn't shovel the snow am I responsible to do it? Also If I do everything in the house and take care of the two babies all day, cook, clean and everything else needed for the family, and he just goes to work, should I make his lunch or should he be responsible to make his own lunch?

2007-01-25 00:37:31 · 23 answers · asked by MamaLady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my fiancé for 3, he loves me but I’m tired of the relation and don’t like him anymore, but my parents wont allow me my siblings don’t like my idea of breaking away from him

2007-01-25 00:37:07 · 29 answers · asked by elijah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went on a date with the most amazing guy ever, we chatted all night and there were no awkward silences, he even asked me if he could kiss me at the end of the night rather than just going ahead and doing it I clearly said yes and the kiss was amazing. He msn'd me the morning after the minute he logged in but hasn't asked me out on a another date. Does he fancy me and should I just ask him out or leave it for him to ask.

2007-01-25 00:34:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why bother asking a question about ettiquette?

They dont really care if they look tacky or not, they find the one person who tells them what they want to hear and run with that, even though 25 other posts say its in really poor tatse. Why did they even bother asking if they truly arent interested in the answer?

Am I the only one this annoys?

2007-01-25 00:34:17 · 12 answers · asked by kateqd30 6 in Weddings

I work as a journalist. My editor recently gave a car editorial column & I think it's cool!Problem is I fancy this guy and asked to profile him and his car( just to get closer to him) but now Im scared that everyone will see right through me & know what Im really up to. Pls help!

2007-01-25 00:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my name is teydra i am 16 my sign is a cancer i am a water sign

2007-01-25 00:31:25 · 15 answers · asked by eyez 1 in Singles & Dating

im going to get married in 2months time.after the wedding,i dont no what to do on the first night in bed.pleasee help.how can i feel comfertable beceause i hav no idea about sex,and i know i wont feel comfertable.

2007-01-25 00:31:07 · 14 answers · asked by cyprus_gal 1 in Weddings

2007-01-25 00:30:38 · 16 answers · asked by Aussie_chick 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do women need to hear 'i miss you' ?????


Why need to ask though....? if they have been in a relationship for four years...?


Sorry for generalising......

2007-01-25 00:29:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been having problems for more than 5 months now. Things have improved since then but he still doesnt touch me and the fact that we live in different cities doesnt help either. But. it seems like he is trying. I have been pursueing him all along and made my love very clear to him. I want him to want me and that hasnt happened to me, yet.

So, I'm changing tactics and acting cool and letting him make the calls to me and being casual. Dont know how long I can keep this up. But do you think it could work?

2007-01-25 00:29:44 · 11 answers · asked by Doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 00:28:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so my mom pissed me off yesterday by taking my phone just because I SCREAMED AT HER because she wouldn't say PLEASE turn your phone down! So now I just won't talk to her I have nothing to do with my mom anymore! To tell the truth I'm a 100% Grade A Daddy's girl! None of that goes to my mom! She says she shows appreiciation for others and is caring ya right to who her imaginary friends and Kyra(baby sister) I'm just venting sorry I kept this bottled up all night long! So what do you think? Honesty people no lame jokes to be funny! I'm like almost crying so I need your feedback!

2007-01-25 00:27:56 · 17 answers · asked by firebabe1717 2 in Family

This is a great idea to do for Valentine's Day. I just need some help for y'all. Guys I think your girls will like it to. Take a new note pad (8x11) and on every page write a word with a short descrition about your partner. Now shoot off some different wrods for me I am stuck and I need to fill in a bunch of pages.....Thanks :O)

2007-01-25 00:27:27 · 6 answers · asked by swtpjgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Im a single mother of two kids, I have 3 step children and a man of 4 years. Im usually an extremly happy easy to get along with person, latley though Ive noticed I feel miserable, Im grouchy Ive been yelling alot, my patience seems to have vanished, Im burnt out with work,I feel overwhelmed by everything and I dont feel like I have time to get anything done. I dont like feeling this way because its not me, what can I do to make myself feel better?

2007-01-25 00:27:20 · 18 answers · asked by lilshedevil 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 00:27:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 00:25:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when I defend myself against his painful insults. I actually respond in a challenging way, to ask for the basis of his insult. But he just says "I've had enough of your backtalk". I just always thought it was a reference made regarding child-parent relationships, and not adult. What do you think?

2007-01-25 00:24:44 · 21 answers · asked by Peaceful 3 in Family

... I'm still in school and meeting her tomorrow in school. It's an internet school with an actual campus, so I first met her in an online course. Then we met eachother in person. We've been talking and we both like eachother. The only thing I am afraid of is... I have been giving other guys advice not to have a girlfriend until they get out of school, but I'm not one to take my own advice. What to do now? Any suggestions?

2007-01-25 00:24:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have no good friend can you find me a friend

2007-01-25 00:24:03 · 17 answers · asked by mini 1 in Friends

2007-01-25 00:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by mark b 1 in Weddings

What do you do when you want nothing to do with your wife's family. They are all self-centered, opinionated, petty and vindictive. They gossip endlessly, they are morbid and depressive. What can I do? I want to get my wife away from them, because they drag her down and make her life miserable. Help please

2007-01-25 00:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by Discostu 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me what are the common as well as rare compliments that u recieve frm ppl u know...n the first impression that u leave on strangers
in my case my close ones say i got beautiful eyes n smile....strangers like my attitude and dressing sense

2007-01-25 00:20:43 · 15 answers · asked by close_in_destroy_everything 2 in Friends

This girl i like very much is planning 2 go 2 Africa with a few of her friends 2 go and do some volunteer work and they need a guy 2 go along with them. The thing is i'm thinking of going but not only 2 volunteer;i'm hoping that it would bring us closer as friends cause this friendship didnt start on the right foot. Also i'm not sure but i think she knows that i like her.I don't have a problem with going to Africa. Is it still a good idea?

2007-01-25 00:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by ticko 1 in Singles & Dating

Hiya, well my problem is this, I recently met a guy on the internet through dating ads. We emailed each other and had lots of things to talk about and had so much in common, so we decided to exchange numbers. When I met him in person he was very unattractive but was great laugh, nice guy and I just couldn't believe how much we had in common. Well I went to his place and we played around but I felt really turned off by his appearance and to be honest I felt dirty. Nothing to do with the sex but i couldn't belive I was doing it with him. A lot of people are gonna say im shallow but you have to be physically attractive to the guy as well as personality and if we did have a relationship (he is very willing) which I want a lot of people would tell me that I could do soooooo much better, but the thing is he is such a great guy.

2007-01-25 00:20:13 · 39 answers · asked by carmen260 1 in Singles & Dating