Hello, I'm 23 and surprisingly mature for my age. I am very career conscious and am trying to build a nice future and life. My girlfriend, who I have been with for 8 months now, is 21 and seems to be irresponsible. Ive noticed it all along but it seems to be getting to me more now. I can definately see her as someone I would like to be with for the rest of my life if certain things are changed....
-She is habitually late. This really bothers me.
-She is currently in college and does not take it seriously at all. College is very important to me. She has been there for four years and still does not know what she wants to do. She has talked about "taking a year off" which I interpret as "Im not going back."
-She lives at home with her parents and is pretty disrespectful to them. She lives with three younger sisters which can't possibly help.
There are other things as well but these are the main ones. I love her very much, am I overreacting? Should I give her time to be young?
2007-01-25
00:40:17
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jbauer
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Thanks for your answers! What should I do about this...We talked last night about an altercation between her and her dad. Her dad asked her to do a simple task and she refused saying it was unfair. And in the outcome he came down pretty hard on her. I told her that if she would have done the task, she could have avoided all the trouble. I understand things arent fair but she lives at home and he pays for her school, car, insurance, gas, food, etc.. Should I have kept quiet about the whole situation or voiced my opinion? If I think she should have handled the situation differently and I dont say anything, it tears at me inside. I hope she would let me know if I should have handled something differently.
2007-01-25
01:07:42 ·
update #1