Just because the man will be rich and your family poor, so by forcing her into that marriage will it solve all your problems or you will be creating more to your family.
2007-01-25 00:40:10 · 32 answers · asked by betty m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Absolutely NOT fair! Its criminal act! Deplorable! Awful! Unacceptable! Its equal to selling your daughter!!! Condemmnable! Neither religions nor cultures allows that! Its slavery by parents!!!! Unforgivable!
2007-01-25 00:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not all the money in the world would be worth taking a young girl's Innocence away by forcing her into a fixed marriage !!!!!
This is not the dark ages and no one is that poor to have to force a child into this kind of life. She will be miserable all her life and her family will someday be poor again and then they will not be able to ever get their daughter back.
A family staying together makes them richer than money and pain could ever give to them.
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2016-02-11 07:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are serious?? Never has been, never will. If you need money find it yourself. That marriage is only going to create MORE problems. Beside you don't even know if the rich man is going to be rich(you're assuming he'll be rich) or help you financially, so you'll ruin the girls live for ever. If she wants to get married for money that should be her decision and she's NOT going to be happy either.
Marriage is about love and respect of 2 people who want to spend their live together. Money is out of the question.
2007-01-25 01:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to force someone can never be right. arranged marriages have a place in some cultures but to arrange a marriage is not the same as forcing some one. when a marriage is arranged 2 people getting together should always have the option to say no
2007-01-25 03:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by katyclover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should be forced into marrying, for any reason. The only real reason to marry is that you have found the one person that makes you complete. The only thing that the family that forces a young girl to marry for money is more headaches.
2007-01-25 00:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by TXVyper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will solve your problems. You are too young to realise it now. But it will.
If it is an arranged marriage and it is part of your custom/ culture - you probably know other's who at first didn't want to get married to a stranger. But you never know.. .. you could fall in love with your husband. I will not say that your culture is wrong, but you may be looking at the wrong side of it. If you are going to have an arranged marriage anyway, isn't it better to have a rich husband rather than a poor husband?
2007-01-25 01:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
That is illegal, unfair, and smacks of a creed or culture that is actually abhorrent in the civilised world.
I suspect this is from an immigrant family, if so they have adopted a modern world to live in so they have to make a choice, stick to modern world ideology or get out!!!
2007-01-25 00:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by rinfrance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not fair to your daughter or the husband to be.
you are forcing her to do something she doesn't want to do and she will hate you and him for it.
and the marriage will not last so you lose again .
your daughter hating you and the marriage ending will only
be worse for you.
greed is what you are after. money. and you don't care about your daughter just the greed/money.
2007-01-25 01:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Nobody should force a person into marriage. You will build up bad karma.
2007-01-25 00:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋