im going to get married in 2months time.after the wedding,i dont no what to do on the first night in bed.pleasee help.how can i feel comfertable beceause i hav no idea about sex,and i know i wont feel comfertable.
2007-01-25 00:31:07 · 14 answers · asked by cyprus_gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Girl, congratulations!!! Be yourself..... wear some sex lingerie.... and just get loose...this is your husband now.....and keep it going even after the first night! Happy Lovemaking!
2007-01-25 00:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While this will be a happy day, the night's activities could be a bit frustrating and painful. First thing you need to do is go to the store and buy some KY jelly. It will help with the initial penetration and thus relieve some of the pain you'll experience during intercourse.
Get on the internet and perhaps search for some information on how to have intercourse. Rent a movie or buy one that show's various positions. Barnes and noble has books on the subject of lovemaking.
2007-01-25 00:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me assure you as much as people tell you first time is bad....its all in the mind.i was scared stiff and i post poned having sex with my partner for weeks which later became months then years....but when the time comes you cannot afford to be scared...it makes it worse.first you have got to be relaxed and in the mood.some champaigne or what works best for you is good.dont think negative...dont lay there and grit your teeth expecting the worst.remember the mind gives the body what it has.there is some pain...but not the kind that would equal someone sawing through you...your partner should not rush ..it takes time for your body to get used to it...if you have made out before that would be a great way to start.dont sit there and move like a robot....if he is gentle then you should have a wonerful wedding night....i hope it all goes well if not great.
2007-01-25 00:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, you're getting married soon. It should be your most memorable and beautiful day of your life. Enjoy this special day, and on your first night together, just relax, leave it to your husband-to-be,im sure he knows how to make you feel comfortable, make the best out of it!
2007-01-25 00:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by che-che 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 13:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and relax. Everyone is scared their first time. Just think of how much it will mean since it will be w/ you husband on your wedding night! As far as what to do....just let your husband guide you...men are born hot wired with that knowlege!
2007-01-28 08:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, everything that you do the first time is difficult and uncomfortable. Relax, after all you will get married to someone you trust, he will certainly understand and teach you the moves.
2007-01-25 00:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by indie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know you won't feel comforatble, then maybe you should talk to your fiance......i actually married my first, but the first time for us, i thought i would be uncomfortable too and i was totally dreading the day that it owuld happen becaus ei was so scared but it wasn't uncomforatable at all when it actually happened. don't stress too much about it.....
On our wedding night we were both dead tired! nothing happened at all that night i just wanted to sleep next to my "husband" for the first time.
2007-01-25 03:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable about having sex with the person you are going to marry ,then it seems to me that you are not ready to get married yet. But sex is natural it will just come to you.Congratulations...goodluck and just breathe
2007-01-25 00:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by breeze279755 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pick up a copy of the book The Joy of Sex, it is really helpful. If you are embarassed, order it on-line.
2007-01-25 01:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋