... I'm still in school and meeting her tomorrow in school. It's an internet school with an actual campus, so I first met her in an online course. Then we met eachother in person. We've been talking and we both like eachother. The only thing I am afraid of is... I have been giving other guys advice not to have a girlfriend until they get out of school, but I'm not one to take my own advice. What to do now? Any suggestions?
2007-01-25 00:24:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I already established with her up front that I am not having sex until marriage.
2007-01-25 00:29:51 · update #1
To Mye: We were already friends. We supported eachother in everything we said. Since this is basically the start of dating, I thought the purpose of dating was to get to know the other person better, or to become better friends with them.
2007-01-25 00:30:58 · update #2
Well not dating while you're in school is a good idea for a few different reasons. However since your classes are online you won't be seeing each other in classes. If you really like this girl and she likes you it would be a shame to not see how things work out. You can take it slow. Have you told her about your feelings to not date while in school? Good luck.
2007-01-25 00:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rosalind S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is the logic behind having a bf/gf after you have completed school? That is totally a decision that has to be made by an individual who feels like they are ready for that or not. Just because you two like each other does not mean that you two have to immedietly become gf and bf. Take it slow, hang out, become friends etc. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-25 08:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen here pimpin its ok to have a girl. I mean if you like then give here the time of day. But at the same time you should follow your own advice. Just go ahead meet this girl, give her a chance. But at the same time keep up your grades.
2007-01-25 08:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by yung' rob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, we all make mistakes sometimes, we all do not give the best advices...it is just the way it is.
be with the girl if you both like eachother maybe you could encourage yourselves with studying...
also if the friend say ohhh you are such a XXX you told me this but you are doing exactly what you told me not to then just say: well, i admit i was wrong...
2007-01-25 08:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jellyfish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your human, none of us live using the advice we give others.
2007-01-25 08:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by FILLME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her out to dinner but don,t have sex till you are 19 years old.
2007-01-25 08:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date her
and be happy
coz it is really nice to gave somebody who likes u and cares about u
2007-01-25 08:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by fifi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a girl
grow some balls lad its not going to affect anything!
2007-01-25 08:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you listen to your own advise and dump her now
john says listen to your horemones
2007-01-25 08:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jack Bauer CTU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shut up and kiss her
2007-01-25 08:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋