Why do women need to hear 'i miss you' ?????
Why need to ask though....? if they have been in a relationship for four years...?
Sorry for generalising......
2007-01-25 00:29:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I miss you is not just 3 words that we guys take it for what the word literally means. Let me explain. Girls often do things to find out certain things that they are curious of. For instance, if she hope to hear "i miss you", its not an issue of needing to her the words literally but then she is trying to test if you take an effort to spend some time... telling her senseless things that a guy might think such as "i miss you" to her. Just like... why do you need to give flowers to girls? Flowers are not just flowers, but they bring along meanings along with them such as, "HEY! i remembered our aniversary!" or... "I'm busy the whole day but i've made an effort to find some of your favourite flowers just to let you know... that you are still special" .... Little things that you do... explains how you feel, how important she is to you and much more. I believe she is hoping that you will say i miss you because she is currently lacking of some security deep within and she wants to test you if you're still the you the first time she met you... the same guy... that made her heart thumping hard... Ladies are still ladies... you can try small little things like... being cheeky, dropping small notes in her purse, reading... "i'm here because i want to say i miss you too much :)" ... It means lots to them and it projects a romantic and cheeky side of you that she might like. I hope i've been of help. Cheers
2007-01-25 00:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Devoiex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sorry...it is how is ladies are...we love hearing sweet things! We love hearing we are loved, missed and needed/wanted all that stuff! I do not think it matters how long you have been in the relationship for, it is always nice to hear things like that. I love to reassure my man of my feelings for him. Old saying... treat others as you would like to be treated is so very true : )
2007-01-25 08:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't need to hear it. In fact I don't want to hear that. I have a home 4 hours away from my other house. I hate to go there and get all the miss you phone calls. It makes me feel pressured.
2007-01-25 08:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by mary texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont but maybe thats because when my husband isnt working,he's home with me and he calls from work several times to say hello. I dont need "I miss you". But when he's away in another state for school for his job for a week or two at a time,its nice to hear that Im still in his thoughts but "more than words" right? I know just because he calls.
2007-01-25 08:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do men need to hear that?
I've been talking to a guy that every time we get on the phone he asks "ya miss me yet"
2007-01-25 08:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jay's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just what to know if you miss them or not. Don't read anything into it. They mean exactly what they are asking. Don't you want to know if they miss you? At least every once in a while?
2007-01-25 08:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do not need to hear that you "miss" them. They just need to know that you think about them when you are apart.
2007-01-25 08:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by finallyfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, alot of women are insecure that maybe their guy isnt thinking of them while he is gone. They want to know that they are loved and special enough to be missed and told thatthey are missed. It makes them feel safe in that you think theyre worth being missed. Does that somewhat answer it? hope so!
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2007-01-25 08:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It lets us know that you have are thinking of us all times of the day and can't wait to get back with you, regardless of the length of the relationship.
2007-01-25 08:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to make sure you like or love them
2007-01-25 08:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋