Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

like my closes friend we knew eachother for 3 years and he gets very upset when guys flirt with me....O.o i dont know why it's kinda weird because hes like a brother to me and out of the whole group hes like the alpha male.....he wont leave me alone!!!! hes crazy and annoying but i dont have the heart to say something to him i dont wont to hurt him or get hurt myself.... it's creepy cuz he choked and abused me because he claims that to many guys flirt we me and he wants me for himself i tryed staying away from him but it's not working!!!!what to do!?!?!please help me???

2007-01-25 02:04:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

went out with this girl i like (and she knows this) last week and she said she likes me 2 but the whole night she never really spoke to me much just to her friend but then she started talking a lot when we were walking home together just me and her and her mum drove past and she turned down getting a lift home and walked home with me instead this tells me she wanted to spend more time with me but im getting mixed signals what do u think is going on in her head do u think she really does want me or not? btw she isnt very shy either (just before people say this is the reason for it) and also i had never met her friend before this night .

2007-01-25 02:03:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 02:03:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also, are you single, married, divorced, or widowed?

2007-01-25 02:02:50 · 12 answers · asked by Lilystar 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know why but i have very strong feelings for my wifes friend, wich she also works with her. she likes to flirt with me when i go pick up my wife and she always likes to talk about how miserable her life is with her husband, and how i am a very good husband. her husband is now in jail and will be for a long time. does she feel lonely, or does she really like me, because like i said, she always flirts with me, and when i call my wife on the phone she likes to start conversations with me. what the hell should i do, i have always felt something for her ever since i met her. but now that she talks to me more, i feel like going up to her about how i feel about her.... i know i shouldnt cheat on my wife, but me and my wife are going to through not that very good times.... let me know what you think...

2007-01-25 02:02:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 26, good job, own place, no children, good looking(or so i've been told),BUT i'm picky and don't want a relationship with just anyone.
I know right away if the woman is potential girlfriend material for me right off the bat. I'm sick of dating women that i find attractive, but don't see any future with.
I do enjoy the company of these women, but most of them are looking to build something with me. These women are good looking and smart and i like to flirt with them, but in the end i know i'm just passing the time with them. untill i find the so called "one" for me. I really don't want to hurt anymore women.
How should i proceed with my dating life.

Is the the answer not to date at all?

I really want to end this cycle of meaningless quasi relationships.

2007-01-25 02:01:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy is playing games with me but i really really like him!!!!

what do i do???

2007-01-25 02:01:43 · 22 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i know if a guy likes me and how can i tell if he doesn't. besides him telling me or me asking him

2007-01-25 02:00:21 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a friend who I thought was my secret pal because he said similar things with the secret pal did. I did not understand why he would give himself away if he wanted to be secret pal. I guess he was playing a mind game with me but I don't think it was funny.

2007-01-25 01:59:08 · 4 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is the deal. My ex and childrens father is in prison. He has been in prison 4 times in 11 years. He is upset that our 11 year old wants nothing to do with him however is now telling me that when he gets out 1year that he plans on enforcing his visitation rights. Does he still have an opportunity to receive visiation? Also he is bipolar and on lots of meds now. (incase this matters) I really would not like for his visits to start back up again as he has only hurt our son emotionally. Our current order is almost 8 years old.

2007-01-25 01:58:44 · 13 answers · asked by Tricia P 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 01:58:16 · 20 answers · asked by ...... 2 in Singles & Dating

size

2007-01-25 01:57:58 · 29 answers · asked by mushroom 2 in Singles & Dating

I may have to relocate there

2007-01-25 01:57:19 · 16 answers · asked by delboy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi, me and my ex bf of 3 years split up about 4 months ago and its been really tuff on both of us, one week hes ringing me at 4 in the mornin sayin he loves me, the next hes saying hes ova me and hes wiv sum1 else...after he told me that i told him i need sum space 2 get ova him and he hasnt stopped fning me!! he left a msg sayin can we talk 2mo so wen he rang he didnt hav much 2 say?im confused. do u think its poss 4 us just to b friends? we both miss and love eachotha.

2007-01-25 01:56:33 · 2 answers · asked by * *sUnShINe GiRl* * 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he has a gf in another country. I told him I liked him and I felt it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. The thing is I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is that he ignored me. So far, we've been ignoring each other for the past 3 weeks and now it is awkward and i miss talking to him sometimes. Whenever we pass each other it is awkward. What should I do?

2007-01-25 01:56:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 6 yrs and we have 3 kids together and we are on the verge of a divorce. The problem is that we can't seem to agree on anything together, whether it be about the kids or the house or the bills or even what to eat for dinner. This has been going on for many yrs and it seems as though it's only getting worse. AND to top it all off, he has such a negative attitude. I've repeatedly asked him to stop being so negative but it only makes a big argument and then we end of saying things we don't mean. So my question is what in the world should I do about his resistance and negativity? Live with it or live without it?

2007-01-25 01:55:10 · 28 answers · asked by cindys424 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a two married friends Adam and Melissa. Their marriage has been a little rocky but they are trying to work things out. Adam thinks things are going better while Melissa is just putting up with him. We also have a friend named John. (who is one of my closests friends) He shows me text messages from Melissa all the time talking about how she feels a connection with him, joking about quickies, and how she wants to have something with him etc. Now John and Adam have been best friends for as long as I can remember. So Adam will talk to John about his marriage and how he feels things are going better and John will be like thats great and encourage him to keep trying. Isn't that wrong? I feel so bad for Adam but I don't really think it's my place to tell him. Should I tell John to tell him what's going on? I would hate to have Adam find out and be seriously hurt. Help!!

2007-01-25 01:55:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so a friend of mines is very pregnant with twins, she's do in about 3 weeks. she is on strict bed rest. She is married and has a 6 year old little boy, I called and told her I was going to come down to her house over the weekend and help her with a few things like food shopping and laundry. She insits her errands are all taken care of, and that it would be nice to just visit. But I still feel I should do something to help her. I was thinking I could cook up some meals for her that she could freeze and just have her husband pull out and warm up...good idea? if so what are some good casseroles that are easy and quick and kid friendly? Thanks for looking!! Kerri

2007-01-25 01:54:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this chick?
I dont want to sound like loser that cant figure **** out but i guess thats just what i am lol. Me and this chick dated threw highschool then she moved away. She ended up getting pregnent and haveing a kid. Im 21 now and she is 20 and her and her boyfriend moved back into the area. We always hang out while im home from college and we talk everyday. we say we love each other and all that stuff at first i was cool with just hanging out with her but now im not so cool with it. Im just wondering what i should do? I mean im really feelin this chick and i kinda broke off the relationship i was in because i thought this was going somehwere. The other day she said that her and her bf were talking about getting married and they were looking for a house to buy. I just dont know how to go about this situation

2007-01-25 01:54:12 · 1 answers · asked by happyman82385 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 01:53:29 · 9 answers · asked by [THK] PIU 1 in Singles & Dating

issues stem from finances. I make more money then he does. I have a higher education than he (Master's Degree). While he only had one year of college. While we have been seeing each other he has been living at my house. After the new year I gave him a key. Even before that he had been staying there. The only thing I ask him is to give me about 400 dollars a month towards the bills. My bills all together are about 1500 a month. He is now on unemployment and he receives his checks about every two weeks. Sometimes they come late and I question him if he has gotten paid. Today I did and he became upset. He says we are not married and I haven't earned the right to inquire about his finances. That we haven't even been together a year yet. He says once he has bills in his name and we find a place of our own then I can have that privledge. He says he's not even going to tell me when he is getting paid or anything.

I am upset by this because when I ask him it's only because I don't like to

2007-01-25 01:53:07 · 7 answers · asked by dezolatestorm 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically I live with a self destructive love life. If you want to even label it a love life. I was going out with this girl... and once again things didn't work out and we broke-up. however I can't seem to forget about her.... thing is I am pretty sure, that she's over me... I dont know what to do.... it have been almost 6 months I can not drawn her out....

2007-01-25 01:52:20 · 11 answers · asked by monopoly_cc 2 in Singles & Dating

We need something for about 7 hours and its a prom weekend so limos are super expensive. Any creative ideas?
Im trying to avoid asking someone to drive.

Thanks!

2007-01-25 01:52:11 · 19 answers · asked by minotaurhcs 1 in Weddings

I found a picture of the decorations I wanted for my outdoor wedding. Problem is, I have no idea where to find the tall poles. Help, please?

Photo Link: http://www.jenmagazine.com/modest-wedding/modest-pictures/modestbridalgown.jpg

2007-01-25 01:51:29 · 23 answers · asked by *Brown Sugar 1 in Weddings

Found out that my girlfriend has been financing a great deal of her lifestyle through a long standing relationship with a rich man. He is 20 yrs older then she is and of course this relationship includes sex. She has asked me to stay with her despite that this information has come to light. What do you think?

2007-01-25 01:51:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so it started off as a really great friendship which lead into a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. However he had issues such as no confidence, anger problems, and getting over an ex that I felt just would not make the relationship work. So, we went on one date on the date I told him I would go out with him again but then I just knew it wouldn't work out so I told him on the internet the next day there would be no second date. (I know it was cruel and I appologized and if he thought what I did was awful he had the chance to leave) Well we still continued to talk via the internet and even sometimes 6 hours a night. He had fixed his issues and the possibility of a relationship was brought up several times (his response always being maybe). Well 3 months ago his father died of cancer I sent him a card I talked to him and told him I would be there but he never accepted my offer. Well what happened was he found another girl. So what I did was write him a letter of closure...

2007-01-25 01:51:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK women! If you saw a cowboy with
Med. length Blonde hair
Blue eyes
muscled arms
muscled legs
Six pack (his stomach not beer lol)
Tall
and looks good in the face.
What would you say?
Because I have a cowboy that looks like taht and I have had a crush on him forever but never thought about it till last nite he asked me out. And I am scared half to death!!! What should I do???

2007-01-25 01:50:46 · 5 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend recently tried to break up with me because he loves me and feels unworthy of me. He said "I am a dropout of a third rate university and am bad looking; you are good looking and Ivy League educated." He said he is in a bad situation, he is not making decent income, doesn't have a proper job, not living properly. He said I get nothing out of the relationship, I don't gain anything from dating him. I said that if he loves me, we should compromise. We decided to compromise, no phone calls, only e-mails, for a while (we're in a long distance reln). He has a mental illness and hates the phone. What should I do to keep him in a long term relationship, and eventually marry him? I thought I could answer his e-mails less frequently to show that I'm a bit upset with him, and to make him miss me and keep the mystery. What do you think? I would really appreciate your opinions on what to do to keep him in love with me. Please don't say he doesn't love me; I know he does

2007-01-25 01:50:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies if you and ur man makes a promise that he is to watch a movie with u and hes not to go anywhere...and the movie is over and he goes outside...is that promise broke???

2007-01-25 01:50:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

get my mum to 'let go of me'.
Im 18, and my mum and I always used to be so close....I have a boyfriend (3years). My mum finds it so hard to let go...she says its because she loves n cares for me so much....but that doeasnt help, because her ways are pushing us apart! she goes through my underware draws....reads leeters that people have written me...goes through my stuff. she then says that |I have caused her so much stress, but if she didnt go searching for all these things....she wouldnt have the stress!...Have any advice?????

2007-01-25 01:49:37 · 11 answers · asked by little_millsey 2 in Other - Family & Relationships