I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he has a gf in another country. I told him I liked him and I felt it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. The thing is I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is that he ignored me. So far, we've been ignoring each other for the past 3 weeks and now it is awkward and i miss talking to him sometimes. Whenever we pass each other it is awkward. What should I do?
2007-01-25 01:56:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's best if you don't let yourself get caught back up in the middle of all that. It hurts now. You don't have to ignore him. You can smile and say hello. You just have to maintain your distance and keep things in perspective. He's not available. If he wanted to be with you, he would make himself available for you both. After some time, the hurt and awkwardness will not be so intense. Stay strong. You have good values.
2007-01-25 02:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop emailing him. Not only is he showing his friends but you can jeopardize your job. This is the reason most people do not get involved w/ people from work. If this guy has a gf and was showing an interest in you and leading you on why would you want him. Take the high road and don't let the people you work with make you the topic at the water cooler. It takes energy to ignore and be upset with someone, Instead be indifferent who cares what he thinks. Find a new guy out side of your work place who doses not play games and is single Have some fun.
2007-01-25 10:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, move on.
2007-01-25 10:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋