I'm 26, good job, own place, no children, good looking(or so i've been told),BUT i'm picky and don't want a relationship with just anyone.
I know right away if the woman is potential girlfriend material for me right off the bat. I'm sick of dating women that i find attractive, but don't see any future with.
I do enjoy the company of these women, but most of them are looking to build something with me. These women are good looking and smart and i like to flirt with them, but in the end i know i'm just passing the time with them. untill i find the so called "one" for me. I really don't want to hurt anymore women.
How should i proceed with my dating life.
Is the the answer not to date at all?
I really want to end this cycle of meaningless quasi relationships.
2007-01-25 02:01:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
female friend of mine says there is no hope, because i flirt and give compliments to all women.
just the way i am. i like to see them smile
2007-01-25 02:12:58 · update #1
1. you cant stop dating that is the process if you want to get to know someone
2. life sucks no matter who you date or married one day is gonna still not be all you want
3. women's are liers take it from one we like to portrait a perfect picture in reality we have flaws just like anyone
4. hey getting some a*s while you wait for the right one is not a bad thing don't be so down get happy you still single****
2007-01-25 02:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all you can do is wait until you find the "one." No you shouldnt give up dating completely, because you can't really know if a woman is the right one unless you date her at least a little bit. Being picky is good, but maybe you're being TOO picky. Just don't be serious with any women until you think you found someone right. Just try to enjoy the time you're passing while dating, you'll eventually find her.
2007-01-25 10:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Iced Mode 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with the flow until the right person comes along enjoy life and do not try to makea realtionship with someone and you should let women that come into your life what you are looking for in a woman instead of kinda leading them on. Do not go into no unwanted relationship.
2007-01-25 10:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by jangel6715 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in order to find the right person for you - the need to meet and date is imminent. Perhaps it is the manner in which you acquire dates? Try meeting people through family or friends - people that know the type of person you are looking for. Try the online or other personals and be very descriptive of yourself and what you are looking for in a relationship. Perhaps you may wish to consider seeing a therapist and additionally doing a personality test to identify what it is you are looking for in a relationship.
2007-01-25 10:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is to become friends first -- no strings attached...Just getting to know someone. If they seem like possible 'girlfriend' materal then continue -- if not, just be friends -- don't lead her on though...be very very careful to make you intentions as clear as you can without actually saying them...BODY LANGUAGE -- and keep the flirting to a minimum -- Get to know her...not whats under her clothes!
2007-01-25 10:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with these women. Tell them that you are looking for someone special but you are not serious about settling down for the time being. That way they are warned that you are just a player.
2007-01-25 10:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll never find Mrs. Right if you don't date. And a woman shouldn't be so attached to you just after a few dates, so I don't think you're really killing them all that much. Just be honest and keep your eyes, ears and heart open.
2007-01-25 10:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't flirt with them DUH that is just leading them on! don't do it! Believe it or not it hurts! and i mean if u only go out with them cuz u r attracted to them(physically) don't even try their is no point! i mean get to KNOW them and if u want to just be friends then make sure u specify that! and hopefully u'll find the "one" that u click with! but when u do find her, don't be too pushy that is like the one thing that totally pushes us away! kk hope i helped
2007-01-25 10:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chart out a "demographic" of what you are looking for-
interests,income level, educational level,social stature,even looks.
Research your resluts and find out where you can achieve the results most efficiently- work,social setting,gatherings,mutual friends.etc.
some food for thought- sometimes you can be to close to the woods to see the trees! Confide in a close friend for "objectivity"
2007-01-25 10:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must be tall and have a head full of gorgeous hair. Woman I hope your taking notes.
2007-01-25 10:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by LuckyChucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋