Basically I live with a self destructive love life. If you want to even label it a love life. I was going out with this girl... and once again things didn't work out and we broke-up. however I can't seem to forget about her.... thing is I am pretty sure, that she's over me... I dont know what to do.... it have been almost 6 months I can not drawn her out....
2007-01-25 01:52:20 · 11 answers · asked by monopoly_cc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to get out and do something that will take ur mind off of her for sure!!!! just keep in your head that's she's not even worth your thoughts! go to one of those singles bars or something and just have a good time! one of the best ways to get over a break-up is to treat urself! when ur in a relationship you hardly do anything for urself..its all about the other person! so now its time to do something for urself!!!! try doing something that you've always dreamt of.....lyk bungee jumping or something (if that tickles ur fancy).....the main thing right now is to put urself first and take her completely out of your agenda!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2007-01-25 02:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how your feeling I've been right where your at. The best thing I found to do is find some new interests. Things that you couldn't do before, something she didn't permit you to do. You will find a new found freedom in that and you may meet some new people. If you keep your mind occupied on new interests you will find that you will not think of her while you are doing those things. Oh one more thing, rely on your friends and quit talking about her.
2007-01-25 10:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange to meet her and a group of frends for a movie or something, see if theres a spark again.
I think u hav a chance, my boyf dumped me about 6 months ago too.. and i just spoke to him and he seems like hes changed for the better and i am sorta falling in love w him again. So maybe u should do the same.. get her to like u again!
Goodluck!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-01-25 09:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a bad break up seek some consoling to help. sounds like your in grieving, other than that try not to fixate on her and avoid doing things that trigger memories of her, the only thing that will help is time, and try dating a little you weren't married so it is appropriate.
2007-01-25 09:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by Eda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby - go to the gym. To quote Legally Blonde... Exercise gives you endorphins, endorphins make you happy.
2007-01-25 09:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try keeping busy. play sports, watch funny movies start hanging out with your friends more. getting over someone you truly love is not easy, takes time.
2007-01-25 09:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start doing other things go to the gym hang out with friends go to places where you can meet other girls.
good luck
2007-01-25 09:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by short moma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you gone out with another girl or two? Time to get on with it.
2007-01-25 09:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by sick-ovit-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just think of her as a friend it might be hard but hey its worth a try.
(find someone else)
2007-01-25 10:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by UndeadNitemare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her bak out..if ur stil feeling these strong feelins 4 her, that must tell u sumthin?
2007-01-25 09:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by * *sUnShINe GiRl* * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋