Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

Can someone please explain to me what is wrong wid my exboyfrend, we went out for 2 yrs, he is 31, but looks 20, he lied, cheated, got me pregnant, I had my baby aborted, he is a really hardworking person who wud go out of his way to help me, but he feels thats compensation for doing so much, to hurt someone. He has done this to all of his girlfrends, but somehow manages to end up making us say sorry for all he does, thus leading us to beg for his love. To make matters worst, I work with him, and he tries his best too hurt me, by speaking to other chicks on his fone deliberately near me. I keep my cool, but I dont know wat to feel anymore, its as though he has managed to kill most of my human emotions.In the 2 years our relationship was off and on every week, sometimes within 2 days. he wanted to control me coz I have more authority @ work, but wen he found he needed me, he would be all sweet and loving.I Luv my job, & our relationship ended 2 weeks ago, I wont leave work coz of him.

2007-01-25 00:58:57 · 17 answers · asked by channy_330pointblank 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy texts me loads to meet up....then ignores my messages once we have met up.............i then dont bother contacting him anymore................then, after abit he starts texting me again like normal????


is the some sort of game that hes playing???

why???

we have only kissed.

2007-01-25 00:58:17 · 18 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 00:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by Long ago, there was an Angel....that's me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 00:55:52 · 24 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who I get on well with, and I'm getting to know better, but I'm wondering whether he likes me as more than a friend. He'll often sit next to me or stand near me. I keep noticing him turning round to look at me, or he'll look more openly and smile. He smiles at me a lot, and make eye contact with me when we're in a group. A couple of times I've been talking to other friends when he was nearby, and he's commented on something I've said, joining in with the conversation, which surprised me because I didn't expect him to be listening. What do you think? Does he like me or am I reading too much into it?

2007-01-25 00:55:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is a continuation of "Will acting cool make my husband want me more?" question I posted earlier.

Yes, I have tried talking to him. Beleive me! A lot.
Yes, I have made it very clear to him that I love him a lot
Yes, we live apart because he chose to take up a job in a different city right abt the time we were having a bad time.
I am taking the "cool" route because I have worried abt this so much, cried and fussed abt it so much, it bring me down and my parents along with me.
He seems to be trying to make things ok with me... he also said that he was still afraid of getting close because it means complicating his life. Some crazy logic.

2007-01-25 00:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by Doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do about this complicated situation?
I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he has a gf. I told him I liked him and I felt it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. The thing is I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is that he ignored me. So far, we've been ignoring each other for the past 3 weeks and now it is awkward and i miss talking to him sometimes. Whenever we pass each other it is awkward. What should I do?

2007-01-25 00:53:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you support me if I say that I am going to wait for this girl who previously rejected me? It is just that i love her as much as or even more than I love myself.. Please do understand my reason and not criticising me as a stalker or any weirdo.. I have never felt such feelings before; someone more than just physical attraction..

Would you support me if I say that in a few years' time, I will continue to develop myself and become someone and by that time I will ask her out again? I am 14 and I plan to ask her out in a one and a half year time. In the meantime, I would be a good friend and be there for her?

WIll you support me?

2007-01-25 00:53:13 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, the groom tux will be ivory with a Palm Beach Coral Vest (Similar to Burnt Orange) The groomsmen tuxes will be ivory with Harinbone Copal Vest (similar to a chocolate brown). I'm considering my gown to be the same color as the groom's vest. (What do you think about that?) Also, should my bridemaids dresses be the same color as the groomsmen vest, or what? I've never color coordinated a wedding, so I'm completely clueless. Please Help!!!

2007-01-25 00:52:07 · 10 answers · asked by me 1 in Weddings

2007-01-25 00:52:05 · 17 answers · asked by brenbon1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 00:51:55 · 10 answers · asked by miss hyderabadi 1 in Family

I trust my boyfriend, i kno´w he can,t cheat on me..he tells me everything.. but i don,t understand myself sometimes..i get jealous even when he just sitting next to a girl in movies.... is that crazy or am i just to insecure..

2007-01-25 00:50:28 · 23 answers · asked by mimie.. 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm involved with a guy for over two years who has definite intimacy issues. He can't express his feelings with me, he can't cuddle and just be affectionate. We have a wonderful time together and seem to be on the same page with everything else in the relationship, but he just can't seem to reach out to me. We don't have bedroom problems - in fact, that's the only place he can seem to be demonstrative. He's a recovering and is still dealing with addictive acting-out behaviors and is also in therapy. I'm wondering if it's worth the wait (and the very fact that I'm asking is probably my answer!).

2007-01-25 00:49:37 · 3 answers · asked by Becca 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 00:49:36 · 15 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this guy but i have heard that he just likes the chase. (i havent heard it from the guy himself).

we have only kissed, despite him wanting more.

we are not dating. hes been chasing me for years!!!!

we only meet by chance-which can be months!!

hes says he likes me blah blah blah. all the usual compliments.
when we are together he never leaves my side and i always catch him looking at me.

i asked him is he was just after one thing and he said no (which he would say anyway!!).

what should i do???
i really really like him!!!

2007-01-25 00:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

because of a broken heart "the one"

2007-01-25 00:48:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hubby is very stressed about a work situtation. He's normally not one to stress, get worked up or upset unless it's something that is big. He is my rock. The one who calms me when things are overwhelming. Which is often. I'm the worrywart. So now my hubby needs me and I don't know how to be strong and be his support system. I end up in tears because it breaks my heart so much to hear him this way.

2007-01-25 00:48:14 · 11 answers · asked by fiestyredhead 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 00:47:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 00:47:16 · 6 answers · asked by angleyez_18 2 in Singles & Dating

where do you go from there?After being given the cold shoulder for 6 weeks I'm tired of it.I spend most of my time at work so I don't have to deal with his crap.I'm not apologizing and he won't let it go.Should I just leave?

2007-01-25 00:46:29 · 38 answers · asked by myobsessionisyoualways 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just graduated from college and have moved to a new area. I'm not into the bar scene all that much and would like to meet some girl firends to hang out with. Any good suggestions on how to meet new people?

2007-01-25 00:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by GirlNextDoor 2 in Friends

i really need to know.. i'm kinda confuse, there;s this girl that i like and already told her about my feelings. She too has told me about her feelings towards me. Thanks very much for enlightenment from all of your answers.

2007-01-25 00:45:49 · 9 answers · asked by Red Beret 1 in Singles & Dating

Wife spews out garbage when she’s upset. Almost like a psychotic episode. For instance last night she told me “When I married you I wanted all this out of life and you’re not giving it to me. I feel cheated. You’re very emotional abusive to me and play games. You need help or I’m going to leave you. I feel trapped and the only reason I’m staying is because I do love you and my daughter is glad to have a father now. I’m pretty numb and don’t feel like spending any time with you. I love you and wish you the best but if you want a divorce I don’t believe in it. You’ll have to do it but I don’t think this marriage is going to work out”. Come again???? Is this like pig latin girl’s used to use in middle school? I told her well how can you feel trapped? You can leave anytime you want if that’s how you feel. For some reason she can’t. If I felt that way, I’d be gone. After topping it all off, last night in bed she tried to get close to me and I was like “Um I really am pretty numb myself right now so I think it’s best you give me some space”. She said to me “See here you go again you’re playing games with me. It will never change!” Anybody live with a woman like this? Is she just plain crazy or is there some sort of diagnosis for this? My thinking….borderline personality disorder.

2007-01-25 00:44:21 · 8 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

E.g. the gold-digger, the man who only wants sex and nothing else...etc...

Obviously there is no objective answer to this question. I would just like to hear about your own experiences.

2007-01-25 00:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to ask this girl out but i afreid she is going to reject me. i don't now her but my friend do. he knows her since middle school and i only know her name. she don't know me ether. i try to doint every day but her friend are always around her and i get very nervious. what should i do. i need help.

2007-01-25 00:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 00:42:43 · 3 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

she is in 8thstd she is very cute sweet she dances brillantly and she i my good friend

2007-01-25 00:42:28 · 9 answers · asked by mithil b 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u want 2 c in a girl and what puts u off and what turn u on?

2007-01-25 00:42:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 00:41:04 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Kinky 1 in Singles & Dating

and how does it affect their husbands?

2007-01-25 00:40:51 · 16 answers · asked by Howshoulinou 5 in Marriage & Divorce