2007-01-25 00:49:36 · 15 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes the first marraige lasted 7 years, I knew from the start it was for the wrong reasons and believe me I was exhausted by his immaturity and abuse. The second marraige really was out of respect and love for each other but still sometimes I think maybie I jumped the gun ...I still keep thinking that maybie just maybie we are all perectly matched at conception and its our destiny to seek out that perfect match. I'm not sure I have met my Mr. Match of a life time yet...but then maybie I have and I let him get away...maybie I bumped right into him and didn't give him the time of day or vice versa ....tsk tsk maybie no one will ever really know.
2007-01-25 02:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the last 9 year now i am still happily married to the sweeties and moist wonderful girl on this earth. Yes at time i honest felt like i married the wrong person but she and i always work it out and that what a marriage is about working thing out to make a better life for the both of us. even when time look bad.
2007-01-25 01:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NEVER l can honestly say that there have been times l've doubted our love for each other but l have never felt l married the wrong person. We have certainly had our ups and downs, sure, but who doesn't. After 30 yrs of marriage l know l married the right guy faults and all. There are faults on both sides of course, no-one is perfect but he will always be my lover and my best friend.
2007-01-25 02:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! You need to marry someone who you totally enjoy talking to because once that hot passionate love is over, enjoying each other's company is all that is left...believe me, after 16 yrs, I feel like I'm too far in to pull out but I was young and naive when I married and had 1st baby with him. Now, 3 kids later, I've made my bed, if you know what I mean.
2007-01-25 02:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by goodgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time I was married I knew I had married the wrong person. Mainly I did it for the wrong reasons but tried to make it work anyhow.
2007-01-25 00:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by TXVyper 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's normal from time to time. Everyone goes through it. One of my friend's parents even divorced once over 20 years ago. They were divorced for about 6 months and remarried and have been married ever since. It's not normal, though, if you feel this way for years. I used to think this way about my husband, when his mother was still a part of our lives. Now that she is out of the picture (we found out she was using meth), we rarely fight, and when we do, it's usually over pretty quickly.
2007-01-25 01:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As someone who considers themselves a reformed racist I think the idea of getting married to someone who was a racist as more ideal. I myself have and am now dating someone outside of my race. 10 years ago I would have been the last person any of my friends and family thought would be dating someone outside of my race. Once I realized how stupid I sounded and acted years ago I feel that now I'm more tolerable towards race than people who say that they have never been racist. People are going to have opinions and views that are different than yours but if they can learn from their mistakes then they are more likely to make sound decisions reguarding such issues now. Good Luck and hope you find your answer
2016-03-29 01:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hasn't all been a walk in the park, and both of us could be better husband and wife, but honestly, no. Even in times when I thought we were finished, I never thought that marrying her was a mistake. The mistakes were not doing the right things to keep our marriage strong.
8 years married....
2007-01-25 01:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There have been doubts and struggles at times, but I can honestly say that I have never, in my heart, felt that I married the wrong person. We will celebrate our 21st anniversary later this year.
2007-01-25 00:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have to my first husband but i still had chosen to marry him and lived with my choice but now i dont feel that way as i am married to a wonderful and loving husband and would do it all over again.
2007-01-25 02:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋