I trust my boyfriend, i kno´w he can,t cheat on me..he tells me everything.. but i don,t understand myself sometimes..i get jealous even when he just sitting next to a girl in movies.... is that crazy or am i just to insecure..
2007-01-25 00:50:28 · 23 answers · asked by mimie.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are madly in love with him and think he is the greatest thing since sliced bread so of obliviously you would think why wouldn't every women try to steal him from you!?
You are insecure because you think just maybe there would be some girl that could convince him that maybe he is missing out.
You want to control any situation that he may be in where he would have an opportunity to be tempted because you don't really trust him as much as you think you do. That is mostly why you are jealous.
2007-01-25 01:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Willie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's insecurity and you should really work on it within yourself. Remember anything that you do to upgrade yourself do it for you not for your boyfriend. Go to the mall and let a make-up girl do your makeup and teach you how to do it. Pull out your best clothes that you are comfortable in. Spend a little extra money and get your hair done, get a mani pedi. After all that you'd be so amazed at how you look everyone else just a shadow in your presence. Cheer up all women have insecurities but be careful if they get out of hand no man wants an insecure women, and they can usually pick up on it!
2007-01-25 09:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dealt with the jealousy issue too. In time, it should get better-as you learn to realize that there are always going to be people out there that are in better shape, have nicer things, this and that..........The knowing that there is nothing you can do about it; is what helped me. My husband and I have been together for 8 years now, and I am so different from the person I was when we first met....it's life. Rest assured that your personality and love is what holds the power to keep another person interested.
God Bless!!!
2007-01-25 09:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by º§€V€Nº 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to deal with your own insecurities. It is time to focus on you and what you need to do to change this and start liking yourself more then you do and the jealousy will subside once you deal with your issues and insecurities. Most people go through this when they have low selfesteem. Just learn to love yourself and things will be ok..eaier said then done..I know. Best wishes to you.
2007-01-25 08:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by itsjustme12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Immaturity and insecurity. Low self-esteem. Sometimes age related. We all go through it and grow out of them. Sometimes these things are more deep-seated. Only time will tell.
2007-01-25 08:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are WAY too insecure. For some reason you don't feel like you deserve to have a boyfriend and be happy with him. You have to examine yourself and try to figure out why you feel this way. If you continue, it will ruin your relationship.
2007-01-25 08:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling insecure around him and other girl(s). My suggestion is tell him how much you appreciate your friendship with him and be honest and vulnerable with him about your feelings with him and give positive reaction when he around with other women. Also, just a friend to this woman and eventually she will respect you .
2007-01-25 09:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by ☃FrostyGal♪♬♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. Its crazy and your probably a little insecure. But its okay, allot of people are like that. Me being one of them
2007-01-25 08:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy does breed from insecurity.
Honey you have got to learn to trust him if you want to make things work.
Jealousy is a part of human nature, but you've gotta realize that he is with you because he loves you!
2007-01-25 09:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy im glad im not the only one im a jelous freak too
lol and i think their is some thing wrong with me i need help
and iv only ever been really jelous over this one guy iv been with for like 4 years all my other bfs i didnt care that much about bt this one yeh i get so jelous over little ****
i hope their is a cure coz i hate it
2007-01-25 08:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋