I went on a date with the most amazing guy ever, we chatted all night and there were no awkward silences, he even asked me if he could kiss me at the end of the night rather than just going ahead and doing it I clearly said yes and the kiss was amazing. He msn'd me the morning after the minute he logged in but hasn't asked me out on a another date. Does he fancy me and should I just ask him out or leave it for him to ask.
2007-01-25 00:34:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so things moved on...he msnd asking for another date....which I agreed to...
He then text me at 3am this morning...being asleep I didn't reply till I got to work and now he'd dropped of the face of the planet again. No contact all day.....
2007-01-26 01:18:29 · update #1
Sounds promising for you - the fact that he asked you for a kiss, and then MSNed you as soon as he logged on, shows that he is interested. He probably wants to see you again, and take things a bit further, so ask him out. Do it subtly and see where it takes you. Show some interest (but don't overdo it) and he will probably be really flattered. He might be playing hard to get, or he just might not be too sure what to do next. He may not want to come on too strong. Anyway, he sounds interested so go for it! Good luck.
2007-01-25 05:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say WAIT. If he asked u out on a date, he probably likes you, so it's likely he'd ask again, when depends on him. But if he's msning you, that's a good thing. U are connecting with each other on a different level which would give him an insight to the kind of person u are. If it's the type of person he likes to see more often, he's ask you out again. No, no, don't ask him out - just discreetly direct him 2 doing so himself by being a likable person, who likes him, & most importantly her whole depends making sense doesn't depend on him asking her out. That way you come out more balanced, someone any man would want to know. Don't forget that we don't all date everyone we like. Some just become great friends
2007-01-25 09:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Hmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask to meet up again.
But stop reading into things too much, especially trivial things like msn'ing you 'the minute he logged in'. - men do things sometimes and it's not because they love or fancy us.
There is no way of knowing whether he fancies you. You will simply have to meet up with him and drop it into the conversation. Be brave and simply do it. I think you have a good feeling about this anyway.
Remember ( I know I am not your mother..) Don't rush into sex too soon with him and don't pin all your hopes and dreams on him and don't expect him to do anything for you, then you will never feel let down.
I hope you have a lovely time together... xx
2007-01-25 08:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how much you enjoyed going out and comment that you should do it again very soon. See what his response is. If he is a little slow coming forward you may need to be the one asking for the next date. Maybe he is just as nervous and unsure. Life is too short to wait around.
I am really jealous, that first flush of meeting someone new is so lovely. Enjoy it!
Good luck.
2007-01-25 09:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are funny creatures. I had my ex stay over last night and ofcourse stuff happened, but then i havent heard from him the whole day? And this is not the first time this has happened. And he never asks me to do things with him. We just have to "bump" into each other. I guess now a days the guys also expect the girl to do the asking and take the initiative.
2007-01-25 08:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by chickyboo222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would play it safe and leave it to him. If he asked once, he clearly isn't too shy to ask again. If he didn't ask and it was you, then more reason to leave it to him. Maybe he doesn't have the money for another date, or the time, right now. Let him know how much you enjoyed the date and try to keep chatting online.
2007-01-25 08:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by sick-ovit-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve nothing to lose by just asking him out. He sounds quite old fashioned by asking your permission to kiss you. Maybe he doesnt want to seem too keen or is a bit worried you will say no. Whatever, you wont know untill you ask and might regret it for ever if you dont. Even if it doesnt work out at least you will know eh? Good luck x
2007-01-25 08:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when did you go on the date with him??
If hes still in contact with you then I think he still has an interest - or it may be a case of he doesnt want to hurt your feelings by ignoring you...
I wouldnt ask him out - maybe put the feelers out - say something like I had a really good time the other night - hopefully then he might say something along the lines of sure we can do it again if you like....
xx
2007-01-25 08:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he does fancy you but PLEASE let him chase you - I know it is a western world of gender clashes - but this does go back to the cave man days. Just be friendly with him, as well as a bit aloof - and I can assure you he will be asking you out again .. avoid nights in just the with a dvd just yet - as this could and most likely lead to physical stufff - . which of course is fine, but then the chase is gone for him. Some will disagree with me and say live youe life to the full - but please, if you want a realtionship with this guy then wait for sex and wait for him to ask you out next - good luck hon!
2007-01-25 09:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't talked about time. How long has it been since you went out? If it's been more than a week, he's either busy or not that interested. If it hasn't been that long, be patient, give him a chance!
And yes, you should wait for him to ask you.
2007-01-25 08:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by Yasmin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋