I dont trust my boyfriend at all. I recently found out his phone password and I found some interesting messages, pictures etc. to and from other women. Should I confont him about it and tell him that I violated his privacy or should I just keep it to myself even though he lies to me and tell me he's not doing anything. I know he'll be really mad if he knew I was going through his phone but I know he's a liar and it's the only way for me to know the truth.
2007-01-25 02:19:15 · 14 answers · asked by lil sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a way around it. Send him a msg. and ask him to check your msg. around you. That way, you can "peer" over and see his other msgs.
OR you could tell him you're getting a phone like his and want to learn how to work it. Then go through the msg. part and if he gets defensive about you looking, ask why and bring up the trust issue. Tell him he can trust you.
Make a fuss. You'll get your way and an answer. Good luck :)
2007-01-25 02:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be planning to leave unless you are ok with him seeing other women. How you found out may be a violation of trust but you were right to look weren't you? Why do people think that they can somehow flip the script when they are caught? You knew something was wrong that is why you looked in the phone in the first place. Now decide what you want to do now that you found out. I know finding out really turns your stomach. See my question posted.
2007-01-25 02:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends....you say you know he's a liar, but does that mean that you've decided to break up with him? Because if you're still going to stay, then don't tell him anything. There's no point in confronting him and fighting if you're just going to stay and continue to put up with it. Now if you have made the decision to leave, then it doesnt matter if you violated his privacy...it's over anyway right?
2007-01-25 02:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Eves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have went through his phone but the fact is that you did. Now you cannot act like you don't know. Leave him and tell him why your leaving him, if you don't you will start fights over no reason an he will not even know why.. Plus even if you stay with him you will always wonder if he is cheating. Also I think it depends if how long you two have been together. Let him go!
2007-01-25 02:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ailyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask him if he has ever cheated on you and define cheating as a lot of things but not just physically or ask him if anyone's ever sent him pics like that before. If he denies it, you know he's a liar and would you want to be with him if he doesn't tell you the truth?
2007-01-25 02:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by ubiquitousmee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why confront him he will only try denying it again, I say leave him. Pack up your stuff and get the heck out of there or just dump him. You said you recently found out this, the fact that you are still with him is what bothers me the most. Do you not care about yourself? If you do care get away from him he is not worth your time.
2007-01-25 02:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to confront the lying boyfriend. I wouldn't really care how mad he got about it. He's only angry because he got caught. You don't trust your boyfriend and you have proof he is doing things he shouldn't be doing, you need to let him go. Good luck and better luck with the next one.
2007-01-25 02:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that hes a liar than why are you with him and if he has pictures of other women dont you think hes having sex with them.
2007-01-25 02:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by aarena19 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confront him about this sit down with him and tell him how u feel than ask him the reason why he did this and ask him if he still wants the relationship between you two
2007-01-25 02:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a guy wants to hear is honesty, so you should go up to him and say that you found his password and saw the pics or whatever, and then say it doesnt bother you, then pause and just say, why....
Thats what i would do
2007-01-25 02:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by firefreezed 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋