Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

My sister is not at all intersted in marriage. she is 25 now and settled too. she never got an affair,the thing is she is not at all intersted in males. she treats all males as devils and ghosts.she has the fear that she will be harresed and will be killed.when ever we put the marriage proposal she will be upset and go into deep depression. Please any one guide me how to make her interested in males and how to convince her for marriage

2007-01-25 03:32:03 · 8 answers · asked by kool 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a mermaid style wedding dress and plan on doing my hair like a 40' s starlet style. I'm not sure if I should use an elbow length veil or a finger tip length veil. Its an outside, garden wedding in June. Thanks!

2007-01-25 03:31:55 · 10 answers · asked by Questionasker 1 in Weddings

I would like to know what you did and how felt after you did it.

2007-01-25 03:31:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right now I have some friends but they are the type that will get me in trouble cuz they just bad. There are people that want to be my friend alot but I guess i kinda push them away cuz they older than me. Should they age matter? What can I do to make new friends? PLEASE give me some good ideas cuz as you can tell i need some help!

2007-01-25 03:30:58 · 2 answers · asked by Apple Bottomz 1 in Friends

2007-01-25 03:30:17 · 7 answers · asked by zip w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

are u shy or livewire
music lover or consider it waste
movie buff or u get irritated
early riser

2007-01-25 03:30:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy who liked me, and then all of the sudden, didnt.
a few weeks later, he came to a guys swim meet cuz he was hanging out with a mutual friend afterwards.he was sitting against a wall and looked at me a few times. this was about a month ago.

so my friend the other day (she is a little socially retarded, and doesnt have many friends) said that he asks her about me all the time in english class. Like "is she seeing anyone?" "how is kristin?". i needed to know if she was lying or not, so i changed the subject after finally getting out of her what he says. and then i asked her again and she started laughing, she was suprised i changed it back to him, and then went all serious and told me thats all he said. i asked her many tiems if she was lying and she kept saying she was serious, and he does ask about me a lot.
it doesnt make sense because girls are all over him cuz hes good looking. he seems to be interested in another girl, maybe slightly more than interested.

2007-01-25 03:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well yeah she was my bestfriend but til last year she got on my nerves. she wasnt a good friend anymore. she didnt tell me when the guy i used to like got with one of my friends. then she ditch me on my birthday to go to a party that i wasnt invited to. i was not gonna go if they invited me because it was the girlfriend of the guy i liked party. so then i just started to ignore her more and more. and the summer came and her mom called my mom saying that they were moving to texas. my supposebly bestfriend didnt call me. and i know that she is talking to people at school. she says that i was acting weird and all that stuff. well duh i had a lot of problems. and also she said that i didn't care so that is why she didnt tell me that she was going to move. tell me if i should talk to her?????

2007-01-25 03:29:16 · 15 answers · asked by sunshinebear8 3 in Friends

At times I love my boyfriend so much, I love living with him, cooking for him etc, and other times he makes me so angry, I feel like it is a cloud over the rest of my life. Is this normal? We have been together for almost 2 years and I am 20, maybe I just need to mature a bit (he is 29), this is what he thinks. I can't imagine ending it because of the good times, I tell myself I would be crazy, he can make me so happy, and I imagine marrying him and being together always. But the bad times make me wonder, and they happen regularily- at least 3 times a week.

2007-01-25 03:28:05 · 17 answers · asked by ophierose 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to woo a girl that I work with and I was going to buy her a romantic movie for Valentine's Day. I need one that's a home run with chics. It could be an older movie but it has to be a sure thing. Thanks in advance for your replies.

2007-01-25 03:27:46 · 15 answers · asked by christopher c 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has a male friend who is so addicted to marijuana that he will do anything to get it and have it all day, the only time of the day is not smoking is at work and when he is sleep, yesterday she cooked a big dinner and he wanted a particular kind his brother sold and she was not going there for him risking her life, car and safety ask him to get some locally walking distance and he left walking to get it and never came back. He he walked 2-3 miles to his brothers house to smoke because he knew he could smoke free and get some to go, he has a lexus but has supended license and afraid to drive. Either way his needs help and she needs to let him go, he was so desperate his left his plate on the table.
He will smoke with any body not knowing what's rapped inside just because it smells like it does not mean it is, We call him & his family palm tree or forest, because the will smoke a forest in half of day. What should she do? No they do not live together they kick it

2007-01-25 03:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by ladybug 2 in Singles & Dating

Neither I or my future husband are religous people, our parent's places aren't really conducive to a wedding either. I thought about Vegas, but I don't want to just rent a chapel for an hour. i honestly don't know many good places to get married besides a church or a park or something. His family lives in Oregon, mine in ohio, But we live in colorado, we haven't decided on either location yet, we really just want the perfect spot, no matter where it be in those two states. Help me out please!

2007-01-25 03:27:24 · 20 answers · asked by Tanzy 2 in Weddings

2007-01-25 03:26:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i have lived together for 9 months. We have both decided to move out and back with our families (we live in a very expensive city) fir 6 months until we can save some money.

Last night we were arguing because I was frustrated with him for not helping me. I went to school in morning at 8am, went to work for 8 hours, went home and cleaned, I asked him to help with he dishes, and I left back to school til 9pm. I got home at 9:30 (exhausted) and there was all the dishes piled up and he was not home. When he got home I was doing the dishes and I was not happy.

Anyway, we argued and he said, "why dont you quit while your ahead" "Your digging yourself a ditch, and I will push you in it!" Then he elbowed me. Later that night he also kicked me 3 times out of anger. Im really scared and this isnt the first time he has got violent and mean. He also said , "You arent the only girl out there for me"

Im confused, need some advice

2007-01-25 03:26:24 · 24 answers · asked by Me 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this guy for quite sometime now. We use to talk everyday but now im lucky if I get to hear him 2 times in a week. Recently he told me that he loved me and that I mean so much to him. We talked about a relationship, and he stated that by us living almost 4 hours away from each other would make it hard so he would rather not be in one. Im so confused, if we are just friends and he does not want to be nothing more, then why does he keep telling me " I love you baby". Last nite he called and we talked a lil and he was singing, and i heard him say " Merie, babygurl i wonder if your in my life temporay or forever, will u be my wife etc...." I know this really doesnt make sense but our freindship really doesnt. I thought maybe he meant I love you as a friend, but he says more than a friend. I mean sexually and romantically. what I dont understand is why does he call me and tell me about other girls that try to get in a relationship with him. What am I to do?

2007-01-25 03:25:24 · 1 answers · asked by Merie h 1 in Singles & Dating

when it comes to women. i know upon first sight wheather or not she is girlfriend material for me. Her personality may prove otherwise, but the feeling i get when i see someone "girlfriend worthy" is undeniable. I see plenty of attractive women everyday, but that "it" feeling somehow separates the two.

Do any Men of Women out there know right away if that person could be the man/woman for them.

2007-01-25 03:24:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend has been dating for only three months now and he dont like my best friend. he thinks that she is a bad influence on me. but she has been my best friend for over ten years he want her out of my life and i am not willing to do that for a man.he also hates when i go out. he would call me every five minutues.how can i tell him that in a nice way without hurting his feelings?and should i call this relationship off?

2007-01-25 03:24:46 · 18 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10 months, my 18yr old sister n law lives with me and my husband and our 4 children. She is driving me crazy.....she lives rent free, we never ask her for anything but to save her money and maybe every once in a while to watch the kids. My problem is that my husband feels that we should be the one to buy her tolietries such as soap, toothpaste, washing powder and things of that nature. I feel she needs to buy her own and start being more responsible for her personal things of that nature. I buy those items for the house but I just feel she should buy her own toletries. I'm I being childish? I just want her to grow up and start learning how to be responsible and stop depending on "big brother" so much. Please help

2007-01-25 03:23:51 · 22 answers · asked by its just me 3 in Family

I feel like my boyfriend of almost a year and a half are always doing the same things. I dont want things to get boring! But we live in a town that doesnt have much of anything in it. PLus everything is so expensive of what we actually have in town. SO does anyone have any cute date ideas for a young couple that doesnt want to be stuck in a rut?

2007-01-25 03:23:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since I am so good at playing easy to get, can you tell me how to play hard to get?

Is saying hey cutie to a guy flirting?

2007-01-25 03:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I woke up and smell this Thinking it was my dog i did not think twice and did not worry about it. So i fell back to sleep. I woke up again and relized i took a dump in my bed. I dont know why but my anud keeps leaking. Any suggestions?

2007-01-25 03:22:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there are 2 girl liking you now, will you choose a girl that has the same character and thinking as you and everyone said that both of you are suitable? or you will pick the one that same the same interests as you, can get along but with totally different character?

2007-01-25 03:22:03 · 10 answers · asked by USS 1 in Singles & Dating

I haven't dated many boys my age but I wanna try to see if there are any mature ones...Im scared to try because all the ones I know act childish.

2007-01-25 03:21:56 · 8 answers · asked by ya_boo_of_2006 1 in Singles & Dating

to you as a child? Or can it be learned?

2007-01-25 03:21:51 · 13 answers · asked by brazenone 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother gave away her child in high school because no one accepted the fact that she was bi racial. my mother was seeing a black male for three years and they were serious during high school he had planned on marrying my mother before she got pregnant. he tried like hell to contact my mother during the pregnancy and no one let him be in contact with my mother. she had the child and he tried to come see my mother and her mother my grandma would not allow him to see her she had him removed from the hospital. My mother was forced to give her baby up for adoption through the catholic charities I have contacted them and they gave me forms for my mother to fill out but she is scared that my sister will resent her also she doesnt think the family will approve. she is afraid she also has emotional issues. Is their any way that I can find out without the biological mother? how do I get her help in finding her?

2007-01-25 03:21:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-25 03:21:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could mean a good intelligent, intimate conversation ;-) I always love to start with something orally stimulating and expressive and that allows a longer drawn-out experience.

Curious to know is that always desired first? Or would you say "lets cut it and go straight to business"??

2007-01-25 03:21:15 · 10 answers · asked by houstonian352000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to claim him, but he's incarcerated.

2007-01-25 03:21:01 · 7 answers · asked by nicolee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

something interesting if you can...

2007-01-25 03:20:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ain't got nothing better to do?

2007-01-25 03:20:07 · 20 answers · asked by BZRIDER 2 in Singles & Dating