Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

2007-01-25 04:03:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it was a new place,so i went upto one of the guy as my friends had dared,and critisized his hairstyle. Tried to talk to him later and appologise when i found out that he took it seriously but he wont listen. In fact he replied to my appology by saying 'Let us ignore each other'. What shall i do now? I try ignoring him but he keeps looking at me and my friends; along with his friends. I cant understand him.

Entering the Library the first thing my friends and i notice is him. What shall i do?

2007-01-25 04:02:47 · 20 answers · asked by confused! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 04:02:29 · 4 answers · asked by ranganath gangannagmhalli 2 in Family

but will you always be sweet? or is this just the flipping honeymoon stage!!!

2007-01-25 04:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

My good friend is 25 n a single mom.Shes had a rough go at dating.She attracts jerks.Awhile ago she met a guy online.After chatting online n then the phone for a few months they met in person n decided to date immediately.They rushed into everything u can rush into including sex n have now been dating for almost 2 months.They only manage to see each other about 3 days a week because he lives almost 2 hrs away.On top of that hes finalizing a divorce that becomes official next month (he dated 1 other girl before my friend while getting divorced) n hes fighting for custody of his 2 kids.He has asked here n there for her to move to his town.He doesnt pressure her but he does ask now n then.My friend really likes him but Im not sure she loves him. She will get goofy sometimes n say she wants to have kids with him n she does consider moving there in a little bit but things she does show me she is not ready. for example, she applied for a job here in our city last week.

2007-01-25 04:01:35 · 8 answers · asked by ju_ty 1 in Singles & Dating

If you aren’t ready’, your first time can have unexpected can sequences. Sex is always a big deal-so ask your self if it it’s the right choice each time.
Tell me our life
pleas circle one!
1.“It changed our relationship”
2.“It hurt my friendship”
3.“It destroyed my self-esteem”

2007-01-25 04:01:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For a while now I've been feeling alittle differently about my mother, now she and I have never been really close. I've always connected with mio Father, than with her. At first I though, this is normal. But now I think I actually dislike my mother, she hasn't done anything wrong or anything. But i can't really talk to her, or have a conversation with her. We have nothing in common, sometimes i even wonder if she really is my mother ( she is (science proves it).

I feel very guility feeling this way and I try to like her like normal daughters do, but i can't. Is there anything i can do to change how I've been feeling for the past 3 years. I've even seen a therapist about it, she says there's nothing you can really do. You cannot force youself to like someone, no matter who or what they are.


Help.

2007-01-25 04:00:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

plz behave while answering

2007-01-25 04:00:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a few close girl friends and they want to #@*&!... and still be friends with benifits.... im cool with that but im afraid the it might creat to much emotional attachment some where down the line... has anyone tryed to work frindship this way??? thank you... peace thomas....

2007-01-25 04:00:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy, had a couple of dates, really like him, was meant 2 meet him yesterday but he had to cancel, i was fine with that but he hasnt text back since or made any contact, i no it hasnt been that long & i'm prob reading too much into it but i jump everytime the phone beeps in case its him...i'm never like this how do i stop?

2007-01-25 03:59:02 · 19 answers · asked by Queen of the Stone Age 3 in Singles & Dating

Wen i come home from work i always do my housework and makind dinner. Its like there is no other things to do.
Does any body has an idea what to do in the house without costing a fortune?

2007-01-25 03:58:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

about the rings and how they are a complete circle like a marriage or something else that would work in doing a wedding as I am going to be doing My first wedding as the Preacher and well I am at a loss for words on what to say other than the normal do you take yada yada yada I do then ya are kinda thing...HELP..serious answers please..

2007-01-25 03:58:11 · 2 answers · asked by Pastor Biker 6 in Weddings

Put up a fight when they want to please men but not in THAT way?

2007-01-25 03:57:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a girl friend . I like her a lot.

but we have different tastes. For example she likes pop. but usually I cant stand it. I like Jazz. last night we were watching MTV, but in other channel there was a jazz concert.

I tried watching it but she told me its so boring, but usually mtv is boring to me. Jazz is inspiring to me . when she insists on watching mtv I felt she kills something about me.

I like her , but sometimes , to speak frankly , I think I would rather be alone.

May be I am not mature enough to make a good relationship. so once again I ask what does it mean when we say

" I love you just the way you are "

2007-01-25 03:57:42 · 32 answers · asked by earthlove 2 in Singles & Dating

We talked lastnight about the things he wanted to talk to me about. He wanted to know what would happened if he kissed me?
Would I get mad at him? What does this mean? Help me please!

2007-01-25 03:57:22 · 2 answers · asked by Grace's Mommy.. 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy I see every Saturday but I cant bring my self to talk 2 him. How do I get him to notice and talk to me so we become friends?

2007-01-25 03:56:51 · 3 answers · asked by Laura4864 2 in Singles & Dating

well lets see... I have my 3 yr. old neice living with me because her mother went to jail in June of last year "while I was there visiting my mother and other family" I live on the east of the united states and they live on west side of the united states"... anyway I have had my neice for nine months now and now all of the sudden her mother wants to come and get her in February....I am going back and forth about what to do or say about the situation. They live in a state that is very, very cold in the winter " most of the time it is always in the negatives",, they have no heat in the house, no firewood for the wood burning stove, no electricity, therefore no hot water, and her mother is always going out and staying out all night until the next morning leaving her 5 yr. old son that she has with her, wondering where his mother is all night and the next day until she decides to come home. since she has been out of jail she has been fired twice, and now no one in that town will hire her

2007-01-25 03:56:22 · 5 answers · asked by ruiz02 2 in Friends

2007-01-25 03:56:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, if you are in love with your mate and they sexually satisfy you, what does it mean to lust after others?

2007-01-25 03:55:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is someone really your friend if she repeatedly bad-mouths one of your relatives even after you have asked her to stop and told her that it is hurting your feelings.

2007-01-25 03:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by Babie Sue 2 in Friends

In case if i lost ya'll........Sayin "Please" and "Thank You" come to mind, your turn

2007-01-25 03:55:07 · 31 answers · asked by Biggame 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

involved relationships,work,family,anyhting....

2007-01-25 03:54:59 · 14 answers · asked by anna gr 3 in Singles & Dating

is it out of anger that he says divorce? I told him i was leaving to work on our issues and to work on our marriage. when i left in his eyes that was it. I've never said divorce and still love him and work it out...do you think he will ever get over the anger? I'm not sure if i should hang in there or not. Help!

2007-01-25 03:54:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am so getting tired of this black on black relationship. I feel like being an interracial dater. I am having bad experience with black men and I want to see what else is out there. The guy I am seeing know is like concerned about my credit card. He has a job and I am not working but yet he want me to charge him something on my card and he pay me back. I HATE THAT and I am so stupid to fall for it. He said he would help me pay my bill(1200+) but everytime it is pay day he has other bills to pay he would give me like $50 and expect that to pay bills and be enough for pocket money. I am getting so sick off it and sick of black men. He wanted me to buy him this freakin psp3 that cost $500-700. "Hello I am not working and you could get it on your own", but he would never understand until I do it to him. Thats exactly what i want to do. What should I do? I need help getting a job and everything

2007-01-25 03:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that its okay to have friends. But friends should respect that you are in a relationship. If you are committed should you be spending more time talking with so called friends, flirting with them, with intentions to get with them or be with them in the future? Is this harmless flirting, because they are so called internet friends, but you allow them to call you at all kinds of the night. Is it okay to continue arguing over these so called internet friends and ex's or should you introduce them to the loved one so that they would feel comfortable. Or just stop communicating with them on a level as if you are single period if your woman is uncomfortable. Please help a sista out? Am i wrong to be mad if my so called man tells another woman that he wants her back, tells another woman how thick they are and send them flower emails daily or if an internet groupie is allowed to call him at midnight?

2007-01-25 03:53:43 · 7 answers · asked by mz_elegant_1 3 in Singles & Dating

Everyone has a different defintion about a promise ring.. i jus want to know wat does it mean to you???

2007-01-25 03:52:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sister is not at all intersted in marriage. she is 25 right now and settled too. she never had any affair,the thing is she is not at all intersted in males. she treats all males as devils and ghosts.she has the fear that she will be harresed and will be killed.when ever we put the marriage proposal she will be upset and go into deep depression. Please any one suggest me how to make her interested in males and how to convince her for marriage

2007-01-25 03:52:33 · 19 answers · asked by kool 1 in Friends

Yesterday, I went on lunch with these two office chicks. One thing led to another and this chick told the other chick that she don’t shave her legs in winter time because she don’t wear shorts. Now, why would I want to hear that? I was about to eat my burger but that chick talk disgusted me, so I left in the middle of the lunch. Today those office chicks told me that it was inappropriate of me to leave them. Why chicks and common sense don’t compute?

2007-01-25 03:52:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What song did you use or would use for the following:

First Dance
Father/Daughter Dance
Bouqet Throw
Garter belt removal

2007-01-25 03:52:29 · 14 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

want to know how can i tell her no without being rude...last night she came at 9 pm and i told her i was getting ready for bed..it seems she got mad but i know she'll get over it...we share a house so i cant hide.i feel at times trapped in my own room but i know i must say something to her..and asap

2007-01-25 03:52:15 · 9 answers · asked by paloma 1 in Weddings