Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

My soul-mate died in a plane crash over 15 years ago. I thought I would give the "L" word another shot about 7 years ago. Made a mistake, it wasn't love or lust - it was a loser (with one beautiful outcome - my daughter).
I know what it's like to be in love and to have a soul mate - Do you think it is selfish to want this twice in a lifetime?

2007-01-25 04:46:17 · 19 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Singles & Dating

If she leaves the state or the area with a child, isn't she saying she can take care of the child without the father's help?

2007-01-25 04:45:47 · 23 answers · asked by greatimes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay I'm a prep u know the cheerleader type
u know wearing hot pink and the "Oh my God!" thing
and yesterday I was wearing all black
and then all my so called friends except one said I was trying to look like My x's girlfriend because I wanted his attention
I dont
We are friends now and thats all i want
Everyone says he "HATES"me
but he says he doesn't
he even talks to me like we used to before we broke up the 4th time
What should I do
HELP!

2007-01-25 04:45:40 · 6 answers · asked by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 in Singles & Dating

got fired from job recently, lost house, lives with family members, works low paying job, and keeps asking women what they find erotic? I think he is a loser although maybe he has just had a bad year, but his pushiness on sexual matters to complete strangers, just ticks me off. He left me a message on a dating service and I just deleted him. Sound like a jerk or just a guy who has fallen on hard times??

2007-01-25 04:45:08 · 29 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 04:45:04 · 21 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 04:44:13 · 14 answers · asked by kelly_gasson638 1 in Family

i've wrote a few poems about my past and my father and i want him to know how i feel but it's hard for me to express when talking so should i send him these two poems?

daddy can you look at me
can i be your little girl
can you give me all of your love
and try to give the world
will you respect me
can you show me love
will you greet me at the door
just to give me a hug
can we go back
to how it use to be
when you were my dad
and never hurt me
can i be your pumpkin
like way back when
do you think i'll ever hear that
ever again
all i want is love
the love i once had
all i want is you
all i want is a dad

opinions on the poems are welcomed too.

2007-01-25 04:44:10 · 3 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family

I THINK MY FRIEND IS TURNING GAY? WHAT DO I DO...

2007-01-25 04:43:49 · 5 answers · asked by Mz. Robbinson 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont mean just hard i mean really rough i end up with brusies and i always have to explain it weird because my boyfriend doesnt want to any more and i dont like it anyway but he is the nice funloving guy he is pefect but i want it my way the realationship might not last beause sex is imporant to me

2007-01-25 04:43:37 · 16 answers · asked by nicu 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you feel about a girl who is 5 foot?

2007-01-25 04:43:34 · 7 answers · asked by Candy Coated 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 04:43:33 · 21 answers · asked by icv65 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for a guy like me who is suffering epilepsy and has sizures once in a while and doesn't have the right to have a driver license due to those medical condition how can i ever ask a girl out? Otherwise when people first meet me they would never know if anything is wrong i walk, talk and even laugh like normal people the only time they ever findout if i am any different is when i accidently have a seizure right in front of their eyes. if anybody knows how to help me it would be greatly apreciated. not to mention i never onced bumped into a girl that is single. they are always already taken.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!

2007-01-25 04:43:29 · 4 answers · asked by computer_guidance 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright, so I'm a freshman in college and so is the guy I'm crushing on...we met during our first semester b/c we had class together and became close friends now this semester we don't get to see each other as often, but we still run into each other. Anyways, I told this guy that I like him (during our first semester @ school)...and well he told me he wasnt looking for a gf @ that time...but now it seems like he's going out of his way to hang out with me and my friends during out lunch time. He's a really sweet guy and I hope he does like me back, but I don't know how to read the signs he's giving me...my friends say they know he likes me just by the way he acts...but I guess I'm just blind or something b/c I can't tell...so basically my question is how do I flirt without coming off too strongly and also how do I know if he likes me as much as I like him? if someone can please tell me this i would deeply appreciate it...thanks for reading and any advice you give : )

2007-01-25 04:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by icingonthekake99 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-25 04:42:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ha ha!!

2007-01-25 04:42:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So this is the scenario this girl works in this cafe. its her night shift from 10-2.. so i was ther too with her talking al the while.. since 11 pm.. we were actually hving a nice time talking.. then at 1 she asked "dont u wanna leave , what about ure clas tomarrow".. i was like i said "ok if thats u want" then she said "no no no thats not what i mean and all".. So i'm asking is what odes it really means when girls say that? do they want us to stay there or just go away from ther.. coz thats what i did after 5 mins when she said that....

2007-01-25 04:41:51 · 10 answers · asked by rdx 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 04:41:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

wear that expensive hat and coat? My aunt bought her a satin coat studded with Swarovski crystals and lined in pink silk, and a diamond-encrusted platinum dog-collar pendant embossed with the initials S D, (Scooby Doo) and she wont wear it. Why???

2007-01-25 04:41:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 04:41:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When people come over as guests I am the best host, doing everything to make them comfortable. But those who are my family members help out while they are here by cleaning, doing dishes, tidying up. They try to help out with the things I can't get to while I tend to my 4-month old infant and rambunctious toddler.
Anyway, sometimes I ask people like my grandmother not to do certian things like clean up my son's room. I have all his toys categorized, like play doh stuff goes in the play doh bucket and hot wheels go in another bucket, so on and so forth. Well, of course when my son and I are trying to play with play doh I have to turnt he room upside down to find all the pieces that we need. I get really irritated and I even say things to people like "hey listen thanks for helping but I like to clean things up a certain way and when others do it I get real disorganized and have to redo the cleaning."
Now am I being too fussy, I could just keep my mouth shut.

2007-01-25 04:40:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do looks really matter to you?

2007-01-25 04:40:59 · 17 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone lead me in the right direction to possibly find my birth parents? I was adopted in the 80's and live in Georgia. Our house burnt down a couple years ago and consequently the only paperwork we had about the adoption went down in flames with the house. Again, does anyone know where I could possibly start my search to find my birth parents?

2007-01-25 04:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by JPCarter 1 in Family

2007-01-25 04:39:50 · 13 answers · asked by Hayley H 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok.... My husband says that when he pleases himself he ALWAYS thinks about me. I was wondering if this is possiable or does he just tell me that. Do you think he thinks of other women when he does it? Our bedroom life is great so I don't understand why he does this in the first place. Why would he do it and think about me, if I am available?

2007-01-25 04:39:04 · 34 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everyone,
Well I am complete looser with girls...I am 21 and at the moment i have been only with one hooker.
Needless to say, never in relationship.
And I think its not fair...since a lot of girls keep telling me that I am very good looking(probably they are joking). I also have free time and money. And I think am intelligent.
Well...yeah I am neither a millionaire or eisntein or brad pitt...but anyway.
I think the real problem is that I dont study or work and have almost no contacts with girls, but even in the dating sites the result is 0.

So...help me, what is the best way to find some nice girl?
How your friendship started?

Thanks alot!

2007-01-25 04:37:24 · 18 answers · asked by Bobi G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

with naturally red hair, including the different types auburn, copper, ginger, strawberry blondes ect. how attractive do you think they are, which gender do you think can get away with being a natural redhead more? would you ever date one? if you dont like redheads what is it you dont find attractive, should redheads dye their hair? have you ever had a crush or been out with a redhead? which eye colour looks best on a redhead, blue, green or brown..

2007-01-25 04:36:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 & moved in with my grandma 10 years ago after my grandpa died. Every time I go out with my friends or my boyfriend, she lays on the guilt trip. She is elderly and has a hard time getting around. My parents stay with her while I go out, but I feel like it's my responsibility to take care of her. She thinks I can't afford to live on my own but I can. If something were to happen to her, I'd feel like it was my fault. She becomes angry when I do things that don't involve her. She has done alot for me when I was growing up & she thinks I should repay her now. I love her and want to take care of her, but I want to live my own life, too. I don't think I'm being selfish. This is affecting my relationship with my boyfriend and I don't want to lose him. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

2007-01-25 04:36:05 · 8 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This question is for the guys. Why would a guy charm a girl by saying and doing all the right things just to gain her trust and then after she shows that she does, he backs off or completely disappears? Intimacy or not, this keeps happening to me and I need some straight up advice. I don't play games (no tolerance for them) and I am very real, meaning I hold back nothing positive or negative. If this is too vague and you want specifics, then let me know. Thanks for your input.

2007-01-25 04:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by angelbaby 3 in Singles & Dating

I think there are certain types of women that are better for infidelity.

I mean more important determining factors, like personality and their lifestyle. These two specific traits should never be overlooked and must be considered above all else before choosing a woman to get involved with.

What do you think?

I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic to expand on my thoughts. If you are curious check out my profile for the link.

2007-01-25 04:35:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Give Your Opinion!!!!

2007-01-25 04:35:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating