Hi everyone,
Well I am complete looser with girls...I am 21 and at the moment i have been only with one hooker.
Needless to say, never in relationship.
And I think its not fair...since a lot of girls keep telling me that I am very good looking(probably they are joking). I also have free time and money. And I think am intelligent.
Well...yeah I am neither a millionaire or eisntein or brad pitt...but anyway.
I think the real problem is that I dont study or work and have almost no contacts with girls, but even in the dating sites the result is 0.
So...help me, what is the best way to find some nice girl?
How your friendship started?
Thanks alot!
2007-01-25 04:37:24 · 18 answers · asked by Bobi G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm not really understanding your question
2007-01-25 04:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by flipper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't believe in yourself! For some reason, girls can pick up on that. I think they have a sixth sense or something. That's why you will see a middle aged bald guy with a gut with a super hot girl. Lots of people think it's money but it's not. It is how you present yourself. If you have a low self esteem, generally girls won't be attracted to you, even if you have looks and money. Get a job or go to school.You will meet "real" women. Dating services are crap because people always misrepresent themselves. You will be disappointed. After you start working, you will immediately feel better about yourself and this will set the wheels in motion.
2007-01-25 04:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by eee_aww 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you try this:
1)Work on your self esteem. You are just as good as anyone else out there.
2)Join a gym, eat well and exercise, a healthy mind in a healthy body, and you can meet people there, too.
3)Get a job where you can interact with as many people as you can, even if it's part time. It will get you out of the house and give you some purpose.
4)Take a night class, in a community college, a subject that may interest you and you can meet people there while broadening your education.
5)Volunteer in a charitable foundation. You will help out a good cause and meet good people.
I hope this helps. Good Luck.
2007-01-25 04:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find someone that loves you for you. First you have got to stop putting yourself down by calling yourself a loser. Girls dont like guys that arent confident. Its not the way you look either it is what is in the heart that really matters. just start off by being friends with girls and build your friendship up. Its the only way to go you cant rush things.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-25 04:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by shak_ur_money_maker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what MOST reasonably well adjust women want in their man
1) Good leader on the dance floor
2) Intelligent, quick witted, can carry on a conversation
3) Financially Stable
4) Clean and fresh smell
5) Good manners (pulling out the chair etc.)
6) Religion? some women will knock you down for this no matter if all the others fit or not
7) good looking
2007-01-25 04:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by roya67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off, hun, hookers give you stuff. Lol. You need to assert yourself more. Don't think of yourself as a loser, when you go somewhere hold your head high, and say to yourself, "I am a sexy beast, I am so fine, I'd go out with myself." Now this might seem odd, but I say that, lol, and I am not the only one who's thinking it about me. Also if you have a feeling for someone, just something little, pursue it. Good luck.
2007-01-25 04:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GET A JOB! GO TO THE GYM! once you have money and a good body, guess what...the girls will be there!
Next...say hello to every girl you see...especially the ugly ones...nothing better than an ugly girl pointing out your good qualities to her hot friends.
NEVER GO TO HOOKER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
how can you possibly be driven to get out of your shell, if you know you can just pay for it!
if you don't at least get a job....you are a looser!
2007-01-25 04:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by gibson_slayer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You solved the problem in your question my friend.
"I think the real problem is that I dont study or work and have almost no contacts with girls"
Thats the problem! Get to work and study, in the process of doing that your are bound to meet many women who have the same intrests as you, and when they have the same intrests... sparks fly.
2007-01-25 04:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by JPCarter 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You're not a loser if you think that you are not. I mean...Be optimistic. Look at your positive side and have a self confident. Just Be yourself and express it!!! And I promise you, you dont need to approach them; they will come to you!!Because girls loves a man who is true in their heart!
Just respect them and learn how to have a sense of humor...Surely girls will love you regardless of your money or face value.
You're so young!Just enjoy life and be responsible on it!!!
God speed!
2007-01-25 04:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mystique eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best places to meet girls would be at school, so maybe you should think about taking some classes just for the fun of it.
2007-01-25 04:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
join some clubs- book clubs etc, hang out in popular spots and meet ppl. you are just prob shy or appear to be unapproachable or already taken.
2007-01-25 04:45:07 · answer #11 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋