This question is for the guys. Why would a guy charm a girl by saying and doing all the right things just to gain her trust and then after she shows that she does, he backs off or completely disappears? Intimacy or not, this keeps happening to me and I need some straight up advice. I don't play games (no tolerance for them) and I am very real, meaning I hold back nothing positive or negative. If this is too vague and you want specifics, then let me know. Thanks for your input.
2007-01-25 04:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by angelbaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Games are for those that can't handle a real relationship, so I definitely don't participate. I'm only involved when they put me in their game.
2007-01-25 04:47:09 · update #1
Recently this guy was totally into and which I was not because of many things and after listening and considering all his counter arguments, I decided to give it a try and reciprocate the emotions he was showing me. Now he no longer uses the terms of endearment and barely shows me attention. From one day, to the next.
2007-01-25 04:49:30 · update #2
Guys enjoy "the thrill of the chase". Once they get somebody, a lot of them are like a dog that chases it's tail..."What would he do with it, if he caught it?" Men LOVE the chase, but they are clueless as to how to treat the woman once they've "caught" her. Consequently, they leave her confused, hurt, and feeling abandoned. My advice to you is to not give your heart so quickly, or at least not 100% until he proves himself worthy of your love and trust. It hurts TOO MUCH!!
2007-01-25 04:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably just looking for a piece. So they got ur trust and they think you'll do whatever they what and when. I think it's pretty immature because then if they do it to you then they probably do it to some other gurl who he made believe that he loved her
2007-01-25 12:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by nicole_furney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because once they get to really know you they're not intersted anymore? or your only a lil hot, so for some guys it's good enough to know they can f u c k you , but dont' actually wanna do it.
2007-01-25 12:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happend to me countless times. Not the right ones, that's what I say.
2007-01-25 12:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not realise that you are playing games, but you probably still are.
Games are bad.
2007-01-25 12:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both
2007-01-25 12:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mz. Kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋