i dont mean just hard i mean really rough i end up with brusies and i always have to explain it weird because my boyfriend doesnt want to any more and i dont like it anyway but he is the nice funloving guy he is pefect but i want it my way the realationship might not last beause sex is imporant to me
2007-01-25 04:43:37 · 16 answers · asked by nicu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hard sex should be normal. good for you.
2007-01-25 05:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by shaun_empire 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think it's normal. Have you ever been abused during your childhood? Because it sounds like you have. And the only way to feel important or get attention is to be abused during sex. Your probably right you and your boyfriend won't last long. You might want to talk to a Therapist.
2007-01-25 05:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yikes! well if it is an important issue with you and your bf isnt into it then yall arent rite for each other. im sure there are plenty of guys out there willing to do it really really rough for you. just be careful. you dont want them to accidently break a bone or sumthing.
2007-01-25 06:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recommend you look into Polyamory.
That way, you can have the guy you love, but you can also have someone on the side who will rough you up the way you like.
If you have any bisexual leanings, then get together with a girl and have him join in now and then.
It may seem like a Distorted View on relationships, but I know some bisexual women who find it works wonders for their lives.
2007-01-25 04:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I don't want to come down on you heavy or hard,oh' ya'
you like things hard!!! Well,it sounds like you have a mind
so filled with lust combined with alot of extreme drama that
it over rides all your thinking!!! Your boyfriend needs a good
woman,& I hope he finds one,because women like you make
abusive people think abuse is normal & it's NOT!
2007-01-25 04:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if sex is more important to you than the relationshiop then maybe you should find someone who likes the same things that you do sexually. who's to say what's normal and what isn't in sex anymore.
2007-01-25 04:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some like it rough, yes it is.
2007-01-25 04:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should explore BDSM as it sounds as if that's what you enjoy. It can be really fun, if you're in to it.
2007-01-25 04:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have some issues that you need to address with a professinal --
2007-01-25 04:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by brainfreeze007 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
hah...alot of girls like really rough sex.
2007-01-25 04:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by confidential 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋