Alright, so I'm a freshman in college and so is the guy I'm crushing on...we met during our first semester b/c we had class together and became close friends now this semester we don't get to see each other as often, but we still run into each other. Anyways, I told this guy that I like him (during our first semester @ school)...and well he told me he wasnt looking for a gf @ that time...but now it seems like he's going out of his way to hang out with me and my friends during out lunch time. He's a really sweet guy and I hope he does like me back, but I don't know how to read the signs he's giving me...my friends say they know he likes me just by the way he acts...but I guess I'm just blind or something b/c I can't tell...so basically my question is how do I flirt without coming off too strongly and also how do I know if he likes me as much as I like him? if someone can please tell me this i would deeply appreciate it...thanks for reading and any advice you give : )
2007-01-25 04:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by icingonthekake99 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he seems to be flirting back but i could be mistaken... and i dont think he's going for one of my friends...
2007-01-25 06:38:56 · update #1
It is entirely possible that he does like you, but for whatever reason just isn't ready to have a girlfriend, as he has already told you. I wouldn't waste time worrying about what his agenda is, he likes hanging out with you, that is good enough. Maybe he wants to focus on schoolwork? In any case, good for him in knowing his own boundries.
As far as what you should do - nothing! You are in a good situation here, you get to just relax and have fun (and that is when people are most attractive anyway). Just be yourself, he obviously likes you as you are already. You've already put yourself out there once - when and if he is ready, he will ask you out. Just enjoy hanging out in the meantime :) You also don't have to limit yourself to liking him either, or make yourself feel like you are waiting for him. No need to be entirely fixated on one person. Go crush on a bunch of different people! If he likes you, he'll come after you no matter what. Have fun and good luck!
2007-01-25 04:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dont get friends involved. Secondly is he flirting back with you or is he hanging out with you and your friends because he has the hots for one of the other girls? If your friends are saying they know he likes you then guess what sweetheart ASK HIM OUT just to a move or something nothing major see if he accepts then go from there. If he says no ty then move on
2007-01-25 05:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that I could say to you is rejection is hard for any of us to deal with, but if you feel that this could be your soul mate than ask him out. I wouldn't wait for him to make the moves, because somebody else may make them on him. Some guys are just shy, and lack the self confidence it takes to ask somebody out .remember one thing if this goes any where make sure that you like the inner person, because after the new of the relationship wears off that's all you have. That hunk he once was you mite not see anymore do to the inner person.
2007-01-25 04:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by russell c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.)If you have a mutual friend to ask him, do it. 2.) just start out a conversation about what your doing this weekend and see if he is interested and I'm sure you'll be able to notice it should be obvious if he likes you in that way or not. 3.)Or you could go play the part and say you met this one guy and see how he reacts to it . Good luck.=)
2007-01-25 04:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by socal29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at him. That's all you have to do. A smile says you like me, it says you are a fun person, it says you are open to having more conversation.
Twisting your hair while you are looking at him, is a subliminal way women tell men they like what they see. Twisting your hair, you must admit, is comforting to you. You are relaxing yourself when you do this. When a woman twists her hair while she's talking to me, I know she wants to relax with me and I make her comfortable.
The best approach is this. He sounds alot like me. A little shy when it comes down to CLOSING the deal with a goodlooking woman. We like agressive women who come right out and tell us what they are feeling. So just walk up and tell him this "Look, it's evident that we both like each other and need to get to know one another." "I'm sometimes shy when it comes right down to meeting an attractive guy like you!" But you know what? I realized that you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. So here I am, my name is ________. We've met around campus before but I really would like to get to know you better. Who knows? Worst case we make a new friend."
2007-01-25 04:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't blind. It sounds like his actions have changed and you were going off the information he gave earlier. As such it has confused you a bit. I would suggest a movie and dinner as friends. See how that goes and talk about it if you feel it went well.
2007-01-25 04:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-27 23:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were bold enough to let him know you liked him before. you should be bold enough to ask him to meet you after school for a study session/soda/lunch (leave the school grounds)/dinner.
Then just talk with him - see if the spark's there. Away from your friends and the hustle and bustle of school, he might open up more.
2007-01-25 04:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will ask you out when he is ready. Obviously he has not forgotten about you as he is seeking you out at lunchtime.
Just relax and wait.
2007-01-25 04:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you can reminisce your good old 1st sem class days... or tell him how lucky his girl would be since he's such a sweetie. flatter him. make him smile and laugh. be yourself. ü good luck. :)
2007-01-25 04:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋