My sister is not at all intersted in marriage. she is 25 now and settled too. she never got an affair,the thing is she is not at all intersted in males. she treats all males as devils and ghosts.she has the fear that she will be harresed and will be killed.when ever we put the marriage proposal she will be upset and go into deep depression. Please any one guide me how to make her interested in males and how to convince her for marriage
2007-01-25 03:32:03 · 8 answers · asked by kool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
show movies like DDL , KKHH, DPH, K3G , Kal ho na ho, Mai hoo naa. i think she will change her mind.
2007-01-25 03:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She will be interested in marrying a man when she feels comfortable with a man.There is a specific reason or reasons behind her negative perception about men.Through her journey,she might have come across men that has misbehaved or portrayed thier devilish nature.But its a bad idea to generalise the nature of men based on few coward men.
The best suggestion is to discuss about a lot of men that are known for thier generousity.You need to pick or choose the characteristics of men that have contributed to the wellness and prosperity of the society or the world as a whole.You can also choose a relative or someone local,popular that has worked for noble causes.Gather some information about thier humble nature and set a conversation with your sister whenever possible.You need to create a pleasant environment during convo and get rid of her deep seated beliefs or prejudices regarding men.
You should make her feel comfortable while talking about men.Your efforts and time will redefine your sister's interpretation about men.Let her know that not all men are abusers.
When the right guy comes along she will feel good about him and would also share her life with him wholeheartedly.
2007-01-25 06:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but it sounds like your sister MIGHT have been a victim of child molestation. This has two extreme effects on some girls. Effect #1 is they become gay and #2 they may become infatiated with older men but there are many levels of between. She's had some kind of childhook experience that has brought her to the way she is now.
Don't push the "marriage" thing on her any more if it only makes her mad. Consintrate on getting her to see men as a counter part. The hard part is going to be finding a guy that isn't going to push her into doing anything. First find her a male friend, just a friend. Start from the bottom and work your way up. A friend can turn into a relationship in due time as long as she's not forced into anything.
2007-01-25 03:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hai brother,I really appreciate you woorying your sister.She has getting lovely brother.O.K.First You analyse the problem.Where?why?How?She seriously affected some
incidents?It may be your relative or friends.Her friends
might be possible to failed married life.or she has watching TV news,or Daily News paper -abusing girl related with Male.You should tell her most of the responsible gents are living in our land very kind hearted
person.After marriage,In India most of the Husband
respecting wife words.44% Husbands living with Father-in-law&mother in law..70% of the Husband loving his wife
This is survay report(IIT,Chennai)It may be 10%gents living bad charectors.Your sister watching black dot in full
white paper.You tell her rest full in white paper.Tell
positive thinks in Gents.Better bring your sister one Medical expert to consult heath checkup
2007-01-25 04:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no the thing may be that she would be more interested in becoming independent
may be she like some1 but cant tell you all
or may be she is scared of leaving u all
but you have to ask her that if she love some one than its ok
otherwise she have to marry,as our society would not allow any girl to live comfortable....
you ask her if she dont want to than its ok but than she have to keep studying make her future brighter so that no one can point out ur parents
2007-01-25 20:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by ziya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her live her life independently & in the way she wants 2 live. don`t force her 4 anything. allow her 2 take her own decisions of her life. let her b away from the males.by taking these steps , she will b able 2 live her life happily.
2007-01-25 03:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by ...... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may ur family environment b like tht ,thts y she motivated her mind like tht so take her into modern culture r may b her frds circle is like tht.
2007-01-25 05:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe be when she gets married she will eventually change her mind but its gona happen when she wants it to be
2007-01-25 05:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋