well yeah she was my bestfriend but til last year she got on my nerves. she wasnt a good friend anymore. she didnt tell me when the guy i used to like got with one of my friends. then she ditch me on my birthday to go to a party that i wasnt invited to. i was not gonna go if they invited me because it was the girlfriend of the guy i liked party. so then i just started to ignore her more and more. and the summer came and her mom called my mom saying that they were moving to texas. my supposebly bestfriend didnt call me. and i know that she is talking to people at school. she says that i was acting weird and all that stuff. well duh i had a lot of problems. and also she said that i didn't care so that is why she didnt tell me that she was going to move. tell me if i should talk to her?????
2007-01-25 03:29:16 · 15 answers · asked by sunshinebear8 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are the best judge. Depends how many yrs u have been together , what all u have been thru. What has life given her, bad times etc, people change u know. Its a matter of perspective, maybe she sees things differently than u do.From where she is, she might be blaming u for all this.
Anyhow, do what u think is best. If u really feel bad about allthis, leave it for a while at least. See how it goes. U will make more frds.
2007-01-25 03:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm it sounds like not having this relationship makes you sort of sad, and it sounds like a bunch of miscommunications or something has almost destroyed it. I don't think you have anything to lose by talking to your friend and trying to clear things up before she moves. Apologize for anything you've done, and tell her you realize maybe ya'll won't be as close as you once were, but that you do value the friendship and would hate for her to leave with things as they are. If she acts like an immature b*word....at least you tried, and you can feel good about yourself, and it probably won't hurt as much when she leaves. Good luck hon, friendships are hard work sometimes.
2007-01-25 03:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give her one more chance to talk to you. If she doesn't wanna put any effort herself in, i think you should move on.
The thing about High school is, most the "best friends" you make, your one day going to forget, as horrible as that sounds, its true.
Its not hard to find someone else you can relate to, really. She obviously doesn't care herself. I know how you feel, I'm 20 and I'm going through the same thing. I was little miss popular in school and now i got maybe 3 true friends, and that's all you really need, Mom, Dad, and my Fiance' and I'm happy with just that, you'll realize that yourself one day
2007-01-25 03:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by smittysmitty333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a fascinating question. i believe that you'll't forgive without forgetting, yet you could ignore and forgive. some people ought to assert so that you could no longer ignore so that you study out of your mistake or from the incorrect that someone has achieved to you. yet in case you could't ignore then you genuinely may save that sorrow or anger interior your self. So per chance you should study the lesson, forgive the guy, and ignore the incorrect.
2016-10-16 02:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by weatherford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really your best friend she wouldn't act this way towards you and dis you the way she did. Let her move on and time for you to find a new best friend.
2007-01-25 06:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Weezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a bitcharoonydoony. Hmm....I would talk to her even though she's been such a jerk. Just because you may never see her again. (NOt that you should want to) but just don't apologize, just say goodbye i'll miss you and get her adress or something.
2007-01-25 03:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by puffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I think that you need to just talk to her and see whats up with her before it too late and she moves
2007-01-25 03:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Apple Bottomz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if shes a *****, then dont hang out with her. plain and simple. just ignore her until she gets the hint. im pretty sure she knows what she's done
2007-01-25 03:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget her you are better than that and will make better and more friends. Goodluck
2007-01-25 03:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her. forget about her. make a new friend. she doesn't sound like a good friend
2007-01-25 04:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋