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I have a friend who has a male friend who is so addicted to marijuana that he will do anything to get it and have it all day, the only time of the day is not smoking is at work and when he is sleep, yesterday she cooked a big dinner and he wanted a particular kind his brother sold and she was not going there for him risking her life, car and safety ask him to get some locally walking distance and he left walking to get it and never came back. He he walked 2-3 miles to his brothers house to smoke because he knew he could smoke free and get some to go, he has a lexus but has supended license and afraid to drive. Either way his needs help and she needs to let him go, he was so desperate his left his plate on the table.
He will smoke with any body not knowing what's rapped inside just because it smells like it does not mean it is, We call him & his family palm tree or forest, because the will smoke a forest in half of day. What should she do? No they do not live together they kick it

2007-01-25 03:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by ladybug 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

SMOKE WEED AND FLY!!!

2007-01-25 03:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 1 0

It's a little hard to understand your question because I'm not sure English is your first language...but no matter.

If this pot-smoking male is interested only in the herb, then he's made his own choice. If he wants to keep putting it first, then everything (and everyone) else will only ever be second. If your friend can't accept that, she should move on and that would be this male's loss.

Marijuana in itself is not addictive. There are people who indulge occasionally and without adverse effects, much like alcohol. Those with addictive or abusive tendencies, however, are more likely to become addicted psychologically, not because of pot but because of their personalities or brain chemistry. This male may also be obsessive-compulsive. People with OCD find it very difficult to NOT do something--be it pot or lawnmowing or anything.

That's not to say this guy isn't a loser. He certainly sounds it--suspended license, walking 2-3 miles to bum some weed. That's not to say all pot smokers are losers--I indulge occasionally for what I feel are the right reasons: relaxation and heightened creativity and sense of humor. Weed is no different from alcohol--use it responsibly and maturely and there are no problems. Abuse it and you're a loser.

2007-01-25 15:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Just because he has a 'marijuana head' doesnt mean he is not a good person. Maybe he wanted to smoke weed before he ate, i mean, after all, when you EAT when you are HIGH the high tends to go away. Just let the man smoke and he will be in a good mood for all, and there will be no more drama

2007-01-25 11:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

There are mixed results of whether it is addictive or not. I believe that it is related to chemicals in the brain and not the drug itself. I would suggest going to a specialist to see if there could be a chemical imbalance in the brain that the chemicals in the marijuana are reacting to. I would seek help in any form. NA or a medical doctor. She should also stay away if it is a problem.

2007-01-25 11:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by zumi 3 · 0 0

Addictions cause alot of problems, as you see.
Unless this man is willing to make a change and beat his addiction, his habit will always come first. Your friend should either encourage her man to get help and see him through this time or leave him. She is headed for a long road of dissappointments and pain and if he is willing to sell his soul for this drug., then he will never fully value and honor her if he doesn't value his own life. She should go--for her own sake.

2007-01-25 11:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0 0

HOLD ON NOW!

You can't get addicted to pot! I know of people whom have smoked it in large quantities for many many years and then just dropped it for one reason or another.

I don't know who the hell told you it's addictive but they were lying to you and anyone that says otherwise has never, in their life smoked it and if you haven't smoked it then you don't know so therefore they're lying.

Sorry but I just want to clear that up.

2007-01-25 12:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1 0

1. your friends friend is not addicted to weed as it is not possible, it is however possible to like weed alot as it is fun entertaining and so forth.
2. you need to smoke weed because i am sure he is telling you he is not addicted. next time he tries to get you to hit it, just say yes
3. worry about yourself and now how much weed somebody else smokes because you saw a stupid government ad that said weed was bad or addictive or some stupid ****, so answer, she should not be a pussy and get over it and smoke more.......


p.s. i bet he didnt forget about his plate when he came back baked

2007-01-29 04:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell her to dump him, it's obvious that pot is more important to him. She went out of her way to cook him a nice big meal because she loves him and he left it sitting there to run off to get his high. I can see where his heart is and it's not with her. It's time to move on because he's only going to get worse. If he's that desperate to get high, how long will it be before he finds another drug to get him more high?

2007-01-25 11:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by CLM 6 · 0 0

Weed is not physically addictive. It COULD be habit forming. This guy just sounds like he has no self control.

2007-01-26 19:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by TheMan 1 · 0 0

Unfortunately as weed is addictive he is the only person who can stop him from doing it. If she is very desparate then why doesn't she go to the police and tell them he is doing drugs in her house. It is after all illegal. A stint in prison might be all the rehab he needs. Dope heads are not fun to be around.

2007-01-25 11:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0 3

This rambling question looks like you're the one who's toking up.

2007-01-25 11:32:43 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0 1

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