Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

2007-01-03 01:15:04 · 23 answers · asked by sanjay 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 01:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by shil 2 in Friends

I am getting married in septemeber so we are haveing a fall wedding. I do not want a regular cake topper..We have thought about doing fall leaves (red,orange and yellow) but we just cant decide..does anyone have any good idea for cake toppers that would go along with the fall theme?

2007-01-03 01:13:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-03 01:13:31 · 4 answers · asked by Prakash K 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know wether my feelings are puppy love or the real love.
Please Help Me!

2007-01-03 01:12:52 · 4 answers · asked by happy_crazy_in_love 2 in Singles & Dating

Im only 16, obviosuly still in my teens, Ive worked hard in life, with school, now gone to college, so far ive got my head around everything thats been thrown at me, and it had worked out fine.

Im a fan of girls and I get my fare share of attention, sometimes the attention is more seriouse and leads to relationships.

Ive never been able to get my head around Love, and why it hurts me so much, each time I fall for someone, I dont mean to, but it ends up hurting.

Whats everyones ideas on love and jelousy, and why it hurts so much more then friendship.

Hope this makes sence, if not ill edit :)

2007-01-03 01:11:40 · 7 answers · asked by Hb 2 in Singles & Dating

So i am a teenager girl. I am really sorry that i can't share this with MY parents..because its not about me, its about my friend. My friend is from a ..you know sort of family which does not approve BF/GFs. But she has a relationship with a boy. Nobody in her family knows. Last week she called me, she was crying, she told me that she is not allowed to talk to anyone else but me, she is not even allowed to go to her coaching classes (where she meets her bf). She told me that she loves the boy and can't live without him. what would you advice me to do? I want to see her happy..she is happy with that boy but from her family's point of view, its wrong. We are 16 yrs old.

2007-01-03 01:10:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't mean these women are air-heads, they provide stimulating conversation....

2007-01-03 01:09:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've already tried sayin g I feel like I'm going to be sick and I'm a great actress, they believed me but just said try and go for a few hours (at least 4 about they said) and then come home if you still don't feel well!!!! Any suggestions?

2007-01-03 01:07:57 · 12 answers · asked by sparklindiamondsatine 5 in Friends

I was in a relationship for almost 1-1/2 yrs that has very recently ended (he ended it after a very minor fight). I tried to end the relationship prior to this, but he told me that we could make it through anything and that he could not live without me, etc. I know in my head that this is for the best, but my heart is so in love with him. I want to know why he lied to me for so long. I can't seem to resist the urges to txt or email him, not because I am "stalking" him, but because I want to understand why he changed his mind/if all of the words he told me really were just lies. I have only had one other break up that was really bad, a 3-1/2 yr relationship, and I don't like how I dealt with the pain from that, I turned to alcohol and became someone I couldn't stand for 2 yrs. I don't have any friends to turn to, he didn't like any of my friends, so we lost touch. I still have my best friend who is now married, so it's hard to go to her for support. Any ideas on how to move on?

2007-01-03 01:07:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't think I'm ready to stop seeing other men but he says he can't wait, oh yeah, he's 35....I'm 24 his daughter is 16. She hates me.

2007-01-03 01:07:06 · 31 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to my bf last nite and we couldn't agree on this. He has a really good female friend that he's known for 18 years and he feels like she's a sister to him. Nothing has actually happened between them, but there was 2 occasions where he made some inappropriate passes at her when he was drunk. During New Year's Eve, we were hanging out, drinking, and having a good time. As the evening progressed, she laid her legs across his lap for a little bit, which didn't both me too much cause I was right there. I can see that as being a bro/sis bond. But then she jumped on his back for a piggy back ride because he was in her way. In my eyes, these actions made me a little uncomfortable. It just seemed like inappropriate behavior. He doesn't see anything wrong with it. He stresses that they are like bro and sis. Am I over reacting?

2007-01-03 01:07:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and i love him very much but i had sex with my ex boyfriend in november but i came out and told him if you were his mother would you forgive me or would you ask your son to leave me i mean every one makes mistakes but i know that the one that i made was overboard

2007-01-03 01:06:55 · 10 answers · asked by beautiful 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me I'm naive in relationships. I think it's because of the way I react when he doesn't call me very often, he told me that his guard is up now because I called him a using bastard via text message and I think he sees me as the nagging type that is insecure. How can I make him think otherwise? and what does he really mean by saying I'm naive in relationships? do you think he likes me enough to point this out? I'm 22 xx

2007-01-03 01:06:39 · 8 answers · asked by Angelina M 1 in Singles & Dating

I invited him to my single mom's house so that he could ask for my hand. However, after that meeting, he seduced my mom and now both are married to each other. I am totally devastated. what should I do?

2007-01-03 01:06:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife is on birth control and ran out. We got together for unprotected action and I asked her if it would be a good idea to get that Plan B just in case (since we already have 3 kids and hadn’t planned on having anymore). Now because I mentioned that, she’s all upset saying that I don’t want to have kids with her and all I care about is shoving pills down her throat so that god forbid I wouldn’t have any kids with her. I told her that it’s not that, it’s just a safe way to prevent an unplanned pregnancy and we have enough to deal with the 3 kids already and I don’t want to make things harder on us. Plus she was taking birth control in the first place! We had talked about not having any more kids and it seems she’s all hurt that I don’t want to have anymore kids with her! It’s not that it’s just we didn’t talk about it, she’s not sure she wants more, and it would bring undue stress on us but she’s taking it as a personal slight like I think it would be just horrible to have kids with her (our 3 kids are from other partners). I told her it’s not that but I’d rather have a planned pregnancy. She doesn’t get it and is pissed and I can’t get through to her about it.

2007-01-03 01:05:58 · 7 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a boyfriend and i love him very much but i had sex with my ex boyfriend in november but i came out and told him if you were his mother would you forgive me or would you ask your son to leave me i mean every one makes mistakes but i know that the one that i made was overboard

2007-01-03 01:05:15 · 5 answers · asked by beautiful 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont like James Blunt..
but somehow these lyrics touch me...
what do u think?

James Blunt Lyrics

Goodbye My Lover Lyrics



Did I disappoint you or let you down?
Should I be feeling guilty or let the judges frown?
'Cause I saw the end before we'd begun,
Yes I saw you were blinded and I knew I had won.
So I took what's mine by eternal right.
Took your soul out into the night.
It may be over but it won't stop there,
I am here for you if you'd only care.
You touched my heart you touched my soul.
You changed my life and all my goals.
And love is blind and that I knew when,
My heart was blinded by you.
I've kissed your lips and held your hand.
Shared your dreams and shared your bed.
I know you well, I know your smell.
I've been addicted to you.

Goodbye my lover.
Goodbye my friend.
You have been the one.
You have been the one for me.

I am a dreamer and when i wake,
You can't break my spirit - it's my dreams you take.
And as you move on, remember me,
Remember us and all we used to be
I've seen you cry, I've seen you smile.
I've watched you sleeping for a while.
I'd be the father of your child.
I'd spend a lifetime with you.
I know your fears and you know mine.
We've had our doubts but now we're fine,
And I love you, I swear that's true.
I cannot live without you.


And I still hold your hand in mine.
In mine when I'm asleep.
And I will bare my soul in time,
When I'm kneeling at your feet.
Goodbye my lover.
Goodbye my friend.
You have been the one.
You have been the one for me.

I'm so hollow, baby, I'm so hollow.
I'm so, I'm so, I'm so hollow.
I'm so hollow, baby, I'm so hollow.
I'm so, I'm so, I'm so hollow.

2007-01-03 01:04:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 01:04:06 · 8 answers · asked by sexy2_kiss 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well this is what happen, I lived with my X boyfriend for over a 1yr and 6 months when I just come home one day and he tells me he doesnt feel the same way for me anymore. I said its fine and walked out of his life...I broke down in tears later. When about an Hour later he hooks up with my best friend...*sigh* Now they are together and trying to steal my friends away, I know if the ppl I hang out with our my true friends they wont believe the smack they are talking about me behind my back so what Do I do, should I talk smack too? Or go with the old mythoed and kick there butts??

2007-01-03 01:03:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am looking for some glass votive candle holders and I need about 350 of them. Anybody know of any place you can get them in bulk for a cheap price?

2007-01-03 01:03:15 · 15 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Weddings

My daughters bedroom is like a bomb site with debris strewn everywhere yet my lads bedroom is pretty neat in comparison.When I was younger my brothers room was a mess with sweet wrappers, bits of junk in every crevice and underwear and socks lying where he left them..the comparison between the two is not far off the mark !

2007-01-03 01:03:07 · 23 answers · asked by mickey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 01:03:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love agirl who is 1year older than me.i love her very much but i am scared to propose her. please tell me ways how to propose in such a situation

2007-01-03 01:02:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean......I'm over here strugglin'. Back in the day, I was a little on the wild side. The label "player" may have applied, but now I'm married. My wife is a total honey and we have a little son who is the greatest kid.

The thing is.....I must be sending off some kind of vibe or something. I don't know, but no matter how hard I try to be friends with the opposite sex .....just me being me makes women curious. I know I'm a social kind of dude and all...but I'm f*ckin' shell shocked right now because I think I'm being a friend to someone and then they turn around and want to get with me. And it's hard because by the time that happens, then I'm bonded to these people.

My wife is oblivious sometimes to it because we're both kinda flirty and she gets PO'd sometimes, but if she really KNEW how close I come to bangin' someone else.........man!

I'm totally clustered.

Do I need to just board up my doors and windows, and swear off all ties with women? Seriously.

2007-01-03 01:00:35 · 12 answers · asked by j.bertie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they did it right. I tried to bl*w, but now it's clogged and looks like an eggplant, what can I do?

2007-01-03 01:00:34 · 10 answers · asked by seahawk 1 in Singles & Dating

We have not talked at all, I went by the house this morning to pick up some stuff after she went to work, and I noticed that the ring was no longer in the box with her other jewelery, leading me to believe she must be wearing it again (even though she still wont call me, she said she would call when she was ready). The house is a mess (which is normally very tidy) and a note that I wrote to her was lying in the bed. What should I make of this, does this mean she still wants to be together? How do I procede from here?

2007-01-03 00:59:20 · 9 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

okay im not gd looking in the looks department but i knew someone who is not so too but have men approach her .. i think im giving some kind of negative vibe .. some of the men stares and tried to smile but i will not return the smile coz i;m afraid he mite be smiling at someone else..
what can i do to stop giving the negative perception of me to others...

2007-01-03 00:59:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I've been married for one year and a month and we have been going through a rocky relationship since we met. I thought getting married would put our problems behind us. Boy, was I wrong. After four years of being together his ex calls out of the blue and they were talking for a whole month and I knew nothing about it until I looked at the phone bill one day. I confronted him about it and we talked and that was it. We agreed that we wouldn't make new friends of the upset sex. OK. Two days ago a private number called and I picked up. It was a man's voice who I told not to call my phone unless work related. Husband asks who was that, I lied and said it was my girlfriend but he already heard the man voice. A few minutes later I told him who it was and that I told the man not to call my phone. Now, as I was able to day by day get over of his month secret, he can't speak to me and its been two days. I've just been really depressed and can't stand when men are two sided.

2007-01-03 00:57:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I find myself being used for sex in almost eery relationship I've been in. Why? My current bf told me I'm naive in relationships...

2007-01-03 00:57:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating