Well this is what happen, I lived with my X boyfriend for over a 1yr and 6 months when I just come home one day and he tells me he doesnt feel the same way for me anymore. I said its fine and walked out of his life...I broke down in tears later. When about an Hour later he hooks up with my best friend...*sigh* Now they are together and trying to steal my friends away, I know if the ppl I hang out with our my true friends they wont believe the smack they are talking about me behind my back so what Do I do, should I talk smack too? Or go with the old mythoed and kick there butts??
2007-01-03 01:03:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Doesn't sound like a best friend to me. If I were you I'd make an entirely new group of friends and never speak to them again. Of course making new friends is easier said that done. You should move to a different city - making friends is easier when you've just moved and started a new job.
2007-01-03 01:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe it or not, your mutual friends don't really want to pick sides at all. It probably makes your true friends very uncomfortable when he talks about you at all.
The best thing you can do is just lay low. Don't let him, or your friends know that it bothers you. A reaction will only make you look guilty. If the so called friend joins the smack talk, they are not your friend, and never were, so forget them and move on. Sometimes it does a body good to move on to a new circle of friends and re-invent yourself. New people, new ideas, and new relationships without the baggage of the past can be very rewarding.
2007-01-03 01:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by shfincter S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these two people went behind your back and started a relationship, they deserve each other. A person who will cheat WITH you will also cheat ON you, so wipe the mud off your feet and get on with your life. Your true friends will still love you and the others don't matter.
Always remember that the best revenge is living well.
2007-01-03 01:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should grow up. He's the loser in this situation. Kicking someones butt or talking smack about them only makes this situation worse. Ignore them. They deserve each other. Sooner or later it'll come back to him and bite him in the a**.
2007-01-03 01:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by laney 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with shop it to your self. the certainty is that all of it comes out and the longer its saved a secret the bigger the result. you have to be easy and punctiliously upfront jointly with your spouse , the blended thoughts are the clarification that this would happen back. She replaced into in a susceptible place on the time you weren't. Your account looks laiden with oblique jusitifcations, "married youthful" "spouse cheated on me" " she's controlling" "dont pass out lots". if your marriage isnt so beneficial then you definately could get some marriage guidance , in case you dont desire this and are not satisfied then look to seperate. cheating is cheating inspite of who did what first. The query for you is do you desire to artwork with the aid of this and in all probability shop your marriage? if definite then be open and you by no ability comprehend your spouse would forgive you it will be hardwork . Take Care
2016-10-19 09:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your friend isnt obviously your BESt friend if he/shes doing this. The ex does have a right to be with whoever they want, buddy of yours or not. It then lies in the hands of your friend, and THATS whose *** you should kick. Not your ex'es. Beat em down then go see your real friends. If they are real, then they wont listen to the crap, because they know where it comes from.
2007-01-03 01:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by ber439_0116 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd walk away from all of them if i were you, dont ever worry about what your so called friends are gonna think, if you have to worry about them taking your friends, they werent your friends to begin with, so there.
You be the better person.
2007-01-03 01:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your dignity in tack by ignoring them. Don't waste your time or energy on such nonsense. If your "friends" choose to believe them, then they are NOT your friends and you are better off without them.
2007-01-03 01:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As hard as this may be, I would just walk away.
2007-01-03 01:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by ashizz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find some new friends. "true" friends wouldn't do this to you.
2007-01-03 01:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lulamilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋