I don't think I'm ready to stop seeing other men but he says he can't wait, oh yeah, he's 35....I'm 24 his daughter is 16. She hates me.
2007-01-03 01:07:06 · 31 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him to sign a prenuptual aggreement, just watch him try and talk his way out of it
2007-01-03 01:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is definately no way. The fact that u say u are not ready to stop seeing other men is a sure sign u are no where near ready for marriage. He probably asked u out of insecurity. Not only is there an age gap but he probably has fear of losing u to someone else and is trying a desperate measure. As far as his daughter goes I don't know the details to that problem, but it would be nice if u could at least have a civil relationship with her before anything like marriage happens because that can cause alot of problems in the future. Marriage should only happen when u are 100% sure u want to spend the rest of your life with that person, and never before that.
2007-01-03 01:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then obviously you shouldn't. I am married to someone who is 13 years older than me. We got together when I had just turned 19. Been together almost 11 years, and married for 2. He has kids from a previous marriage who are closer to my age than he is. For a while, the age difference was not a factor, now it is more evident. I think if you have any doubts at all, don't do it!
2007-01-03 01:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by miranda h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know the answer to that. If you already have doubts then obviously you don't need to marry him. His daughter just hates you cause your only 8 years older than her. That's all. She can't look at you from a mother stand point. Your more of a big sister age. It kinda freaks her out.
Good luck what ever you choose.
2007-01-03 01:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his daughter is 16..just eight years younger to you. Other thing- no teenager girl would like her father dating a women who is not even 10 years older to her. But its better you think yourself about it. Its a decision of your future life. He can't wait coz he has got a much younger girl! What a luck! And in a few days his daughter would be an adult!
2007-01-03 01:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even have to consider asking this question, then the answer is NO. When you KNOW the answer in your heart, then it is time to marry. Otherwise, it is best to skip it. It is a tough situation to be in, but it happens all the time. If you marry when you are uncertain, though, it almost guarantees that you will be unhappy. Good luck!
2007-01-03 01:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 22 my boyfriend's 36 he has three kids (they love me sorry) he's asked me to marry him 4 times i always give him the same answer "Im not ready yet" and we're still together he also said he's never gonna ask me again that when i decide i'm ready to let him know. the point if your not ready let him know if he really loves you he will wait for you.
2007-01-03 01:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by HEIDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the fact that you just asked this question on Yahoo answers, and of course that you said you still want to see other men, tells me the answer to your question is obvious. NO YOU SHOULD NOT MARRY HIM. Doesn't take a genius to figure that one out.
2007-01-03 01:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you are ready to settle down then don't! You will just end up living unhappily married fantasizing about other men and maybe cheating one day. Live your life now and settle down later you are still young.
2007-01-03 01:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready to get married and his daughter does not like you, so it's a no.
2007-01-03 01:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by ashizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not marry him. If you want to see other men then you are not ready to get married. Be honest with him now so he doesn't wind up getting hurt.
2007-01-03 01:13:29 · answer #11 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋