Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I really dun understand why there is this 24 years old year lady fall in love with my husband and told my husband that if he divorce me then she will leave him ...
But when i confront her, she will says things like please forgive him bla bla bla, but she still goes on meeting my husband expect him to send and fetch her, having sex with my husband.
Also dunno what sort of portion did she gave my husband....now i am stuck what shd i do ...and she know jolly well that my husband uses violence on me ...
how shd i deal with it?

2007-01-03 01:32:51 · 19 answers · asked by Kiki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it worth it to harbor bad feelings for someone for so many years? Life is too short to stay angry forever. It's best just to let the past die and to continue looking forward with a smile on your face instead of a knot in your brow.

2007-01-03 01:32:07 · 24 answers · asked by Cindi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I see a lot of younger women with older guys and I always wonder what they see in them. I am curious about the motivation. Is it looking for stability, a father figure or just burned by younger wild guys?

2007-01-03 01:31:17 · 17 answers · asked by suzzieQ 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel really pathetic asking this, but I need some tips on how to get out and make new friends. I am just coming out of a long relationship that ended poorly. Because of him, I lost a lot of the friends that I had before he came along. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, they were party friends, and I have zero desire to party what-so-ever anymore. I used to be able to make friends very easily through work, but I do not work in that type of atmosphere anymore, I have one co-worker. I think some fresh faces might help me to remeber who I was before he came along and who I want to be. I am sorry if this sounds really pathetic.

2007-01-03 01:30:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend's husband died 6 months ago. They had a good marriage. She is understandably devastated. I'm not sure what to say to help her and I'm worried that she is dwelling on it too much but then again, it's normal to dwell on it and not be able to think about anything else. She is very unhappy, sometimes I worry that she is suicidal. She says things to the effect that she will never be happy again. I know that I'm supposed to just let her talk and be there for her, but I can't help but say things like "you will find love again" and "you have to move forward". I feel like I'm no help at all. I feel terrible for her but I also can't stand to see her in so much pain.

2007-01-03 01:30:25 · 8 answers · asked by mkk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 01:30:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some relationships start really sparky don't they? Wheras some is more 'matey' first and then develops... Which do you think works best?

2007-01-03 01:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister has always been a very aggressive person, rude, insulting and violent with no respect for me, or anyone in the family. We all felt released when she moved to her bf`s appt. (I wonder how do people like this make relationships with the opposite characters, I mean her bf is an angel, such a kind man!) She has been always poisoning my and my mother`s life, so my tactic the last years was to just ignore her when she behaves or talks badly. 2 months ago she offended me as badly as ever, I couldn`t believe it. So I cried, thought again and again and I took my decision: to not talk to her ever again ,end of this story, I don`t want to know her anymore. She didn`t seem to realise it in the beginning, but my mum told me that yesterday she was asked by my sister why don`t I talk to her. When my mother explained her why, she refused the whole thing. anyway I don`t care about this. The thing is that she announced to mum that she is getting married. What if i don`t want to be there?

2007-01-03 01:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by EMBELL 1 in Family

how do i remove my membership?

2007-01-03 01:29:39 · 2 answers · asked by d41440 2 in Friends

lets be honest, how many married for love and how many married for money?

2007-01-03 01:29:04 · 16 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 01:27:48 · 10 answers · asked by Virginia E 1 in Friends

2007-01-03 01:27:27 · 13 answers · asked by phishsports 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm doing a survey of how many girls are my age. I'm 16 and my birthday is October 18.

2007-01-03 01:26:11 · 10 answers · asked by happy_crazy_in_love 2 in Friends

If I say positive nice things to her she shruggs them off. If i complain or make a negative comment she goes mad. I feel helpless and want to pack my bag and leave. we have a five month old son.Help!!!!

2007-01-03 01:25:51 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 01:23:37 · 16 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf got very drunk the other night and became horrible !!..teh next morning he begged me to forgive him which i did .... the same day he became distant and wudnt tell me wat was rong ..... until that nite and he sed to me it was just he felt like he wasnt sure if he loved me but now he knew he really did love me !!! i was upset because it hurt to hear him say that ..then he changed his mind and said that wasnt wat was rong and in fact it was that he had a brain tumor !!! i asked him if hed bin the hospital he sed no !! ...i wasnt sure wat to do i really fink he meant that he didnt love me but just sed the tumor thing to stop me being upset ... i have told him i think we shud split because it hurts too much rite now and he is begging me to stay and cryin wen i say i want to leave ..... i ont know wat to do do u think he is playin mind games?? please any help i will be grateful of :) thx x

2007-01-03 01:23:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had questions about what my ex put me through and he finally had answered why.
We had talked about reconciling after he was released but only after he could prove to be a man and handle responsibility and he failed. He slept with an old dirty woman once and she lied about a pregnancy to keep him. He stayed with her because he tghought she may be and she pit up some money for a room after he lost his place. She had bonded him out of jail once and I guess he felt obligated to stay.
He acted real cold to me cuz he thought they were going to have a baby but her real self came out. He never got proof she was pregnant, she is an alchie too and she stole money from him. He told me that he gave her a date to get out and never see him again. He said he had been feeling reallow about what he di tom and we also have a son and he apologized but knows it will never be enough. He said he knows he ruined his life and she ruined it too. I ay what goes around commes around. Theres more...

2007-01-03 01:23:20 · 2 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex is dating a 21 year old, he is 37! AND I think my 16 year old son has a crush on her. Would you be concerned?

2007-01-03 01:22:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mobile. She said she'll come and see me on Wednesday and she never arrived. I then texted her and said I'd waited in all night to see her as she'd promised and was so looking forward to it, as I was extremely upset, as everything was stolen including all presents. I've heard no more from her. When she got burgled 3 years ago, I was straight round to her house with flowers and words of comfort and sympathy, but now it's my turn I've not heard or seen from her. What should I do? I had an Xmas present to give her this year, but unfortunately the burglars stole it. We usually exchange presents, but she never had a thing to give me this Xmas, and don't know why.

2007-01-03 01:21:42 · 15 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Friends

She broke up with me early last year as things weren't working out in her mind, despite us really liking each other & getting v close fast, as she'd just come out of a relationship & wasn't ready to move on (her Ex later proposed to her after we broke up). I was ready for something serious & told her I loved her - looking back, maybe I put too much pressure on her.

Months later we met again in summer and it seemed she still really liked me & perhaps regretted splitting although she didn't say - we ended up kissing briefly & hugging for a bit, and met again a few days later, but never talked about how things were going. I was afraid of getting hurt again, so never followed up with her & ignored some of her calls.

So... half a year on I sent her a Merry Xmas SMS and told her I still think of her & like her a lot. She replied "well, we've not seen each other much lately... :o)" then later "still like you, perhaps we could meet up".

Anyone any advice/ similar experience to help?

2007-01-03 01:21:36 · 3 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you found that your spouse was lieing about finances..saying they were paying or buying things but those things never were paid or bought????

2007-01-03 01:21:36 · 18 answers · asked by lynn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to find a friend I lost his address when I moves and I have called local jails they won't help and they told me to call the prison. But they can't help me either.

2007-01-03 01:21:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I,m divorcing him as many of you may already know because of his meth addiction,and although it not been easy I have stood my ground bcause of many atemps and broken promisis about getting off the dope and lying and all the other crap thats not good in our relationship.anyway hes been thretning to kill me almost constanly because I wont stop the divorce and let him live with me ,hes been (restraining )me from leaving the house when been bullying and badering me takes my keys and phone and makes me stay in the house ,he has a real fear of abandament because thats what keeps happening to him .yesterday morning he was suppose to go to work first time in two weeks when we woke he started in again again and asked the same question over again, why wont I give him A chance ,well its because I remember how many theres already been and things were just getting worse and Iso I told him that I CAN NOT AND WILL NOT STOP DIVORCE , He got up and came over and CHOKED me and told i need to Die

2007-01-03 01:20:21 · 17 answers · asked by cindybells 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 01:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by fastwateruk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

10th date to be precise?

2007-01-03 01:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Singles & Dating

give your feedback please

2007-01-03 01:17:41 · 32 answers · asked by shortysherry46 3 in Singles & Dating

Being a true gentleman I am, I didn't call this chick last month after sleeping with her. I thought she was cool chick that she understood all aaibmiester wanted was a lay, nothing more. However, her best friends kept on giving me these two a day voicemail crap. She leaves voicemail saying not so true stuff about aaibmiester. Last week I saw her in supermarket, I walked the other direction but then again her best friends left me voicemail saying why I walked out on her in Supermarket. How do I get rid of this psycho best friend chick? What is the deal with her? I want to invite them to my crib and let my bulldog go off on them.

2007-01-03 01:17:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before i say something i know my freand also love him so i left him fore my freand because he is my best freand now after 4year i stil mis him aftersome time i know my freand not love him he tell me

2007-01-03 01:17:05 · 7 answers · asked by puravin p 1 in Singles & Dating

She controls me and my brothers like a dictator and tells us it's for our own good. We got into an argument after i told her she is too controlling. At first she tried to cut me off by walking away or saying that she's busy but then it got heated and she started saying things about like what she could do instead of caring for us, but it was ridiculous because i know that she wont / dislikes / cant ever do those things (eg gambling and stuff). I told her that's crazy and stuff, and that it was possible for her but she's just confined to society's norms and its because of the way she was brought up. I've been feeling like this since i was in primary school, that i came this far with my own effort. I wasnt made to believe this, i didnt get encouragement when i needed it, i didnt get the emotional support needed, only tears. To me my parents are the people who feed me and house me, but that's about as far as it goes. I do have respect for them, i do wish them well, i do appreciate them,

2007-01-03 01:16:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been seeing a guy for a short time but have several other guys that I date as well. He is the only one that I see myself having a relationship with out of all of the guys taht I talk to although he has some baggage. I know he is totally infatuated with me, it could be because it is still "new". Should I consider myself "attached" and send the others packing or hold on a little while longer to see where this is going to go. I don't want him to catch on to the fact that I see other guys- that would totally send him running...?????

2007-01-03 01:16:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating