I feel really pathetic asking this, but I need some tips on how to get out and make new friends. I am just coming out of a long relationship that ended poorly. Because of him, I lost a lot of the friends that I had before he came along. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, they were party friends, and I have zero desire to party what-so-ever anymore. I used to be able to make friends very easily through work, but I do not work in that type of atmosphere anymore, I have one co-worker. I think some fresh faces might help me to remeber who I was before he came along and who I want to be. I am sorry if this sounds really pathetic.
2007-01-03 01:30:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay, let me rephrase: I don't have a problem making friends, I need to know ideas on places to go make friends. I do not go to clubs or bars.
2007-01-03 01:58:46 · update #1
hey don't worry a lot.... many ppl will come in life n will go out... it applies the same for that frnd who came into ur life..... ngange urself in some work like where there are many ppl...... go to one place regularly or go to some palce or devotional place or some club or meditation regularly... then u come 2 know the ppl around u n tat depends on u 2 whom u'll be frndly..... actually i was also in the same position.. later on i have started workin on the topic whcih was very interestin 2 me.. and there were many ppl who are interested in tat field.. slowly all bcame natural....
2007-01-03 01:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by aryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence about who you are, and be accepting of yourself. Chances are pretty good that what you like about yourself others will find attractive in you as well. Tell yourself you are valued, and a good person. Get in touch with your interests, and know who you really are. In order to make long lasting relationships with others, you need to become your own best friend first. The rest will just come naturally.
2007-01-03 09:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Future Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry! It sucks to have no or close to no friends...I'm kinda the same but I did make more friends when I got into a vollenteer program and started meeting with other vollenteers my age so maybe go out adn get involved in some things but yeah it's tough. They're out there waiting for you:) good luck
2007-01-03 09:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not pathetic. You have no idea how many people don't know how to do this, or think they know and just have acquaintances.
If you want to make friends, the simplest way is: be friendly.
If you REALLY want to master it, by all means, read: How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. It's a must!
2007-01-03 09:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Canadian Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Just be yourself. Take one of your other friends, go out and make new friends. Have fun! it doesn't sound pathetic. Trust me. And if your shy, Be a lil' more out going. Make yourself noticable. Show people that your the bigger and better person! Everyone likes a nice person. GoodLuck!
2007-01-03 09:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no not really. the best advice i can give you is just go out and be yourself. look on line for some clubs and organizations that you are into and go to a few. meet people like you. do things in your area that people hang out at.
2007-01-03 09:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by deitymike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh c'mon,it's ok,u'll be fine!!!Just go to the beach or for a walk in the park...u'll meet new people I'm sure
2007-01-03 09:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and just wait ..
friends come and go that's life....be funny....have your own opinions, don't copy them...listen to them, understand them if u can...try to be there for them....go out with them so they know that you like going with them and DON'T talk about them behind their backs...its the worst thing that u can do..remember this..ok??...girl don't worry...about not having friends??what are we...?? does that answer you questions?...=))...
2007-01-03 09:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
often,you won't gives advice to friend and if u see him, u should take smilling face.
2007-01-03 10:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by suganthan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to people. Talk to anyone.
2007-01-03 09:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋