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I have had questions about what my ex put me through and he finally had answered why.
We had talked about reconciling after he was released but only after he could prove to be a man and handle responsibility and he failed. He slept with an old dirty woman once and she lied about a pregnancy to keep him. He stayed with her because he tghought she may be and she pit up some money for a room after he lost his place. She had bonded him out of jail once and I guess he felt obligated to stay.
He acted real cold to me cuz he thought they were going to have a baby but her real self came out. He never got proof she was pregnant, she is an alchie too and she stole money from him. He told me that he gave her a date to get out and never see him again. He said he had been feeling reallow about what he di tom and we also have a son and he apologized but knows it will never be enough. He said he knows he ruined his life and she ruined it too. I ay what goes around commes around. Theres more...

2007-01-03 01:23:20 · 2 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

he is goiing to court tommorow and he will see if he has anymore time to do b/c his charge is not really to hold up b/c he was locked up when they say he violated probation so it shouldn't stick. I 'n not saying I want him back but I am glad I have the truth now. Should I feel guilty that he feels bad and now I feel better?

2007-01-03 01:25:42 · update #1

I meant to say I don't , DON'T want him back.

2007-01-03 02:20:11 · update #2

2 answers

I think the feelings are separate. He feels bad for what he has done and must live with that. You feel better for knowing the truth.

What you decide to do should be in the best interest of yourself and those you care for (the son). Your ex has put himself on the outside not you. He needs to continue to be a good father and meet his duties head on.

Where it all goes from there is still the future. Be alert and mindful of both your actions and his. Harm no one. the rest is optional.

2007-01-03 03:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Eric E 3 · 0 0

ok, why do you want him back exactly? its sounds like a case of " you would be better off out of all the drama thats in this mans life."

2007-01-03 09:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by angel1 5 · 0 0

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