I really dun understand why there is this 24 years old year lady fall in love with my husband and told my husband that if he divorce me then she will leave him ...
But when i confront her, she will says things like please forgive him bla bla bla, but she still goes on meeting my husband expect him to send and fetch her, having sex with my husband.
Also dunno what sort of portion did she gave my husband....now i am stuck what shd i do ...and she know jolly well that my husband uses violence on me ...
how shd i deal with it?
2007-01-03 01:32:51 · 19 answers · asked by Kiki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it truly boggles my mind that ladies can actually think like you, go take a does or two of SELFESTEEM
2007-01-03 02:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probable does not even understand what grew to become into going on reason... my sister is 14, and has a pal who's 13, yet this pal is like 5'10. If that chick grew to become into kissing some 29 12 months old guy, and that i did no longer actual understand the two of their a while, I actually does not understand their a while, and not something would look out of order there.... & some respected person women all people is like 4'10. I see that frequently sufficient. For all i understand he would be a.Kissing an quite short grown lady B.Kissing an quite tall piece of jailbait.
2016-10-29 21:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your husband is violent with you, cheats on you, and you're still with him for what reason?
Let her have him, wipe your feet clean of him, and move on to greener pastures.
You're the one getting the short end of the stick here, possibly an STD or worse. Honestly, do you have a reason to stick by him? Even if you do have kids, as the parents you two are the role models for their future relationships. Would you want your sons doing this to their wives? Would you stand by and do nothing if this situation were happening to your daughter?
Get out of this relationship. You'll meet somone new, someone better.
2007-01-03 01:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi, the situation is odd...but....i would just leave him!!! He cheats on u and also uses violence so why are u still thinking about it?? You're jung why waste time on a man like this...and did i get it right the 24 year old doesn't want him to leave u but also want's him for herself?? something like continue staing with u re wife but f.... with me sometimes??? WOW .....Unlucky....
2007-01-03 01:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sssssssss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she isn't interested in a commitment from him, and she knows if he leaves u he will want to be with her full time. why would u want to remain with such a man, why not divorce him? why stay where u are not loved, and abused. as u don't deserve this,think u feel somewhat deserving of his mistreatment of u, due to low self worth, caused by his abuse of u. get rid of this man if at all possible, as he will never respect u, u allow this out of him. stand up for yourself and show him he can't get away with this.
2007-01-03 01:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to contact a crisis center domestic abuse center to get out of your situation. Don't delay anymore and get out now. You need to take care of yourself. He does not love you and if it's not this girl, it would be someone else.
You deserve much better, so get out and start your own life and find someone who can respect you and treat you like a decent human being you are!
2007-01-03 01:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice....GET OUT NOW. If he gets violent with you, now,
he'll just get more violent (no matter what he says). Years ago, one man I was with, almost killed me.
I got out, with the help of a friend. I am now married to a wonderful man and have 2 children.
You don't have to put up with that.
2007-01-03 01:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by txharleygirl1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You accept the fact that your husband is having an affair on you? And then you let him get violent with you? I think you need to leave and get help!
mb
2007-01-03 01:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
kiki, first of all, I am so sorry about everything, no one deserve to be hit on please seek help, but it took two of you all to get together, it is going to take the both of you to fix this, or you can just leave, which is what I would do if anyone put his hands on me, please find and love yourself enough to say "Alright Already", stop making him your priority, while you are just being an option to him
2007-01-03 01:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ann J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it this way:
1. Leave him
2. Divorce him
3. Move on with your life.
He CHEATS on you AND "uses violence" on you.... are you kidding me? GET OUT, sista.
2007-01-03 01:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave your husband...and let them live happily ever after. You deserve better!
2007-01-03 01:48:09 · answer #11 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋